Originally Posted by Pimpmofo

I understand what you are talking about with the "gay voice." It is a choice they have to talk that way which is unnecessary, the same way rappers use their ghetto slang and accents is unnecessary and influence more people to talk that way. I think along with the gay lifestyle comes influences and peer pressure to talk and act more feminine in certain groups. My wife and I have a very close friend that's this way and we call him "The Flamer." He's very proud of his name. Other gay friends show no stereotypical gay tendencies and most people except close friends have no idea about their lifestyle.

I am married and did it only so we could reap each other's benefits from our jobs. I hope that my wife and I are together our whole lives, but an official peice of paper that was signed by us and some guy that thought he was important does nothing to make our relationship stronger. It is my opinion that we would be together the rest of our lives regardless.
We decided a long time ago that we wouldn't have kids. I have been married 10 years. The "tools given to us" are wasted on my wife and I. We are an heterosexual couple that just as well be gay, according to the way I understand your post since we don't use the "tools" for reproduction.