Am i being stalked on facebook?

downxandxout · 27th November 2009, 04:17

To cut the story short... In the past I've had an ex girlfriend create an account on facebook to basically stalk me whilst she's been blocked, so since then I'm always wary about who i accept as a friend.

However, from out of the blue a random girl added me the other day.

You might say to yourself, "if she's a random, then don't accept her" which is a very good point.

However i don't wish to be suspicious of everyone that adds me.

So, can you think of any tell tale signs that the profile is a fake one?

Seems to have legit pictures, only 3 pages mind... Over two hundred friends... Any ideas?

esmufc10 · 27th November 2009, 04:24

Just be honest and ask her is she your ex-girlfriend. Surely she wouldn't lie?

cold-zebra · 27th November 2009, 04:25

It's me.

MUFC07 · 27th November 2009, 04:35

How many friends in common do you have?

Eriku · 27th November 2009, 04:39

Over two hundred friends?

No fake account.

mjs020294 · 27th November 2009, 04:42

Post a link to her account so we can investigate.

Scoreboard Red · 27th November 2009, 04:47

Anyone wanna stalk me on Fagbook?

Add Johnno....

Wibble · 27th November 2009, 07:27

Why would you ad somone you didn't know? I don't want to add most people that I do know much less those that I don't.

Sunny Jim · 27th November 2009, 08:15

Quote:

Originally Posted by downxandxout

To cut the story short... In the past I've had an ex girlfriend create an account on facebook to basically stalk me whilst she's been blocked, so since then I'm always wary about who i accept as a friend.

However, from out of the blue a random girl added me the other day.

You might say to yourself, "if she's a random, then don't accept her" which is a very good point.

However i don't wish to be suspicious of everyone that adds me.

So, can you think of any tell tale signs that the profile is a fake one?

Seems to have legit pictures, only 3 pages mind... Over two hundred friends... Any ideas?

200 hundred friends.....bit too many to be a hoax.

Sunny Jim · 27th November 2009, 08:17

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scoreboard Red

Anyone wanna stalk me on Fagbook?

Add Johnno....

i searched for Johnno, got 611 hits....what do i do now.

UBERScholes · 27th November 2009, 09:39

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sunny Jim

i searched for Johnno, got 611 hits....what do i do now.

You got a 1 out of 611 chance of finding him then. You gotta work if you want to be Scoreboard Red's facebook chum

R_Nick · 27th November 2009, 10:28

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wibble

Why would you ad somone you didn't know? I don't want to add most people that I do know much less those that I don't.

This. Is it some kind of e-cool thing to have as many 'friends' as possible, even if you only actually really know a small fraction of them?

iSparky · 27th November 2009, 10:37

facebook is made for stalking, deal with it!

el eric · 27th November 2009, 11:15

Get over yourself

Girish II · 27th November 2009, 11:22

Ah yet another real life conundrum. Surely you can add her, limit her, then stalk her instead. Soon enough you will eventually figure out whether she is your ex or not. If it's a fake account, you will be seeing little or no activity on that account, with 200 friends this shouldn't be difficult.

golden_blunder · 27th November 2009, 11:23

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wibble

Why would you ad somone you didn't know? I don't want to add most people that I do know much less those that I don't.

This. If you're stupid enough or vain enough to add strangers then you takes your chances

MrsGiggs · 27th November 2009, 11:27

Never add strangers. Weirdos love to stalk enough on Facebook as it is, don't make it easier for them.

Not that I'm saying this girl is a weirdo. She may well not be, and the fact she has over 200 friends and 3 pages worth of photos makes it pretty unlikely to be a hoax page, however I don't get why you'd want to add someone you don't know?

downxandxout · 27th November 2009, 11:32

Quote:

Originally Posted by esmufc09

Just be honest and ask her is she your ex-girlfriend. Surely she wouldn't lie?

Well firstly yes she would, blatantly my ex is a psychopath. Secondly if she isn't then i look like a weirdo... Which is true but don't want to be giving out that impression.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MUFC07

How many friends in common do you have?

None... But she says she added me because i can up on the "people you might know section"

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wibble

Why would you ad somone you didn't know? I don't want to add most people that I do know much less those that I don't.

Because she's well fit! This is one of the reasons im suspicious, its not everyday you get someone who is pretty much a 10/10 adding you on facebook and then blatantly flirting with you. Doesn't happen to me that often anyway!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Girish II

Ah yet another real life conundrum. Surely you can add her, limit her, then stalk her instead. Soon enough you will eventually figure out whether she is your ex or not. If it's a fake account, you will be seeing little or no activity on that account, with 200 friends this shouldn't be difficult.

She seems to talk to the same people throughout her conversation history, mainly to someone who has a cartoon as their display picture, and to someone with a picture straight from a clothing catalogue.

noodlehair · 27th November 2009, 11:35

The whole point of facebook is stalking.

You can't sign up to facebook and then complain when it turns out to be facebook

Plechazunga · 27th November 2009, 11:36

Girish II · 27th November 2009, 11:36

Say no to strangers say no no no no no. Even if he has candy, never get into his car.

Spammy · 27th November 2009, 13:49

Quote:

Originally Posted by el eric

Get over yourself

Are you saying that this guy is high on himself?

If so then I agree.

TuTuHimm · 27th November 2009, 13:55

I'd be careful I had a "stalker" once. They'll probably end up asking for your money and if you say fuck off and throw her of the friend list they'll make facebook groups saying that your a molester and they'll spam your inbox. Been there, done that.

27th November 2009, 04:17	#1 (permalink)
downxandxout Reserve Team Player Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Salford, Manchester. Posts: 2,093	Am i being stalked on facebook? <a href="http://d.mediadakine.com/ck.php?n=ad232b97&cb=39476" target="_blank"><img src="http://d.mediadakine.com/avw.php?zoneid=81&cb=39476&n=ad232b97" border="0" alt="" /></a> To cut the story short... In the past I've had an ex girlfriend create an account on facebook to basically stalk me whilst she's been blocked, so since then I'm always wary about who i accept as a friend. However, from out of the blue a random girl added me the other day. You might say to yourself, "if she's a random, then don't accept her" which is a very good point. However i don't wish to be suspicious of everyone that adds me. So, can you think of any tell tale signs that the profile is a fake one? Seems to have legit pictures, only 3 pages mind... Over two hundred friends... Any ideas?

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27th November 2009, 04:24	#2 (permalink)
esmufc10 First Team Sub Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts. Posts: 9,258	Just be honest and ask her is she your ex-girlfriend. Surely she wouldn't lie?

27th November 2009, 04:25	#3 (permalink)
cold-zebra Reserve Team Player Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Fulham 3-1 Liverpool (Dempsey) This is a farce on top of a shambles, brazenly dry-humping a fiasco. Well done Rafa! Posts: 3,100	It's me.

27th November 2009, 04:35	#4 (permalink)
MUFC07 First Team Sub Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Mexico City. "I'm looking for abstract ways of expressing reality, abstract forms that will enlighten my own mistery" Eric Cantona Posts: 5,372	How many friends in common do you have?

27th November 2009, 04:39	#5 (permalink)
Eriku Reserve Team Player Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Bergen, Norway Posts: 3,214	Over two hundred friends? No fake account.

27th November 2009, 04:42	#6 (permalink)
mjs020294 First Team Sub Join Date: May 2008 Location: 18 times, and that's a FACHT Posts: 7,101	Post a link to her account so we can investigate.

27th November 2009, 04:47	#7 (permalink)
Scoreboard Red Wants ice inserted up his bum Join Date: May 2009 Location: In Johnno's Missus Posts: 1,883	Anyone wanna stalk me on Fagbook? Add Johnno....

27th November 2009, 07:27	#8 (permalink)
Wibble Teeth like a reindeer. Hung like a horse. Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Ingadus Speramus Posts: 41,028	Why would you ad somone you didn't know? I don't want to add most people that I do know much less those that I don't.

27th November 2009, 10:37	#13 (permalink)
iSparky Gay in orientation - King Cocksmoker Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Acton Town Posts: 20,277	facebook is made for stalking, deal with it!

27th November 2009, 11:15	#14 (permalink)
el eric Reserve Team Player Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Sunny Dublin Posts: 4,106	Get over yourself

27th November 2009, 11:22	#15 (permalink)
Girish II Knobhead Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: The People's Front of Newbea Posts: 5,961	Ah yet another real life conundrum. Surely you can add her, limit her, then stalk her instead. Soon enough you will eventually figure out whether she is your ex or not. If it's a fake account, you will be seeing little or no activity on that account, with 200 friends this shouldn't be difficult.

27th November 2009, 11:36	#20 (permalink)
Plechazunga Phones, soup, paint and chairs are troubling. Join Date: May 2003 Location: Where Albert Stubbins scored a diving header Posts: 663

27th November 2009, 11:27	#17 (permalink)
MrsGiggs Essex Girl Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: "He was the boy who played like a man and now he's the man who plays like a boy". Giggs will tear you apart again. Posts: 5,918	Never add strangers. Weirdos love to stalk enough on Facebook as it is, don't make it easier for them. Not that I'm saying this girl is a weirdo. She may well not be, and the fact she has over 200 friends and 3 pages worth of photos makes it pretty unlikely to be a hoax page, however I don't get why you'd want to add someone you don't know?

27th November 2009, 11:35	#19 (permalink)
noodlehair Flexile Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: "What's that?" "It's the midi interface" "I know, but what is it?" Posts: 33,935	The whole point of facebook is stalking. You can't sign up to facebook and then complain when it turns out to be facebook

27th November 2009, 11:36	#21 (permalink)
Girish II Knobhead Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: The People's Front of Newbea Posts: 5,961	Say no to strangers say no no no no no. Even if he has candy, never get into his car.

27th November 2009, 13:55	#23 (permalink)
TuTuHimm Can definitely write definitely correctly Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Probably Posts: 2,399	I'd be careful I had a "stalker" once. They'll probably end up asking for your money and if you say fuck off and throw her of the friend list they'll make facebook groups saying that your a molester and they'll spam your inbox. Been there, done that.