Black footballers - why do most of them seem to have white girlfriends/wives?

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  1. Mar 19, 2004
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    Re_Deus Little Englander

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    I'm sure I'm not the only one who's noticed this trend among black Premiership footballers; many of them have a penchant for white blonde birds, which I find odd since almost all the blacks I know or see around my ethnically very diverse town tend to court among themselves. But it's different with the rich, famous black football stars.

    I recall watching a TV programme not too long ago about interracial relationships, and this trend of Premiership black players dating/marrying blonde chicks was brought up, much to the resentment of the black females interviewed for the show, who practically accused these footballers of thinking themselves too good for a common black girl, and in their minds, are moving up class by dating blondes.

    Black singers date each other, as do the black actors, so what is it about black footballers that are more attracted to non-blacks, particularly blondes? I think it could be the 'white' environment in which these black players are brought up in (i.e. white players/coaches/staff make up the majority in English football) which limits their interaction with women of their own race to a minimum (after all, how many black women attend football matches?).

    This is not meant to be race-baiting, as I'm sure I'll no doubt be accused of, and I see nothing wrong with interracial relationships, but I am intrigued by this social-football phenomena and the reasons behind it. The programme offered their own opinions and I'll post them, just as soon as I hear the views of the good people here.
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    The King Banned

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    It does not only happen in football, it happens in everyday life.

    Turn it ard...why do blondes go after blacks?, maybe becos birds realise that blacks could provide a more stimulating conversation or otherwise as compared to duds like you... :lol:

    Got your answer??? ;)
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    Would you have posted such a thread on why De Niro, Bowie and Jagger, amongst many other famous, wealthy white men have married black women ? Some folk are attracted to power, dude, and some folk just fall in love. The why's and wherefore's aren't really any of your business. Have I really answered this thread?
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    The King Banned

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    The prick is just trying to show his racist vein yet again...gosh..will he ever learn... :rolleyes:
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    EZee Full Member

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    redus...

    what about the worrying trend of white premiership footballers going out with slim 'blonde' birds with fake tits...

    I wonder what percentage of young millionares have slim 'blonde' partners... is this any different between blacks and whites?

    is your problem that blondes seem to be materialistic and drawn to rich footballers...
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    Bupa might be running a special offer, get a footballer with every pair of fake breasts.
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    my x had fake uns...

    I wonder if shes with a footballer now??? after all she is a weather girl so it would seem the next logical career step
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    Re_Deus Little Englander

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    I've found that in most walks of life, people are more attracted to people of their own skin colour. Therefore a white footballer dating a white woman isn't all that surprising or worthy of discussion.
    Black footballers however invariably date white women, and I've concluded the following to explain this trend:

    - Blondes are a far easier lay than any other type of female

    - Most of these blondes are desperate to be in the limelight so will date footballers regardless of their colour

    - Blondes generally crave a materialistic lifestyle and will see past skin colour in order to obtain it

    - Black footballers, having grown up in a white society and white football culture feel it's more appropriate to date women from that very culture

    - For many centuries, a white woman was an unobtainable yet highly desirable prize amongst blacks, especially during the time of the British Empire, in the African colonies many white folk resided. Now blacks find that not only is a Caucasian girl not unobtainable, but they give themselves willingly to them

    - A good-looking trophy blonde on your arm for many shallow men (of which footballers are in abundant) is an ego booster

    - Blondes are generally less fussy and argumentative than other types of female. As long as her rich spouse is piling her with jewellery, wine and exotic holidays, she'd be happy. They offer little intellectual stimulation (the last thing a brain-dead footballer wants) but plenty of uninhibited sex (which is something a brain-dead, sex-mad footballer wants).
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    In this day and age I hope people dont have to see past skin colour...

    I'm confident the Blondes, Brunettes, Redheads, Black, White and Asian girls Ive been out with have not needed to see past my skin colour... they have been with me becuase we have had a laugh together

    I certainly have not had to see past sombodys skin colour to see if they interest me and we enjoy each others company...

    see past skin colour... strange choice of words
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    Most black footballers go out with white girls because they are heterosexual. Also, in England and most European nations, there are more white than black girls to choose from. At least, that's why my black troops dated white girls in Germany.
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    Perhaps because they are attracted to each other?
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    Re_Deus Little Englander

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    Are you suggesting those of us who favour brunettes are gay? What a peculier attitude...
    There's plenty of black women for them to date. That's hardly a reason for them (seemingly) preferring to date white chicks.
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    Why do you find such a pointless subject so interesting?
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    Redues Are you trying very hard to get yourself banned?
    How are you managing to start crap threads consistently ?
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    For feck's sake Re Deus, does it really fecking matter? Does it offend your sensibilities somehow? If they are happy together, why do you care?
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    Its just playing havoc with his hopes of a new Arian race in Britain. :lol:
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    :lol: No kidding. Maybe he should go out and shag a black woman to get even or something (since they obviously aren't dating the black footballers ;) )
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    Poor Redeus His bird ditched him for a black footballer. ;)
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    Re_Deus Little Englander

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    I was hoping the mature among us could've helped this thread evolve into a sensible discussion about interracial relationships, clearly none of you seem capable of doing this and would instead (as I predicted) prefer to fling accusations of racism.
    Very pathetic of you all...
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    mathiaslg Full Member

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    What is there to discuss? If two people care for each other, why should we prevent them from being together?
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    The real insult here is that blondes are dumb....unless this thread is meant to be a joke on blondes.
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    Be quiet King, it's an interesting topic. It's usually people like you that accuse others of being racist that are the real racists.
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    Oh really ?
    And what about people that accuse others of accusing others of being racist ?

    What iz so interesting about this topic then Sporting ?
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    The responses are interesting. Different points of view and so forth. What's not interesting is some fool crying foul everytime a topic on race is being discussed.
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    ManUinOz Betty Swallox

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    I don't know whether the rich and famous are attracted to blondes in particular or that blondes are attracted to the rich and famous, but the two seem to go hand in hand together. For a young black male to make it to the ranks of the rich and famous in the Uk that choices are to be a rapper or a footballer, once he achieves that the blondes will just materialise on his arm. Don't know how or why but it just happens. Like BMW's and Merc's always have a blonde either driving or in the passenger seat,it's just the way it is.
    A more important question is why can't young black males become succesful outside the fields of sport and music. Why are blacks more likely to be arrested and jailed than whites, why are blacks generally paid less than whites, why do black kids do worse at school than white kids. These are far more important questions than why some black footballers have blonde girlfriends.
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    Re_Deus Little Englander

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    I think the real point I'm trying to get at is, do rich, famous black men find white women more attractive? It appears to be the case with British Premier league footballers, so why DO they find women of their own colour less appealing? The common black bloke predominately dates black women, so why does the not-so-common black footballer tend to date white birds? Does he feel he's too good for black women? (which was the point made by the black women interviewed in the TV programme I mentioned earlier)
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    How is it racist.

    Politically correctness like that is a cancer on society. And you are a mong.
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    ManUinOz Betty Swallox

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    Maybe we should turn the question around, Why do attractive, leggy, busty blondes (they all seem to fit that description) prefer black footballers to white men. These women could have the pick of almost any available male but choose young black footballers, why??. Do they think white men aren't good enough for them, as a white male I find this offensive. I would be more than willing to go out with one of these girls to show them what they are missing out on.
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    i would date jessica alba anytime. period.
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    Exactly, I do have a white g/f also but that doesn't say anything. Maybe it's because there are more 'white' girls to choose from than 'dark ones'? :confused:
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    Political correctness or not - the basic premise of your question is negative racial and cultural stereotyping and therefore racist.

    However, this is the giveaway - and the most disturbing sentence in your post: "Blondes generally crave a materialistic lifestyle and will see past skin colour in order to obtain it..."

    Where is your statistical evidence? What reports are you basing your comments on? Please provide links to your research. In one sentence you have rubbished women who happen to be blonde-haired and generalised about footballers who happen to be black. And I have no doubt that your 'research' is nothing more than anecdotal. Throwaway comments and worthless personal observations.

    It surely doesn't need confirming that this poster is basing his opinion on a [misguided] perception. It's his VIEW, not a fact. I'd suggest, the 'moniker' he goes by gives us a clue - "little Englander" - it points to a belief system that appears to reject a non-white world. His assertions prove nothing and only serve to show his own prejudices.

    We've all heard jokes about blondes and we all know in reality it's simply not true - anecdotal 'evidence' does not count. Martha Stewart [a 'blonde'] - despite her recent troubles - could hardly be called stupid or someone chasing wealth or power, since she already had both.
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    Blondes go out with Blacks cuz they have bigger dongs.

    Blacks go out with blondes... cuz it's the ultimate power trip. Face it sex is all about power.
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    Re_Deus Little Englander

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    Some of the lines about blondes were made in jest, mocking the stereotyped blonde bimbo.
    There was nothing wrong with the other parts though, and the question remains; why DO black footballers prefer to date white women above females of their own colour?

    As for "Little Englander" - this is an innacurate, slanderous title given to me and has no bearing on my personal/political beliefs, and should be ignored.
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    You have to watch that 'jest' instinct of yours. Most of the time it is blatantly unfunny.
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    I'm sorry but what is it that guys IN GENEREAL love about blondes? I'm a Mediterranean girl, and I've never been able to understand the appeal of blondes over brunettes. I know this is wandering away from the initial topic but I must know!
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    Yeah I think this should be moved to the General Chat.

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