Yes, Jesse needs to tone it down judging by the latest offering which is really juvenile - you and your mates are joking about bringing back whoever for sex in your hotel rooms publicly on instagram, you don't need to, get over it. Teenagers get excited by posting on social media that way. You're not teenagers.
Your mate isn't a United footballer and public figure so his stupidity, while pre-20s, isn't that significant except for the fact that you don't need to post it on Instagram.
However, all this is mild compared to say Frank Lampard and co when at Chelsea drunkenly rampaging through an expensive hotel after the 9/11 terrorist attacks and jeering about them to American guests while throwing themselves around.
It's also mild compared to the never-named England footballer back in the mid 2000s or so who was on duty in a poor Eastern European country and deliberately tore up banknotes in front of a beggar or simply a poverty stricken person. Four Four Two mentioned that without mentioning his name. What an absolute scumbag, the kind of footballer that should be given negative publicity.
Any knowledge or guesses about who that was? John Terry sprang to mind, I've never thought of him in any way as a nice bloke especially given the way he was so comfortable with racially abusing Anton Ferdinand.