The subject is unthinkable I'm afraid.When you think the unthinkable, does it become the thinkable?
I bet you know, deep down inside - if you’re willing to be absolutely honest with yourself - you’d be full of excitement about this season if you supported a team with the squad, manager and prospects of, say, Liverpool or City. And that’s despite all the perfectly valid reasons you give for feeling jaded about the modern game.I never, ever thought a time would come where my interest for football would wane to the point of being almost completely apathetic. But the previously unthinkable is now on the verge of becoming a reality. Like most of you, I grew up football mad. My dad was a huge United fan, and my brother played professionally for both Sheffield Wednesday and Sheffield United. I would watch every game I possibly could, and football represented something almost magical in my life.
I understand that as a function of age, and increased responsibility, priorities change, and fantasy fades - but something has irrevocably changed for me; and my passion, love and interest for the modern game has all but evaporated. I used to be able to get excited about things like transfer season, but now I find that I just don’t give a shit any more. The only form of football that I find even remotely engaging now is international football; because players are actually playing for pride.
For the first time in my life, I am seriously considering not watching any club football at all next season. Below I’ve listed a few of my reasons why. How does The Caf feel about this? Any reasons to add or discredit? Does anyone else feel the same way? Or am I just being a miserable cnut?
- Money has completely destroyed the game. Everything is about promotion, sponsorships, and revenue. The integrity and morals of the game are completely subverted by corporate interests.
- The fan experience is shite. Most stadiums have terrible atmospheres now, with all the investment and pandering going to VIP and corporate hospitality.
- The top level of the game has just become an arms race between the super wealthy, stock piling all the best talent.
- Financial doping of state sponsored clubs like City and PSG have made a mockery of generations of historical evolution, and supporter driven development.
- Regulation of the sport at almost every level is compromised by both corporate interests, as well as the afore mentioned state backed entities. There are no effective measures against the breaking of FFP rules.
- Players are unrelatable and unlikable. Player power is now out of control. Players who have accomplished nothing in the game are rewarded with huge contracts, killing the motivation to kick on to the next level. The vast majority are more concerned with their social media presence, personal branding, and questionable fashion choices.
- A game that used to foster artistry is now all about pace, power and stamina. Endless pressing to force mistakes, rather than magicians to pick a lock.
- State sponsored or multi billionaire takeovers - sugar daddy clubs - are becoming the only way to compete, and it seems inevitable that more and more will enter the market and change the football landscape for the worse.
- The gap between the players and the fans is widening by the year. People can say that football is just a job, but for so many of us, our clubs are something we pour our heart and souls into. Paying increasingly exorbitant prices to go to games, watch matches on TV, or buy official merchandise. Yet most of the players on the field couldn’t give two shits about the clubs they play for, or the fans they represent.
- Every year I look at the premier league, and it more and more represents the soulless, soul crushing experiences that are American Sports. Clubs are becoming franchises, rather than community hubs and lifelong relationships with their fans.
I just pretty much despise everything about modern football. Right down to the endless analysis of club operations. Watching City build a huge plastic empire. An entire empire built around a brand, rather than a club, and an endless pot of money. Dare I say it, as much as I hate Liverpool, I’d rather a real club won the premier league through their guile, wit and brilliant man management, than another title bought and paid for from the oil fields of Dubai.
FIFA and UEFA are run by utter cretins, who are corrupt to the core. No-one cares about the average fan, who are being priced out of the game. And all the while we are treated like idiots, endlessly saturated with wall to wall coverage and drowned in hyperbole over the most mundane of experiences or mediocrity of a player. The entire system panders more and more to the global fan base, primarily made up of half witted fan boys in far flung foreign markets who have no emotional connection to the clubs they “support”, and little to no understanding of the sport they follow.
If football is this joyless, soulless and rotten today; how bad is it going to look in 5, 10 or 20 years? Fans will continue to pay more, and get less. And spend more time watching sponsor messages and buying content, than actually watching the games.
Occasionally you get a bright spark of hope. A lone wolf that rises from the ashes of a romantic past to defy the odds - See Leicester in 2016, or Ajax this year - only to see them ripped to shreds by bigger fish with deeper pockets in the close season.
Is there any hope? Is there anything to look forward to? United might be shite right now, but even if they get good again (which surely they will eventually), is there any way to realistically and sustainably do it without doubling down on a megabucks approach to the game. Be it through bigger tv and sponsorship revenue, or a massive Saudi or Chinese takeover? What is there to look forward to about any of that?
Money has always been a huge part of any walk of life, but football also gave us passion - an escape - and love for the game. But is it even possible not to despise almost everything about the modern footballer and all the people involved in the game? Don’t even get me started on the influence of agents and “journalists”. Where are the redeeming qualities. I’m sorry but I just don’t see any.
I’ll still play football. I’ll still watch the international matches; even though they are run by cretins. But club football? Nah. It’s dead to me now. I just can’t invest any more energy into something that makes a mockery of the sport I grew up loving.
Yup. Have a dig through the archives on here and you’ll find a distinct lack of threads bemoaning the modern game before/during seasons when United were in a position of strength. Funny that.Why do these threads always coincide with a teams lack of success relative to a teams stature? People dress it up how they lack, but the truth is and always is that a hissy fit is taking place because your team is not as successful as you want it to be.
Now this guy is capable of being honest with himself...I've had that happen to me some years ago.
Two seasons ago was probably the first time I didn't watch a single full game of my team. I did watch some WC games.
This year it was the same. I saw a couple of CL games - none of them involving my team - and that was it. I told myself I was going to start watching women's football but I never went.
Now that I moved home I'm thinking of following my local club next season. I used to like it 20 years ago, let's see if it happens now.
I think pretty soon I'll just have to assume I hate football.
Edit: And I have no doubt my club becoming weaker is a major part of this. Hard to acknowledge, but true. I just hope the desire neves come back - even if thry become good again. I'm through with the bitterness and non-sense that surrounds football - namely discussing it with other people - and I think that's a good thing.
Not if you really think about it.The subject is unthinkable I'm afraid.
So, for you, the gulf between international and club football has become insurmountable?I’ll still watch the international matches; even though they are run by cretins. But club football? Nah. It’s dead to me now. I just can’t invest any more energy into something that makes a mockery of the sport I grew up loving.
Wait till United become decent again and you'll get drawn back in.
I don't necessarily think so.sadly that might be a long wait
Too rightWhy follow something that makes you depressed and downbeat? Owners that are parasites, a ceo on a power trip, no direction, no idea, Lingard on a 100k a week acting like a toddler.
Football is shite at the moment.
Why? Ask that question to the thousands and thousands of fans, up and down the country, who support clubs with problems that make ours seem trivial by comparison. Maybe their enjoyment is less wrapped up in the boost to the ego that comes with following a successful club than yours is?Why follow something that makes you depressed and downbeat? Owners that are parasites, a ceo on a power trip, no direction, no idea, Lingard on a 100k a week acting like a toddler.
Football is shite at the moment.
based on what?I don't necessarily think so.
Logically, it is very stupid indeed. But again logically, it's also very stupid to get joy out of watching 11 strangers kicking a ball better than other 11 strangers. You are looking for a logical response to something that is far away from logic as can get.Why follow something that makes you depressed and downbeat? Owners that are parasites, a ceo on a power trip, no direction, no idea, Lingard on a 100k a week acting like a toddler.
Football is shite at the moment.
When you think the unthinkable, does it become the thinkable?
Sport is logical, though. It has been around forever. It feeds our ingrained competitiveness.Logically, it is very stupid indeed. But again logically, it's also very stupid to get joy out of watching 11 strangers kicking a ball better than other 11 strangers. You are looking for a logical response to something that is far away from logic as can get.
Sport and fandom in its modern day football interpretation at least are two different things though. My point is if we can derive some consistency of reason behind being happy because of the achievements of a football team, then surely, the same line of reasoning can be derived to explain sticking through the rough patches in the name of us all "being in it together".Sport is logical, though. It has been around forever. It feeds our ingrained competitiveness.
Actually is very logic if you think about it in terms of highs and lows and in particular how you experience them over time. For most people positive experience last longer than negatives, highs and more weight than lows. The most trivial example is when you have a terrible day, everything went wrong but at the end of that day a stranger smiles at you, that little high can totally change the way you perceived the day.Logically, it is very stupid indeed. But again logically, it's also very stupid to get joy out of watching 11 strangers kicking a ball better than other 11 strangers. You are looking for a logical response to something that is far away from logic as can get.
I agree.Sport and fandom in its modern day football interpretation at least are two different things though. My point is if we can derive some consistency of reason behind being happy because of the achievements of a football team, then surely, the same line of reasoning can be derived to explain sticking through the rough patches in the name of us all "being in it together".
I think it's a case of getting the right manager in. A bit like Liverpool with Klopp. I sadly don't think Solskjær is that guy.based on what?
Unfortunately, the opposite is true. This is called negativity bias and explains the current state of redcafe.Actually is very logic if you think about it in terms of highs and lows and in particular how you experience them over time. For most people positive experience last longer than negatives, highs and more weight than lows. The most trivial example is when you have a terrible day, everything went wrong but at the end of that day a stranger smiles at you, that little high can totally change the way you perceived the day.
Great post, as was the post above which asked if the feeling would be the same if the poster had the same prospects for the coming season as Liverpool or City.So, for you, the gulf between international and club football has become insurmountable?
I must be honest, on the face of it there isn't much of a difference to me. The football is virtually indistinguishable. The players seemingly give their all and in some instances they actually appear to be more committed to their club. A World Cup vs Champions League? Clearly the difference to you is massive, but I'm not seeing it.
Has money changed everything? If yes, when did it happen? When the first player was bought? When Cruyff went to Barca in '73 for £922,200? The nineties? When Chelsea was bought? What was the final nail in the coffin?
Look what I've found when searching "has no soul anymore":
Nothing has a soul anymore. A soul?
- F1 just has no soul anymore!
- The Galaxy S5 has no soul anymore!
- The pub has changed landlords and has no soul anymore.
- World of Warcraft has no soul anymore.
- Rugby has no soul anymore.
- Apple has no soul anymore.
- Dragonball has no soul anymore.
Maybe the problem is that people cannot deal with all the information coming out of the club. Social media. Forums such as this. We continually hear about the "business side" of the club and forget to just enjoy the football. Things are really not that bad. It is, however, all in the eye of the beholder.
Why do these threads always coincide with a teams lack of success relative to a teams stature? People dress it up how they lack, but the truth is and always is that a hissy fit is taking place because your team is not as successful as you want it to be.
Good post.Great post, as was the post above which asked if the feeling would be the same if the poster had the same prospects for the coming season as Liverpool or City.
Ome thing this period has really shown is those who support the club and those who support winning. It's easy to love the game and the club itself when everything is rosy but it's actually quite shocking how quickly people are flagging. I grew up going to non league football, I remember my hometown getting promoted somewhere in the mid nineties and I think it was to the league below what is now the vanarama league. I can't remember the specifics at that level, I think it was promotion to the national league South, which then led to the conference and then league 2.
My point is that there's a whole lot to football outside of finishing in the top 3 in the Premier league. What I get from a lot of people is that is what they're interested in, I see it as a bonus, to be savoured and enjoyed. We had a lengthier period of enjoying this than most but it's quickly forgotten that only the season before last, we finished second.
I think some people confuse the enjoyment you get from backing a winner to enjoyment of the sport itself. Football on the whole isn't the problem, the fact that we're having to experience a humbling period seems much more the issue for some. If the money, agents and player power genuinely are the issue, go and support a local team in the lower tiers of the football league. Football at that level isn't about huge money deals etc but I'd imagine those who are complaining aren't actually interested in that, it actually boils down to wanting to be part of a community that gets to enjoy winning a lot.
Why do people think some people follow teams like Brentford up and down the country? Football doesn't start and end with being in the top 4 of the Premier league but there's an awful lot of people who treat it like it is.
I feel like I need to clarify that I'm not saying people can't be frustrated, can't criticise or want better for the team but falling out of love with an entire sport based on the fact that you're only choosing to take part in the top 1% of the game is not the same as genuinely not enjoying the sport as a whole anymore.
I'm not talking about a general positive outlook but craving for the highs. Negativity bias only explains a part of the state of redcafe, it explains the negativity but it doesn't explain the fact that people still power through it. The reason we power through it is because we are striving for that high, it doesn't matter if the actual high last 2 seconds, we will remember it even when we are at our lowest which doesn't help. Funnily enough these articles and studies always seem to be examples of negativity bias, doesn't it?Unfortunately, the opposite is true. This is called negativity bias and explains the current state of redcafe.
Here's a wee experiment. Think about how clearly you can remember "Aguerroooo!" then think about how clearly you remember the goal that sealed our last league title. I can barely remember the latter event at all but I can recall - with crystal clarity - every detail of where and when I was when Aguero scored that fecking goal.
Interesting link.Unfortunately, the opposite is true. This is called negativity bias and explains the current state of redcafe.
Here's a wee experiment. Think about how clearly you can remember "Aguerroooo!" then think about how clearly you remember the goal that sealed our last league title. I can barely remember the latter event at all but I can recall - with crystal clarity - every detail of where and when I was when Aguero scored that fecking goal.
Now you're getting on to addictive behaviours. Seeking a dopamine high, despite knowing full well the highs will be massively outweighed by the lows. The reason people gamble themselves into poverty. This is distinct from the way we remember lows much more clearly than highs. Although it does fit with the way gamblers never feel truly happy and fulfilled, even after big wins.I'm not talking about a general positive outlook but craving for the highs. Negativity bias only explains a part of the state of redcafe, it explains the negativity but it doesn't explain the fact that people still power through it. The reason we power through it is because we are striving for that high, it doesn't matter if the actual high last 2 seconds, we will remember it even when we are at our lowest which doesn't help. Funnily enough these articles and studies always seem to be examples of negativity bias, doesn't it?
Yeah, I can relate to that. I’m definitely wary of getting emotionally invested in yet another project that looks doomed from the start but at least I have nothing but love and respect for the bloke in charge. Which is a refreshing change.I think I'm more interested now than ever. Moyes, LVG and Jose often left me apathetic because I didn't like what they were trying to build.
We are in the shit right now but at least I feel like Ole wants to build something meaningful. It could be a tough season but I feel more emotionally invested than I have in a long time.
I think it's a case of getting the right manager in. A bit like Liverpool with Klopp. I sadly don't think Solskjær is that guy.
It was actually the first example that I had, I can see that I didn't express mysefl properly. For me there are clearly two things happening at all time, we will generally give more time and thoughts to negativity but we will also crave those highs.Now you're getting on to addictive behaviours. Seeking a dopamine high, despite knowing full well the highs will be massively outweighed by the lows. The reason people gamble themselves into poverty. This is distinct from the way we remember lows much more clearly than highs. Although it does fit with the way gamblers never feel truly happy and fulfilled, even after big wins.