Sexist Ole - "It's a man's game" | Lindelof joins the sexist club | Ole jokes about kids going hungry

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Is "Grow up" OK? Maybe ageist? Offensive use of words to a full-grown person whose only trajectory is diminishing height due to compaction of vertebrae and disks?

Any way, when people of the game use non-controversial common phrases, try not to take offense where there is none.
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Anyone offended by this is either scrapping for excuses to be offended or is simply too dumb to understand context.

English is not even my first language and I understand that the context is man/boy and not man/woman.
 

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I don't think 'man up' is bad.

But it does easily identify morons to avoid, it's cringe and it's certain type of bloke that says it.

Not offensive, just very lame.
Yeah I see what you mean but then again literally anybody can use it when it’s applicable.

If somebody is being a proper wet lettuce about something, or childish about something, there isn’t a more fitting saying at times.

In some ways I’d rather be told to man up than ‘grow up’... the latter I find more insulting tbh.
 
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Is "Grow up" OK? Maybe ageist? Offensive use of words to a full-grown person whose only trajectory is diminishing height due to compaction of vertebrae and disks?

Any way, when people of the game use non-controversial common phrases, try not to take offense where there is none.
I've often heard an alternative suggested to the quite frankly disgusting and dated terms, "Man Up" and "Grow Up". That alternative being, "Stand up and be counted". While their intentions seem sincere, I don't think they realise just how hurtful "Stand up and be counted" can be to a lot of people. There are many people who cannot stand up, 1.9% of the UK population use wheelchairs, and many people are innumerate.

There is a discussion here to be had on how our language is affecting people, and what we can do to be more compassionate to our fellow people whom we share this planet with. Of course, those who would rather hold back progress will always shout the loudest, as demonstrated so far in this thread.
 
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Let's all human up, shall we?!? I think it is time to accept differences, be mindful about insensitive language and don't be so sore about everything.

Sorry to all those struggling with healing sore tissue, be it material or non-material...
 

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Anyone offended by this is either scrapping for excuses to be offended or is simply too dumb to understand context.

English is not even my first language and I understand that the context is man/boy and not man/woman.
It's 2020 where people get offended by anything and everything. Thus is the world we live in now.
 

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I've often heard an alternative suggested to the quite frankly disgusting and dated terms, "Man Up" and "Grow Up". That alternative being, "Stand up and be counted". While their intentions seem sincere, I don't think they realise just how hurtful "Stand up and be counted" can be to a lot of people. There are many people who cannot stand up, 1.9% of the UK population use wheelchairs, and many people are innumerate.

There is a discussion here to be had on how our language is affecting people, and what we can do to be more compassionate to our fellow people whom we share this planet with. Of course, those who would rather hold back progress will always shout the loudest, as demonstrated so far in this thread.
How have the terms "Man up" and "Grow up" become disgusting regardless of the context they're used in? I am not a regular user of the English language, apart from hanging around this place, so I am sincerely curious.

I guess I may be linguistically outdated. The Norwegian counterparts "Mann deg opp!" and "Voks opp'a!" were used mockingly but sometimes also affectionately when addressing someone's childish behaviour. Is it considered sexist, ageist, both or what?
 
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I was going to suggest we just call it "Human football" or "Human up". But it contains the word man. So can't have that.

So my suggestion is that we hereby call everyone "Homo Sapien" or "Homo" for short. "Homo up" "Homo ball", etc etc. (derived from the family of large primates called Hominidae - Homo is the human branch of the family tree).

I also propose we change clubname to Sapienchester United.
 

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I was going to suggest we just call it "Human football" or "Human up". But it contains the word man. So can't have that.

So my suggestion is that we hereby call everyone "Homo Sapien" or "Homo" for short. "Homo up" "Homo ball", etc etc. (derived from the family of large primates called Hominidae - Homo is the human branch of the family tree).

I also propose we change clubname to Sapienchester United.
Good work. I think Homoball would be universally popular. Something we can all get behind. No pun intended.
 
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Yeah I see what you mean but then again literally anybody can use it when it’s applicable.

If somebody is being a proper wet lettuce about something, or childish about something, there isn’t a more fitting saying at times.

In some ways I’d rather be told to man up than ‘grow up’... the latter I find more insulting tbh.
People can say 'man up' all they want.

When i hear someone say it I feel embarrassed for them, because they're oblivious to what everyone is thinking.
 

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This thread is a bit of a joke. I am not easily offended but there are genuine reasons why certain phrases need to be carefully used and why emotional consideration is higher up people's agenda nowadays.

Some of the people in here might not understand that but it doesn't mean they know better, it just means they're ignorant. Also, their attempt at humour would leave most grandparents embarrassed.
 

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Just said this in his post match interview. Disgraceful comment really considering this is the first season United have a women's team. Should apologise.
I think you´re totally misinterpreting that comment. It´s not men contra women, but men contra boys. He could just as well had said women´s game, as in women contra girls.
 

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I remember people thought Martial was a robot when he first arrived. I think he has proved he isn't but if he did come out as one, I actually think we should let him keep playing in the league.
 

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HOLD ON EVERYONE I'VE JUST REALISED SOMETHING

person

Son = male

Male = man
Exactly.
That's why I persomeonely use the word persomeone instead of person.

Plus only ever award person of the match.
 

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Why is this old thread bumped? :DThought Ole said it again, guess not.

We should also change our brand to Humanchester United, "Manchester" is sexist!
Come on person!
It should obviously be Personchester United.

I did weigh up "chest", but have deemed it ok, as all 73 genders have a chest.