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Really? Like what? They’re commonly used among circles of friends?England has many endearing words of Chinese and Pakistani's, they even sound cute. But just nope to using them....
Really? Like what? They’re commonly used among circles of friends?England has many endearing words of Chinese and Pakistani's, they even sound cute. But just nope to using them....
Yes it would have because in English it’s more clear cut, he’s a Spanish speaker though. I don’t know how many languages there are in the world but I do know that every single one of them have their own nuances. Cavani is a Spanish speaker so the comment needs to be investigated in regard to that context. Would be a completely different story had Harry Kane posted that.Im sure if he said it in English it would have been worse ha
I fully agreeYes it would have because in English it’s more clear cut, he’s a Spanish speaker though. I don’t know how many languages there are in the world but I do know that every single one of them have their own nuances. Cavani is a Spanish speaker so the comment needs to be investigated in regard to that context. Would be a completely different story had Harry Kane posted that.
The test would be if you had a friend that was, in fact, Jewish. Would you still use the same language and tell him/her to “stop being such a Jew”?If i have a good mate who is being a bit stingy with money, not paying for his round of beers. If i go on to jokingly tell him to stop being such a jew. Does that mean I hate jews? I would argue that is quite different then yelling fecking jew to someone who is actually Jewish.
You’ve missed this one totallyThat Bernardo Silva one was a banter, where to the outsider, it does sound "offensive". Just the common nature of banter.
This Cavani's though. Unless he knows the other person he replied to personally, there's no reason to do "banter" and went with offensive way.
My wife calls me that way
with tears in her eyes
What? i was talking about context, as it does actually matter.You’ve missed this one totally
Yes and you missed it. No banter involved with Cavani and also no offenceWhat? i was talking about context, as it does actually matter.
He basically wrote the equivalent of "thanks mate", absolutely nothing in it. He could have easily written "gracias guacho", which means and communicates the same but the literal translation is "thanks orphan" and could be deemed offensive to orphans all across the world. We don't have a word for mate/matey (saying amigo/friend is more common in the tropics, not down here), we indistinctly use terms like guacho (orphan), papo (daddy), nene (kiddo), or the nickname, which in this case happened to be negrito.Hopefully a few comments don't represent the UK (or even this Caf).
As always thought you were a rationale poster (and Uruguayan), interested in your take on Cavani's comments and how you'd view them.
Yes. I'm a Muslim and my mates always tell me to try a bit of crackled pork or bacon as a joke. I know it's a joke and I find it hilarious.The test would be if you had a friend that was, in fact, Jewish. Would you still use the same language and tell him/her to “stop being such a Jew”?
Think about it is all I ask.
At the very least you're promoting an antisemitic trope. You're wrong to use that. It's far from the subject of the thread though.If i have a good mate who is being a bit stingy with money, not paying for his round of beers. If i go on to jokingly tell him to stop being such a jew. Does that mean I hate jews? I would argue that is quite different then yelling fecking jew to someone who is actually Jewish. Not saying Cavani is right or wrong here, simply trying to make an argument that context can make a difference
What has eating pork as a Muslim when its clear Muslims are not supposed to (so yes I see the joke) Got to do with a false representation of Jewish people as stingy?Yes. I'm a Muslim and my mates always tell me to try a bit of crackled pork or bacon as a joke. I know it's a joke and I find it hilarious.
It's about not being so uptight and taking everything so personally. It's for a laugh
In a few words, the english are going to tell him that saying negro is racist and in the process they will shat in the latin american cultureHe basically wrote the equivalent of "thanks mate", absolutely nothing in it. He could have easily written "gracias guacho", which means and communicates the same but the literal translation is "thanks orphan" and could be deemed offensive to orphans all across the world. We don't have a word for mate/matey (saying amigo/friend is more common in the tropics, not down here), we indistinctly use terms like guacho (orphan), papo (daddy), nene (kiddo), or the nickname, which in this case happened to be negrito.
That he is working in a country where PC has gone mad and beyond will only be too clear to him by now, seeing as he deleted the post. I would expect him to say something along the lines of being sorry if anyone was offended and move on swiftly, but knowing the English press they won't let go and it will start doing his head in. My hope is he knows full well they are off their rocker from all the way back in South Africa and the Suarez handball incident, he should easily work out he will never really "get it".
Really? Like what? They’re commonly used among circles of friends?
You really need to educate yourself on the history of antisemitism. It's idiotic to say it's just a laugh, or to equate a comment by your mate about you eating pork.Yes. I'm a Muslim and my mates always tell me to try a bit of crackled pork or bacon as a joke. I know it's a joke and I find it hilarious.
It's about not being so uptight and taking everything so personally. It's for a laugh
It was actually the Americans...In a few words, the english are going to tell him that saying negro is racist and in the process they will shat in the latin american culture
Well it might be not as idiotic as you make it. Picture that this has been the way him, his family, his neighbourghs use with each other to be kind, to show love. I absolutely not agains making this note and try to break down what appears to be normal but hides some very serious historic shame and guilt as racism is and has been. But you'd also need to know that there's absolutely no harm ment whatsoever in saying "negrito" to a friend of yours, more over if you love them or care for them.Most likely take some form of action given how hot the country is on any form of racial behaviour now. Very idiotic thing to say. doesn’t matter if it is acceptable in your culture, you can’t be that uneducated to know this isn’t the correct thing to say.
Pretty much.
Deserves to be on cloud nine after his performance earlier, and this nonsense is what social media are going on about instead, trying to get him banned.
Wankers sums it up. Whole country full of them.
Gotta agree. And knowing what wankers they are, and this being a United player, pretty sure they'll "make an example" out of him. Sickening.Exactly. Ironic as they want inclusion and acceptance for everyone.
It can simultaneously be ok in South America and not ok in UK without either culture being 'shat on'.In a few words, the english are going to tell him that saying negro is racist and in the process they will shat in the latin american culture
Do your friends tell you to stop being such a Muslim?Yes. I'm a Muslim and my mates always tell me to try a bit of crackled pork or bacon as a joke. I know it's a joke and I find it hilarious.
It's about not being so uptight and taking everything so personally. It's for a laugh
Wasnt bernardo silvas tweet to his mate too. Why does that matter.The only racists around are those who think he should be banned.
Deciding in their Anglo ivory tower what a South American can or cant say to his mates because they are the arbiter of language. What a joke.
Interesting. Context and cultural norms are obviously different. The US and UK are diverse and are much more sensitive about racial issues. Latin American countries are not. It’s acceptable and common practice to call your darkest friend negrito, or the chubbiest one of the group gordito, or the one with the smallest eyes chinito, etc. Even in Peru when Fujimori was president he was often referred to as El Chinito even though he was Japanese.One is commonly used between UK Pakistani's, but much like the N word, I'd never refer to someone using that word.
If you're stuck for what words, go google it.
This!The only racists around are those who think he should be banned.
Deciding in their Anglo ivory tower what a South American can or cant say to his mates because they are the arbiter of language. What a joke.
Yeah, it's a shame so many threads always seem to get overtaken with them, and are, ironically enough, always so very sensitive and over the top.The posters in this thread really demonstrate why this country is an absolute shambles. Grown men who probably have posters of nigel farage and laurence fox on their walls.
If he says it in person to his friend, then it's not an issue, once it goes on social media, it's going to blow out of all proportions.Interesting. Context and cultural norms are obviously different. The US and UK are diverse and are much more sensitive about racial issues. Latin American countries are not. It’s acceptable and common practice to call your darkest friend negrito, or the chubbiest one of the group gordito, or the one with the smallest eyes chinito, etc. Even in Peru when Fujimori was president he was often referred to as El Chinito even though he was Japanese.
If the person cavani said that to is a friend then it’s a nothing issue really. But obviously he now needs to learn it’s not accepted in England and needs to be careful.
That's his social media. It's his friend. You want to censor it because of english standard? To a non english speaking person?Again, people can talk how they want in private. But when on public platforms they have to be mindful that they're not only representing their employer but are also bound by the FA's rules. If the FA deem something to 'bring the game into disrepute' etc. They will act accordingly.
Was just checking to see if anyone posted this.
I don't think anyone in this thread has said he should be banned. People are just giving different views on the issue.The only racists around are those who think he should be banned.
Deciding in their Anglo ivory tower what a South American can or cant say to his mates because they are the arbiter of language. What a joke.
I haven't read any posts that suggest people are upset or offended.The irony of this is those upset are no different from the actual racists who tell you that all immigrants have to adapt to our culture. Condemning him is just saying that he can’t speak his native tongue because a non-offensive word in his language is 2 letters off being an offensive word in another language.
and those saying the outrage is from the anti-PC crowd, really? Someone screenshoted his IG story for the express reason to say “look I found racism”.
Some common sense needs to be applied here, but I’m sure he’s going to get banned for this.
He basically wrote the equivalent of "thanks mate", absolutely nothing in it. He could have easily written "gracias guacho", which means and communicates the same but the literal translation is "thanks orphan" and could be deemed offensive to orphans all across the world. We don't have a word for mate/matey (saying amigo/friend is more common in the tropics, not down here), we indistinctly use terms like guacho (orphan), papo (daddy), nene (kiddo), or the nickname, which in this case happened to be negrito.
That he is working in a country where PC has gone mad and beyond will only be too clear to him by now, seeing as he deleted the post. I would expect him to say something along the lines of being sorry if anyone was offended and move on swiftly, but knowing the English press they won't let go and it will start doing his head in. My hope is he knows full well they are off their rocker from all the way back in South Africa and the Suarez handball incident, he should easily work out he will never really "get it".
Any culture where it's acceptable to refer to someone as a nickname by their skin color is in the wrong in my book. It was fine in English 100 years ago. It's not anymore. It's just not OK, in my opinion, to refer to someone by their skin color. I don't care if it's been engrained for a long time and it's a term of endearment. Bosnian has loads of casual things that are "harmless" but are actually slightly racist. It's just stuff that takes a while to move away from but once the world does, it's better for it."It's such a backward step"?
Another language/culture can say something they think is a term of endearment and another culture/country can not only tell them they're wrong but that they're backward?
Wow.
Jesus...If i have a good mate who is being a bit stingy with money, not paying for his round of beers. If i go on to jokingly tell him to stop being such a jew. Does that mean I hate jews? I would argue that is quite different then yelling fecking jew to someone who is actually Jewish. Not saying Cavani is right or wrong here, simply trying to make an argument that context can make a difference