I did say that I find it hard to believe, not outright impossible, I didnt really want to post about it until I saw some posters calling CHO a "naughty boy" etc I was sexually abused as a kid and I have been accused of rape by a once, it really isnt a nice position to be in either way - I was just commenting that it's extremely difficult to prove guilt or innocence.I can be sexting someone for weeks, be really up for having sex with them and then go to their place but decide I don't want to or feel like it and be raped. Lots of people who are in consensual relationships with people can still be raped by that consensual partner (in a non consensual incident). Your post reads really poorly tbf on the woman in this situation.
Obviously we have to wait and see what the police investigation finds (A reason I hate these stories becoming public before things are looked at properly) but let's not make posts which appear to be blaming.
If there are DM's of a sexual nature, it'll certainly go against her (sometimes wrongly as @IrishGlen ) but it certainly helped me.
@ValenciasDrilledCrosses I wholeheartedly agree that consensual sex can turn into non-consensual sex, but having as much evidence as you can saying otherwise will undoubtedly help your case (why I mentioned having as much surveillance as possible).
At the end of the day I just said rape is generally a hard crime to prove, and I stand by that statement.