There's a common analogy that I think is pretty helpful.
Say you and a group order pizza together and split the bill. The pizza gets sent around, but before it reaches you all the slices are taken. You're understandably annoyed, and hungry. The next time it happens again, and now you speak up. This is unfair, you're paying like everyone else and you should get to eat pizza. The response you get is that you all should get pizza.
This response is both unhelpful and stupid, and even more it's quite malicious. Of course everyone should get pizza, that's the point. You're a group, and you're all paying. But they all are getting their pizza while you're not. It's also a response that is anti you more than the general principle they pretend it to be, because they're only saying that everyone should get pizza because you're saying that you should get a slice, and they're not actually doing anything to solve your hunger.