Absolutely.
I get it - you support a club all your life, maybe your parents did, grandparents etc, it's a massive part of many of our lives. Then it gets hollowed out by some nefarious third party and made to dance to whatever tune they decide.
It's hard to admit that and leave it behind but as you say, the bending over backwards to ignore the truth is just a bit sad really. It'd be like us twisting ourselves in knots to convince people that the Glazers are anything but parasites. They're exactly that and we hate them for it, but at least they're one step short of sports washing.
Ratcliffe has clearly made mistakes since coming in, and getting into bed with the Glazers is very problematic - but overall I like the direction he's slowly pushing us in. I just see very little chance of it ever turning into full ownership, and when the Glazers want to sell up you'd expect the same unsavory regimes will be lining up to take us on.