I think a lot of fans get too invested in the drama around transfers that are created by media, hence this desperation for "things to be done quickly" and "tell them give us a decision tomorrow or we move on". That is not how things in the world of football will work, with such big deals and big decisions to be made by many parties. That would be a surefire way to not get any top target.
Why should we only sign players who are weirdly desperate for United, but it is fine for City to sign a player who is not so desperate to sign for them that the deal is already wrapped. If we are after the same player and we are still involved then the player has kept them waiting as much as he has done us, so what is the issue? When you're on the dating scene, you don't just settle down with the one who acts the most keen on you and reject any other potential partners even if you actually like them more.
What does "acting quickly" mean in reality? Having every deal completed before the World Cup? These deals are not unilateral, it is not just up to us how long the deal takes and we don't have to "act quickly" because there is a transfer window, which hasn't even officially opened yet. What we need to do is make sure that we purchase the right players, for the right values and with the right amount of analysis. We have clearly been working on multiple options so that we can wrap things up pretty swiftly once they are agreed. The club will have set budgets for each player already and have more information on everything that potential deals may entail and all of the actual thoughts of the players involved and make a decision from an informed place, the rest is just media dramatisation.
Checking forums multiple times a day is going to make it seem like deals are taking ages and reading these repetitive daily "updates" about a player's thoughts are making people hysterical about nothing. Facts are the media members will have been told snippets like "we believe he prefers City" and then just keep repeating that because they haven't heard anything else. Meanwhile Elliot Anderson himself has not been calling reporters to speak about his thoughts, he will be thinking about his mother's passing, being with his family, his world cup call up, his cup semi with Forest and PL games, what does the future look like at City or United, etc. not rushing his decision so that internet dwellers can be happy or move on to the next player they want their club to sign.