‘indulged his every whim’
This is the root of the problem for me. Clubs create monsters from a very young age…as far back as 11,12,13 if there’s high hopes for them. they won’t be told ‘no’
I don’t know the guy (obvs) but based purely on his attitude on the pitch there doesn’t appear to be much to like. I’d be embarrassed if my son at that age had a god complex about him. Too much too soon
Why can’t we see a bit more humility, respect and unpretentious behaviour from young elite footballers.
Look at the state of Garnacho and Rashford.
In fairness I blame the clubs. How do we go from an academy player chasing down every ball and celebrating wildly when they score to being an lazy, insufferable, miserable cnut that points to his head to make a point to the fans after every goal. Clubs enable it and almost encourage it to further the brand
Let's not act like this is a new phenomena or even restricted to football, let alone modern football. The more talented you are, the greater the allowances, tolerances and blind eyes there will be to egregious behaviour. It's a rare industry - or even unique circumstance in isolation - where this is not the case. The bigger the institution, the more spectacular the talent has to be to be an exception to their rules - we've even seen SAF give special players special permissions because of quid pro quo - at that point, the relationship is coldly transactional, and once the talent no longer meets the bar for warranting it, said player will be punted, but that's always after the proverbial berry has been satisfactorily squeezed.
Putting your foot down and all the rest of it, sounds good, and it's the morally and ethically correct thing to do, but football is a multi-billion pound business where truly, truly elite players can not only turn the current fortunes of a club around, but also alter their future, not only in status and association, but in terms of revenue from that point onward. Cantona's worth to us is practically intangible; he ushered in a new age for the club and enabled us to harness our collective standing at the time of the PL's first economic boom. Do you really think, aside from the tutting at his actions, the club or manager wouldn't put up with him, antics and all? Ditto any talismanic figure for any club, that player who can appeal to future audiences or have more eyes laid their way than they had before, you know of the players I speak; they are famous and inextricably linked to their clubs' history forever more:
Di Stefano. Turns Real Madrid into a global powerhouse.
Pele. Makes Santos a world renowned entity.
Best. Ushers in the age of the football superstar; makes Manchester United a club of global cool factor we ride the coattails of to this day.
Eusebio. Benfica rise to prominence as a footballing superpower of his time.
Cruyff. The world knows who Ajax are because of him.
Beckenbauer. Essentially carries a heavy hand in doing the same for Bayern as Best did for United.
Zico. A continental force because of him, even known globally because of him.
Maradona. Napoli will forever be in his debt.
You get the picture. All the way up to present day, these great unspoken principles are adhered to. Neymar was bigger than the club he was going to, therefore they had to indulge him; Mbappe was such a potential star, PSG lost their way whilst indulging him. In every story, there's not a chance in hell these clubs would be happy to lose these players over allowing them graces others players categorically would not have gotten. So long as Lamine Yamal continues to deliver on the pitch, he will be cut from the same cloth. It's either that, or lose them to a rival. The moment Yamal would be placed on a transfer list, is the moment a host of clubs do everything in their power to acquire him.
You mentioned the next rung down, basically those who haven't even made a name for themselves yet, but that the football world will know everything about. Do you think both club and handlers of extremely (and I mean extremely) talented young, prodigious talent, don't know the predicament they find themselves in? It's actually even worse at that juncture because you might lose the next C.Ronaldo/Maradona/Neymar/<insert as you like> for an absolute pittance via tribunal. A magnitude of order worse than an obscene fee on a sale some years later. We may have one such talent at the club in JJ Gabriel, who, if matches even the broadest expectations, will be worth over £100m as a start, and for all the club knows, could become the next Cantona in terms of intangible value to future coffers - let's just imagine that Gabriel fulfils his potential and becomes a global superstar. A superstar at perhaps the juncture where the club can sell its own streaming rights (just as with Cantona's time at the top coinciding with the global TV rights for the PL product); if those dominos fall into place, indulging a young talent will be worth every single penny to the club, and at worst, they sell him for a fortune.
Yamal has potentially 15 years at the top left, should things go well. It's no exaggeration to think he could usher in the next golden age for his club. You don't throw that out with the bathwater, and again, so long as the potential fulfils itself, it is worth every ounce of indulgence and tolerance that clubs put up with when it comes to the obscenely gifted.
In the list of names above there are disparate fortunes, from the crash and burn types to model professionals with blemish free careers where incident is concerned. I might even lazily state that, aside from Pele, the greater the talent, the worse they behaved as professionals:
Maradona clear as one of the 3 kings, is also by far the most troubled and rambunctious on the list. Do you think, at any time, anyone could put a lid on the most talented footballer the game has arguably ever seen? His family, friends, handlers, clubs, not a soul could dissuade him. The god complex in terms of nobody can tell him what to do is going to be interwoven with the talent. After all, who, in all of football's existence up to that time can see the world from his eyes and relate? Only Pele. The rest, it's a case of him indulging them and nodding away, but them having no comprehension of life through the lens of his world.
In terms of derailment, next comes George Best. Who could possibly relate to the trials and tribulations of being a teenage and young 20's global icon, and steer him elsewhere? Again, only Pele could turn to him as a peer and see the world as he might do.
It goes on and one with the players above as well as the ones that followed into the 90's (Ronaldo) through to now; their peers are so few and far between. If they are going to derail, how can they be appealed to? What is the corrective measure to prevent it? Outside of appealing to their good nature what can be done with players who the world around them will let know their standing before they perhaps have the cognitive function to cope with that?
You mentioned "son" in your post; this is perhaps one of few frontiers that can keep the extremely talented grounded - the appeal of a mother, a father or close relative for them to stop going down an erroneous path. It might work, it might not... rebelling against your mother & or father is human 101 for the majority of us, that before seeing within yourself you shouldn't be doing that. Imagine that dial turned up to maximum because the world tells you you're fecking awesome every day of your life. I'm sure a Maradona or Best had people they cared deeply about begging them to change tact for large portions of not only their playing careers, but their lives. Hope is the only thread to keep intergalactic, megastar egos in check should they go off the rails?
Your final paragraph states that you blame the clubs, but what realistic measure is there to prevent the extremely gifted from going south other than themselves? Club A is stern with me, and I don't like it? Fine. Off to club B I go; so long as I am an extremely gifted individual who is still delivering, I can do what I want and nobody can stop me.
I likened C.Ronaldo to Homelander many moons ago, perhaps you know this character, perhaps you don't, but point is, I wasn't the only one to see a likeness with the god complex issue the former has in common with a fictional character. There's nobody that can correct that behaviour and he's like watching the conclusion to an experiment in what happens when you are truly brilliant to the point you relate with few, if any, and perhaps only one person in your profession can even perceive the world from the lens you have. Who is there for such people to relate to? And the odd bods we see at the top in football are nothing compared to the same principles applied to the most rich and powerful in the world; they barely seem human with the way they perceive the world... your Musk's, Bezos', Zuckerberg's, Wang's, Ellison's, Thiel's and so on. It's perhaps safe to say a lot of humans aren't built to handle things beyond a certain point. Most will just turn weird, and perhaps it's only weird to us because we have no way of relating to how they see the world. Anyway, I digress and this last paragraph might be errant thoughts put to post at a time when I should be in bed, so I'll stop now.