Social Media Justice: A "Karen" faces consequences for threatening a Black man with cops

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Comparing a woman yelling at someone to that person pulling a gun on her, not really comparable at all. My fecking god.
Obviously pulling a gun and pointing it at someone is beyond next level, but the mother isn't innocent in all this. Pretty much everyone agrees there.

She threatened to beat their 'white asses' after following them to their car. For what? A pregnant woman bumped into her daughter and didn't apologise. Crazy.
 

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Thank god some semblance of common sense has returned to this thread. There’s a reason arrests & charges have been made in a gun carrying state.

Moving on. Wakey Wakey @Dante ; still waiting for a response on your attempts at gaslighting this conversation.

Not standing for this sh*t even if it is ‘only’ an internet forum; you made the comment below. . .


I asked what their race had to do with it & you then made the below statements. . .


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Where do I mention their gender in relation to their emotions?

You seem to be hinting’ doesn’t cut it, I’ve not made any comments in that direction & you’ve only bought this up once I questioned you on why race was relevant.

I’ve called them idiots, mentalists [and probably many other things] but I’m curious as to how these are sexist descriptives or being used as such. Basically what the hell are you on about?

:nono:

Are the descriptors, woman & mother misogynistic now? I’ve actually taken the time to call Jillian [the gun totter] by her name in instances so let’s not drop it.

You can be civil & shed light. If I’ve been a misogynistic &/or racist in the thread neither are my intention so I’d like to learn from whatever it is otherwise this is blatant gaslighting which is pathetic.

I think labelling peoples posts as racist & misogynistic are serious even if it is ‘only’ an internet forum. Racism is a bannable offence so don’t take being accused of it lightly.

Can anyone recommend a mod I can contact to review my posts related to this for both?
:lol: Sweet baby Jesus. Being in the karen thread just makes this more funny.
 

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Full circle to the start of the thread.

At the time, it seemed relatively rare, now there seems to be one every other day, sadly commonplace.

I wonder if there really are more now OR just more reported.
Think the default now is for everyone to pull out their phones & start recording; you then get incidents like the Karlos guy that followed the lady home with a history of inciting incidents but ‘karens’ have been weaponising groups against black men since Emmett Till [& probably long before].

Incidents being on camera remove the ‘he said’, ‘she said’ from the discussion.
 

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Think the default now is for everyone to pull out their phones & start recording; you then get incidents like the Karlos guy that followed the lady home with a history of inciting incidents but ‘karens’ have been weaponising groups against black men since Emmett Till [& probably long before].

Incidents being on camera remove the ‘he said’, ‘she said’ from the discussion.
Hope you can fcuking swim because you’re at risk of drowning in Irony there.
 

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It would be progressive in private if the accusation wasn’t made in public. I’ve re-read my posts on this & he’s simply tried to subvert the discussion because he was asked an uneasy question.

In the Current Events things can go off in a direction we don’t ideally want at times so I’ve PMd people & vice-versa but don’t enter these discussions in bad faith. A difference of opinion is expected but don’t fabricate.

I’ve seen his posts around the forums & he seems sound mostly but I’d expect better in here.
Fair point
 

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Hope you can fcuking swim because you’re at risk of drowning in Irony there.
And here comes my number 1 fan.

What happened to. . .
There was an advisory post/thread here a while back.

Off the back of that.... Is there value In threads like these? The last few have been so divisive. All of us discuss situations we often can’t relate to, and have scant detail on. Many times they unravel, with a trail of forum destruction and division in their wake.

All this noise just raises tension and seems to be in direct opposition to the advisory post I mention.

Consider it this way... we have a higher threshold for Transfer rumours, than we do for public shaming and judgement.

I’d like to know what people think, but I’ll be putting all threads like this on the block list from tomorrow on. I know that nobody cares, not looking for any holier than thou halo polishing. I think discussion is needed and overdue though.
Why are you still here?

Or are you back here to get personal again. . .
Well I hope you live a lifetime of people treating you like he treated her. You’ve made a shitty bed to lay in.
For whatever reason you’re still dragging out this vendetta from weeks ago. Move on.

Fair point
Thank you. Nice to know posts actually get read in here. Gaslighting is apparently acceptable in the CE forum now.
 

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Looking at that video of the women pulling out a gun, if you apply the US/state "stand your ground law" whatever people's feeling, I don't actually see she did much wrong and rightly or wrongly doubt she gets prosecuted.

She was calm in the face of aggression, she tried to leave and the other lady blocked her from doing so and started pounding on her car, at this point in accordance to the law, the other lady is ramping up her aggression to where she could cause damage.
So as bad as it looks the lady pulling out a gun as form of de-escalation and to warden the other lady to back off is not that outrageous if looking how the situation played out in parallel to the boundaries of the law.

Heres a similar but much more extreme example where most would think it being a open and shut murder case but instead the "stand your ground" law came into affect and was being applied, eventually though the shooter was charged and prosecuted with manslaughter
 
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Looking at that video of the women pulling out a gun, if you apply the US/state "stand your ground law" whatever people's feeling, I don't actually see she did much wrong and rightly or wrongly doubt she gets prosecuted.

She was calm in the face of aggression, she tried to leave and the other lady blocked her from doing so and started pounding on her car, at this point in accordance to the law, the other lady is ramping up her aggression to where she could cause damage.
So as bad as it looks the lady pulling out a gun as form of de-escalation and to warden the other lady to back off is not that outrageous if looking how the situation played out in parallel to the boundaries of the law.

Heres a similar but much more extreme example where most would think it being a open and shut murder case but instead the "stand you ground" law came into effect and was being applied, eventually though the shooter was charged and prosecuted with manslaughter
It's not a simiar example at all. In one case someone is shoved to the ground, while in the other someone is sat in his car, pick a gun, leaves the car and brandishes his weapon.
 

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It's not a simiar example at all. In one case someone is shoved to the ground, while in the other someone is sat in his car, pick a gun, leaves the car and brandishes his weapon.
The whole point is the stand your ground law, in this case the women has a right to protect her property as well. People can have their own personal outrage trial, but its irrelevant if there is a law in place that protects you in committing such acts
 

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The whole point is the stand your ground law, in this case the women has a right to protect her property as well. People can have their own personal outrage trial, but its irrelevant if there is a law in place that protects you in committing such acts
That's not the all the point, these are two different situations that will have different laws applied to them. In the first case Michigan brandishing laws are applicable, it wasn't self defense, she left the safety of her car and waved a firearm with intent to cause fear which is illegal. The video that you provided shows someone being shoved to the ground and firing at the aggressor while he was in a vulnerable position.
 

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That's not the all the point, these are two different situations that will have different laws applied to them. In the first case Michigan brandishing laws are applicable, it wasn't self defense, she left the safety of her car and waved a firearm with intent to cause fear which is illegal. The video that you provided shows someone being shoved to the ground and firing at the aggressor while he was in a vulnerable position.
I can't believe you are being more defensive about the actual shooting :confused:
You are completely negating the fact of the women threating her and then proceeding to block and bang on her car trying to prevent them from leaving. Everything that transpired, even if pushing it will likely be within the boundaries of law considering once things de-escalated, she left
 

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I can't believe you are being more defensive about the actual shooting :confused:
You are completely negating the fact of the women threating her and then proceeding to block and bang on her car trying to prevent them from leaving. Everything that transpired, even if pushing it will likely be within the boundaries of law considering once things de-escalated, she left
yeah... but no
In an afternoon news conference, Oakland County Sheriff Michael Bouchard said the suspects, who were arrested at the eatery, each had legal handguns and concealed pistol licenses.

The charges, he added, stem from using their guns to threaten the victims.

Bouchard said the sheriff's detectives investigating the case were "presented with two very different stories from two different groups, with both sides claiming they felt extremely threatened."

No gunshots were fired, there were no injuries and, the sheriff added, had the couple not drawn their weapons on unarmed victims, they would not have been facing felony assault charges.
 

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Do you understand that being charged is not the same as being convicted?
Their lawyer will be presenting their case based around what is permissible within the law
do you understand the police dont charge people if they believe their actions are within the law.
Just like the guy who shot somebody in your other video i expect them to be prosecuted and loose their case
 

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do you understand the police dont charge people if they believe their actions are within the law.
Just like the guy who shot somebody in your other video i expect them to be prosecuted and loose their case
Does this same trail of thought apply to all the police justice being dished out :confused:

Also it's clearly explained why the guy was eventually charged in the other video having previously not being even though he killed someone..
 
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I can't believe you are being more defensive about the actual shooting :confused:
You are completely negating the fact of the women threating her and then proceeding to block and bang on her car trying to prevent them from leaving. Everything that transpired, even if pushing it will likely be within the boundaries of law considering once things de-escalated, she left
Because you have to look at the actual context which you seemingly aren't. I can see why the victims attorney claims that the shooting wasn't justified since his client backed up after shoving the shooter but the action happens quickly, maybe the shooter shouldn't have used his firearm but there is in my opinion a clear mitigating factor. In the case of the Michigan case, the action is lengthy, the couple are safe in their car and they decided to leave if and brandish a firearm, it's not a reaction. And they are not blocked, look at where their car actually is when they stop it, they are totally out of the parking space.
 

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Because you have to look at the actual context which you seemingly aren't. I can see why the victims attorney claims that the shooting wasn't justified since his client backed up after shoving the shooter but the action happens quickly, maybe the shooter shouldn't have used his firearm but there is in my opinion a clear mitigating factor. In the case of the Michigan case, the action is lengthy, the couple are safe in their car and they decided to leave if and brandish a firearm, it's not a reaction. And they are not blocked, look at where their car actually is when they stop it, they are totally out of the parking space.
Again you are chosing to forget what transpired previously. This only became a talking point because people got to see the full video and not they purposely cut up one.The threats and in your face aggression followed by trying to block them from leaving and banging on her car.
When she pulls out the gun, she was not verbally threating to shoot and was backing off. You can clearly see that the lady with the camera was backing away as well, when that happened the lady with the gun left.
 

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Again you are chosing to forget what transpired previously. This only became a talking point because people got to see the full video and not they purposely cut up one.The threats and in your face aggression followed by trying to block them from leaving and banging on her car.
When she pulls out the gun, she was not verbally threating to shoot and was backing off. You can clearly see that the lady with the camera was backing away as well, when that happened the lady with the gun left.
I don't, because previously the couple slowly went back to the safety of their car, they turned their backs at people that were very close to them which means that they didn't actually felt that they were in a life or death situation and they weren't.
You are mischaracterizing what happened previously which was a shouting contest, you are trying to turn it into something else even though everyone's behavior at the time points to the contrary of what you are claiming, you don't walk slowly to your car turning your back to someone who you believe is imminently going to assault you. Which means that at best they started to feel that the use of a firearm was justified when they were in their car.
 

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I can't believe you are being more defensive about the actual shooting :confused:
You are completely negating the fact of the women threating her and then proceeding to block and bang on her car trying to prevent them from leaving. Everything that transpired, even if pushing it will likely be within the boundaries of law considering once things de-escalated, she left

Skip to 1.30. As the camera pans up, the daughter shouts ‘ma watch’ as the car reverses; the mother says “oh you’re going to hit me” then gets hit; after being hit she strikes the window & makes another threat. Feel free to argue the mother was obstructing the vehicle but the car creates the first contact.

Someone’s completely negating the facts here & it isn’t @JPRouve

Actually watch the video then take in his comments.

They are being verbally assaulted. They get into their car, roll up their windows which in effect removes them from the verbal assault. The car reverses with enough room to turn away & a collision occurs.

There’s then a choice; either pull away & leave or stop & escalate.

Both sides act terribly here but attempting to normalise the response of a Jillian Weustenberg here for being irritated is wrong.
 

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Skip to 1.30. As the camera pans up, the daughter shouts ‘ma watch’ as the car reverses; the mother says “oh you’re going to hit me” then gets hit; after being hit she strikes the window & makes another threat. Feel free to argue the mother was obstructing the vehicle but the car creates the first contact.

Someone’s completely negating the facts here & it isn’t @JPRouve

Actually watch the video then take in his comments.

They are being verbally assaulted. They get into their car, roll up their windows which in effect removes them from the verbal assault. The car reverses with enough room to turn away & a collision occurs.

There’s then a choice; either pull away & leave or stop & escalate.

Both sides act terribly here but attempting to normalise the response of a Jillian Weustenberg here for being irritated is wrong.
also @Sky1981 who claimed the man sat in the car and did not draw a weapon - the video clearly shows him outside the car with a drawn weapon... basically exactly what the police said after charging him and the reason the University terminated his contract... he got out the car and threatened people with a loaded weapon... hence he has been charged with felony assault

He did nothing wrong, it wasn't even him with the gun, he calmly get in his car and called the cops.
But hey you were told about this yesterday then refused to admit you were wrong


In an afternoon news conference, Oakland County Sheriff Michael Bouchard said the suspects, who were arrested at the eatery, each had legal handguns and concealed pistol licenses.

The charges, he added, stem from using their guns to threaten the victims.

Bouchard said the sheriff's detectives investigating the case were "presented with two very different stories from two different groups, with both sides claiming they felt extremely threatened."

No gunshots were fired, there were no injuries and, the sheriff added, had the couple not drawn their weapons on unarmed victims, they would not have been facing felony assault charges.
https://eu.freep.com/story/news/loc...chipotle-parking-lot-gun-incident/5366368002/
How about now... still saying he sat calmly in the car and did not draw a gun?
 
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also @Sky1981 who claimed the man sat in the car and did not draw a weapon - the video clearly shows him outside the car with a drawn weapon... basically exactly what the police said after charging him and the reason the University terminated his contract
At first I didn't see it but you can see the gun at 1:48.
 

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also @Sky1981 who claimed the man sat in the car and did not draw a weapon - the video clearly shows him outside the car with a drawn weapon... basically exactly what the police said after charging him and the reason the University terminated his contract... he got out the car and threatened people with a loaded weapon... hence he has been charged with felony assault



But hey you were told about this yesterday then refused to admit you were wrong




How about now... still saying he sat calmly in the car and did not draw a gun?
He still did nothing wrong in my eyes.

If he shot the woman yes we have a case. He didnt. They called the police.

IF I have a legal gun with the proper license I'd do the same thing.
 
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also @Sky1981 who claimed the man sat in the car and did not draw a weapon - the video clearly shows him outside the car with a drawn weapon... basically exactly what the police said after charging him and the reason the University terminated his contract
Tbh I wouldn't describe the weapon drawn part as very clear, he's holding it by his side and it's seen very briefly.
 

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You lot are very unfair towards the couple. It's easy for us to discern things from the safety of our home. It's not always 20/20 when you're there without hindsight.

They did not know what's gonna happen. They didn't know is she's not armed. They didn't know if she's looking for trouble. They didn't know if she got back up.

Plus They have to confront the girl, if they run away it'll be a hit and run and they could be charged with legal issue which could end up very costly.

They pulled their gun, tell her to calm down and back off and called the cops. Could have would have but they didn't shoot them. That's where I draw the line. They're not being trigger happy, they did their part trying to deescalate, trying to run away infact, if not for the daughter hitting the car they would have got away and none of this would happened.

I know about BLM and the current issue, but this case is clearly not racially motivated in my eyes. The man and wife did nothing wrong, morally, and substantially and I stand by my view.
 

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He still did nothing wrong in my eyes.

If he shot the woman yes we have a case. He didnt. They called the police.

IF I have a legal gun with the proper license I'd do the same thing.
Brandishing a firearm is illegal, even in shall issue states. People with carry permits should know this.
 

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I mean, I have sympathy for them because noone should have to put up with what the mother and daughter did, but to react by pulling a gun and pointing it at someone in a threatening way when you are not in danger physically is unacceptable and frankly ridiculous- whether it was racially motivated or not, which I don't think it was.

They just lost their temper because of belligerent people getting in their faces and harassing them for no good reason.
 

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You lot are very unfair towards the couple. It's easy for us to discern things from the safety of our home. It's not always 20/20 when you're there without hindsight.

They did not know what's gonna happen. They didn't know is she's not armed. They didn't know if she's looking for trouble. They didn't know if she got back up.

Plus They have to confront the girl, if they run away it'll be a hit and run and they could be charged with legal issue which could end up very costly.

They pulled their gun, tell her to calm down and back off and called the cops. Could have would have but they didn't shoot them. That's where I draw the line. They're not being trigger happy, they did their part trying to deescalate, trying to run away infact, if not for the daughter hitting the car they would have got away and none of this would happened.

I know about BLM and the current issue, but this case is clearly not racially motivated in my eyes. The man and wife did nothing wrong, morally, and substantially and I stand by my view.
Has this been portrayed as racially motivated?

I don't think I could really defend the couple here, they seem to be dealing with the initial argument well, I'm not sure what to make of the whole thing there because we didn't see the actual 8ncident. At best you could give them a bit of leeway for the initial reversing towards the lady behind the car, though it's actually a pretty dangerous thing to do. At that point the car is in position for them to drive off, the actions they take after that are on them.
 

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I mean, I have sympathy for them because noone should have to put up with what the mother and daughter did, but to react by pulling a gun and pointing it at someone in a threatening way when you are not in danger physically is unacceptable and frankly ridiculous- whether it was racially motivated or not, which I don't think it was.

They just lost their temper because of belligerent people getting in their faces and harassing them for no good reason.
That's exactly how I see it. From the little we know the mother and daughters are way out of line from start to finish and in my opinion that type of behaviour should be punished but the couple's action after they calmly went into their car is also unacceptable, they aren't in the Wild West.
 

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I mean, I have sympathy for them because noone should have to put up with what the mother and daughter did, but to react by pulling a gun and pointing it at someone in a threatening way when you are not in danger physically is unacceptable and frankly ridiculous- whether it was racially motivated or not, which I don't think it was.

They just lost their temper because of belligerent people getting in their faces and harassing them for no good reason.
Yes. I have empathy. I would put myself in their position, they lose their job, got a criminal record, just because it's their bad luck they meet this couple on their day out.

Would we lose our cool if it's us and our wife on that position? Remember, they do not know better. We do
 

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That's exactly how I see it. From the little we know the mother and daughters are way out of line from start to finish and in my opinion that type of behaviour should be punished but the couple's action after they calmly went into their car is also unacceptable, they aren't in the Wild West.
I can understand the need to stop and get out of the car though

I wouldn't want unfinished business of bumping someone with my car left unfinihsed.

In a country like America that could be a lawsuit.

oh, and come on, they're not hititng the girl, the girl was looking for an excuse to continue the fight.
 

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He still did nothing wrong in my eyes.

If he shot the woman yes we have a case. He didnt. They called the police.

IF I have a legal gun with the proper license I'd do the same thing.
IF the woman who had been bumped by the car had a legal gun and a proper licence would she have been justified in pulling it on the driver as she had just had a car run into her?
 

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I can understand the need to stop and get out of the car though

I wouldn't want unfinished business of bumping someone with my car left unfinihsed.

In a country like America that could be a lawsuit.

oh, and come on, they're not hititng the girl, the girl was looking for an excuse to continue the fight.
I didn't talk about the girl being hit, so I don't know why you mention it. And at no point they care about the girl well being or make sure that they aren't at risk of a lawsuit, they went out to threaten them with guns.