1. I've never once seen your points as an attack on me. I see them as an attack on vulnerable people. I've never been a fan of punching down on anyone, ever.
2. 'Not once have I ever said I wanted to cut benefits for someone that's disabled' - the posts I've quoted say otherwise. You label people as not needing benefits without any kind of nuance reasoning, supporting data, or frankly anything to support your arguments. What if (I don't believe this to be the case either, but it's a possibility) every single person claims benefits does actually need it? What if, for example, the cumulative effects of Brexit, Austerity and being in lockdowns for > 2 years (* not a debate out whether lockdowns were right or not - I believe they were necessary, but I'm fortunate to live in a 4 bed detached house with a sizeable garden and in the countryside, so I was able to take my dog for a walk each day and get out of house without issue) has exaccerbated issues that may have, originally, been minor, into major pathologies and issues? Let's not forget how GPs, hospital departments etc essentially shut for routine appointments for this time. Your opinion doesn't account for anything like this to be even possible, which is why I scrutinise and challenge it.
3. There are indeed multiple ways of tackling the issue - but you've never once suggested one! I have, frequently, and detailed how the cost / benefit (see what I did there!) analysis would be lacking. But you've never engaged in that. Why not? It's a valid question to raise...
Person 1: I think we should target benefits to the people who specifically need them
Person 2: OK, but wouldn't that need massive investment in caseworkers and resources? Would that cost outweigh the savings made?
Person 1: I'm not interested in having an argument - goodbye!
What is that if not playing victim?