I think you do him a massive disservice.
This is an experienced manager (despite what people on here believe), he has also got experience at playing football at the very highest level in the toughest of circumstances.
He is one tough cookie,
https://www.fourfourtwo.com/feature...ally-like-interview-manchester-united-manager
He has learnt from the very best, and has played with some real nasty characters, so despite the way he carries himself in the media there is definetly a harder edge to him.
Have you seen the video of the Molde training session where he implores the striker to shoot? This small minute long clip highlights Ole's ability to cut through a jovial atmosphere in seconds, without ever really getting supremely angry or raising his voice fully. Theres a certain ability to this - something SAF had, Pep also has, Klopp too, and many other top managers, the ability to be trusting and firendly to his players whilst simultaneously having teh ability to switch into a managerial mode and dictate that player at will.
Admittedly none of this is of any concern to why we don't start games in the right fashion, however Ole has taken the flack for this in his post game presser, so hopefully we see this rectified, although its a big issue that it's carried on this long already.
The issue I have with starting games is it happens a full 24 hours before the match - the pre match prep will involve the training before tha game, the pre match talks, the meals, the pre match warm up etc, all this Ole alluded to being correct and present during his presser.
We know it's not fitness or fatigue causing this courtesy of so many late goals, so the fact that it happens at the beginning of games would suggest to me that the players are not fully alert and warmed up in the pre game warm up. This rings true also at half time - generally the second half performances have been far better than the first, however we genrally take 5 to 10 minutes in the second half to get going. This would signify to me that the players again are not alert and ready, maybe they are taking their caffiene tablets too late before KO? Maybe they are just not fully mobile due to a fairly light warmup?