Great post. The class of 92 had Eric Harrison and a bunch of no- nonsense pros to guide them. I genuinely wonder if the current crop of young players has anything like that around them. They clearly need it.
Things change though. The world, people's priorities etc. It's difficult to speak for a 21 year old with the global recognition and wages they have. I can't relate to it, so I find it difficult to have a go at them or speak on how I would act instead, I simply don't know.
It comes across a little bit like 'my great grandmother was running a household and had kids when she was 14, young people don't know how good they've got it'. Yeah, times change, social pressures and responsibilities change.
It's a strange situation in that we have so much exposure to these people but at the same time, can't relate to them in many ways at all. The money they earn, the pressures they have to perform, the social media pressure they have, the exposure and money they have....it isn't their fault or mine. So I tend to pretty much ignore whatever they do off the field, unless it is something that impacts their playing ability.
What I will say though, in their defence, is that having to deal with the abuse and stick they get is something none of us can even begin to relate to. Football fans are somewhat unique (possibly extend this to other sports) in that they think that just because they pay money to go and watch something, they are free to speak to those people however they wish. I can't imagine how it would go if someone walked into a clothing store and proceeded to shout, abuse, throw racial slurs and generally belittle the staff, tell them they're terrible at their job, they aren't worth what they are paid etc. If anyone suggests that somebody's wage makes this behaviour OK or that it should be acceptable to suffer it, then I'd suggest you are, at best, incredibly ignorant.
16 - 24 year old lads are usually prone to things like show boating, arrogance, putting themselves about etc. Add in £120k per week salary, millions of global fans who hang on your every update and go into a frenzy whenever you post what you're having for breakfast, pressures professionally to establish and grow your 'brand' and I'm surprised more players of this age aren't absolute bell ends.
Ultimately, if you don't like it, just ignore it. I have always detested social media because I think it brings out so much bad in people and I can't be bothered with it. So I have absolutely no idea what type of car Rashford drives, what he does in his spare time, what he likes or dislikes and what his external hobbies are. I really don't care. I don't see why it is necessary for me to have an opinion on his choice of restaurant or what he does with himself. If it clearly impacts how he performs on the pitch, then maybe. Even that is really subjective though and unless it is things like alcohol binges, smoking etc, I don't see that it matter much. Or why people care.
I could also see why they might want to respond to some abuse by pointing out what % they are in, when it comes to professional success. They will get daily that they are terrible at what they do. You see it on here all the time. Players like Lukaku get loads of abuse, accused of being a rubbish player, bang average at this and that, can't control a ball etc. It's obviously drivel that seems to be spouted by a large section of fans. In actual fact, he is in a tiny % of people who have even made it to his level, let alone achieve what he has. He is clearly an elite football player in the grand scheme of things but he is torn down and his talent/effort reduced to laughable levels. If it were me and I was getting this sort of abuse, I would probably point out how much more successful I was than that person or how difficult it is to do what I do. The fact people then kick off about that sort of thing is a joke. I've seen a few trolls called out in similar ways by celebrities and I think 'fair play'. We're entitled to an opinion but when some spotty, overweight bloke called Keith who works in an Eon call centre thinks he has the right to call Lukaku (for example) overweight and rubbish at his trade, I think he deserves to have it pointed out that he's an utter cretin who hasn't achieved even a fraction of what Lukaku has with his life.