I'm not sure where to start here
I have purged most of the show from my mind, but I remember a fair few things that irked me -
1. Perrins dead wife - Perrin wasn't married or in a relationship in the books, but they threw in a wife to give the first episode that "shock" factor. The only thing is, a dead wife isn't something you just kill off for shock value. That should have long term effects on his character that should shape him for basically the rest of the story. Instead, it felt like once his wife was dead you never really saw or felt the effects of it deeply. It was so obviously tacked on and I knew from the start we were in for a bad time.
2. Matt Cauthon - In the books Matt is a happy go lucky mischievous character from a good family. He is your classic immature trouble maker who grows in maturity with the series but always has that cheekiness to him. The show just darkens his whole character from the start and that felt completely unnecessary to me.
3. Who is the Dragon? - The Dragon is a man, always. It can not be a woman and never will be. A small and harmless change to pretend it can be a woman, but an example of "modernizing" something for no reason whatsoever.
4. Siuan and Moiraine lovers - In the books they are friends from when they were apprentices in Tar Valon. In the show they are lovers. Why? I'll get to my thoughts on that in a bit...
5. Perrin fancying Egwene - Not in the books. Perrin has no romantic attraction to Egwene whatsoever. This "forced" love Triangle between Perrin, Egwene and Rand is another example of bad writing.
6. Everyones shagging eachother - Sex exists in the books, but a lot of people (not all) have more conservative values. The show has none of that and everyone shags fairly freely.
7. Tarwins Gap - This is meant to be Rands demonstration of power as we see he is the Dragon Reborn, instead his big moment is split between the female cast (sigh). It's like the show doesn't believe or understand the strength of the female characters in the books, so instead of needs to do things like pretend they can be the dragon and give them some of the male casts moments. What about the fact that the men in the books are reluctant heroes? They all want to go home but they can't because they are bound to the pattern of the wheel and "Destined" to be heroes. The females however CHOOSE to go with them and make themselves heroes. Does the show believe that making that choice shows even more character or strength than being destined? Probably not, that would require depth and quality of writing to get that point across. Just let the women makes things go boom, that'll show us their power is equal to the men!
Also, Egwene dies and comes back in the show, this never happens in the books. And how shit a trope is it to kill someone and bring them back in the same episode?
8. Moiraine loses her powers at the end of Season 1 - This doesn't happen in the books. Not sure where they went with this or what the impact on Season 2 was because I hated it to much to bother continuing. But I would guess she gets them back fairly quickly leaving people wondering what the point of taking them away even was.
As you can tell I basically hated everything!
But really, the main issue is that vibe of the show was completely wrong. WoT is mostly wholesome. It is very Lord of the Rings for the most part. In fact the first book was purposefully wrote to be rather "Shire-esque" in it's first few chapters, and the rest of it definitely has a LotR feel to it. The violence and horror of evil is there, but it's restrained in it's detail. Sex is real and people have it, but they are more conservative about it. The TV show so obviously wants to be GoT and they think the best thing they can do to any source material is 1. Make violence as graphic as possible, 2. Make everything darker in terms of character and 3. Sex, sex, sex
Also, homosexuality in shows. If you are going to make references to this that don't exist in the source material you need to be mature about it. In GoT attitudes towards homosexuality is represented in different ways, it is widely considered a sin with some people being forward thinking enough to not mind it. If you are going to add something about homosexuality that didn't exist in the books then at least put some complexity to it. In the show the subject of homosexuality is completely aligned with modern values and that is just such rubbish writing. I don't think the show would even dare have one of the main characters show some kind of uncomfortableness with such a thing, it's like everyone there is from 2025.
Lastly, the show felt so small and clean. Every big set piece felt tiny. Everyone looked like they grabbed their outfits fresh out of the wardrobe before shooting.
When I think of the two best adaptions of Fantasy ever you have LotR, which was truly lightning in a bottle. It completely embraces the source material and felt so grand and epic. GoT early seasons was truly great TV and managed to appeal to people who never read a fantasy book by having great casting, and incredible dialogue mixed in with political intrigue and character based conflict.
Wheel of Time TV Show basically took a grand LotR story, tried to make it GoT, lost it's grandeur and spectacle, didn't have the writing to back up how "smaller" it felt, and somehow managed to scrape 3 seasons by adding enough sex, violence and shock to keep enough fans wanting more until eventually it was rightly binned for being shit!
Right, back to the books and loving every moment of it!