It's not correct to generalise about the status and experience of women in such countries. A lot of different considerations should be taken into consideration. I work as an NGO in such places and cultures. Many women due to their wealth, education, status and achievements are often more powerful than men and head their families, although this is not the norm. Yes, the women live by different rules, however, the life of ordinary men compared to their womenfolk in such countries is no better when they have no work. Basically, the person who earns is likely to be the most respected. That's how it works, unfortunately.