So can you explain what you know about god's love and why this divine intervention is so inconsistent? And where can we find daily evidence of god's power at work?
I have thought about gods quite a lot in my life, about what I would do if I had that kind of power etc and it's actually one of the biggest reasons why I'm so bitter about it. For example with the Christian god, why did he not simply create paradise and fill it with sane, happy people right from the start? You'd think that was a no-brainer but instead he supposedly created an enormous universe of which 99.∞% is inhospitable to humans and then put us on a little planet made up of 70% water, filled with natural disasters, diseases, oh and a devil and a bunch of dinosaur bones as well because why not, all as a "test" just to decide whether he should torture us forever or make us his bff's..
Imagine having a completely blank sheet and the ability to do anything you wanted and then landing on that idea...twice. I then realize that most of the people on the planet believe that stories like these represents actual reality and it genuinely makes me sad to think about how many people throughout time has had their entire lives ruined or taken from them because of it, especially since we know for a fact that we don't need religion to have a happy, functioning society.
As for your 2nd question, I would never want a personal relationship with the god of the bible even if he disowned Jesus and adopted me in his place as he's a fecking monster. To be perfectly honest with you I'll never be able to understand how anyone could think otherwise, I mean he supposedly once murdered pretty much everyone on the entire planet. That should be top of the list of the "coincidences" you were talking about that match what we know about god's love.