No I'm just getting the impression from the various reports that, as you say, he'd rather stay at Barcelona (so, he doesn't to come here) but if it was unavoidable because of the economics, he would be open to moving to United.
It's also based on various reports that if he did have to leave Barcelona, he would be more open to a move to Chelsea than us.
I think the statement "Frenkie De Jong does not want to come to United" is a fair conclusion, based on that info.
I'm not saying he won't come, but it's not looking likely right now. And the fact United are briefing we're still confident of getting the deal done, I find a bit bemusing.