Totally agree here. I know De Grandhomme is being relentlessly brought up, but the genuine characteristics of what is actually happening in both circumstances are totally different, it's like comparing Smith and Starcs two catches, there might be similarities, but they aren't the same.
Stokes values a top class competitiveness over winning at any cost, it's what makes him ultra unique to be fair. Any other England captain in history just does what Cummins does, since most top level sportsmen value winning at any cost over genuine sportsmanship, whether we like it or not, it's essentially the mentality that's got to that level.