Will only quote you now, because i don't take most of the other people serious, given the kind of their answers..
You should read my statement again. In no way what so ever did i say what you imply..quite the opposite. Twice by the way. This was already a clarification from before. I'd say read my statement again, but i want to make it easy now, so no more misunderstandings happen:
I am an extreme "E"(about 85%,staying with the MBTI letters for now, because most people don't know the OCEAN/FFM model) myself, and i thought this
“Some of them can win a big match, what I think they can’t do is win it and cope with that intensity, especially that mental intensity, the focus, the concentration, the responsibility, the determination."and derivations of that sentence regaring other areas of business about quite some "I"people before getting accustomed with psychology theories like MBTI, OCEAN/FFM and what not. The reason was their (seemingly) lack of participation in groups, in discussions, their body language, etc..all those "I" behaviors. In reality it was not true - those "I" people had the same responsibility, determination, intensity and what not like the "E" people i knew - i just didn't know it at that time, because they didn't show it in the same way i would. Only when i took classes like leadership competencies i learned, and i began to understand what's behind it. Now i know that your kind is not less capable then our kind
The thing is, i don't think Mourinho ever took those lessons. Most people don't have a clue about human relations, i know quite some small or mid-sized company bosses, including my dad, and noone of them has had a clue in those business based psychological theories. It takes time and effort, and i guess most football managers have never heard about it...especially when some success proves them right. I think Mourinho, just like i did in the past, is confusing introvert behavior with the bolded part in my statement. I had this opinion already before his interview, and this part:
just proves it for me. Especially since many of those players have never been called out before, by any other manager.
You also misunderstood what i was saying obviously. I hope the above explains enough. It's obviously not only the E/I dilemma, it's different mental aspects as well, i didn't want to go too deep in a football forum. Valencia is not a clear "I" for me. He is shy, yes, but it probably has to do with him not being comfortable in English, being in another culture, etc. Even i am shy, when i talk to people from complete different cultures..his body language however doesn't look like "I" for me..at least not distinctive, both on and off pitch. It's the obvious "I"s (>70%) Jose seems to have a problem with..Martial seems as "I" as you can get for example.
Thanks for the book tip, another one for my car (audiobook obviously).
I am convinced that not a single senior player of our club has a "weak mentality" in contrary to most forum users here. My little half brother played at the youth of a professional club for quite some time, so i know how they handle the kids there...10 year olds must cope with more pressure then your average McK consultant. Drives me mad when uneducated people throw around those nonsense accusations while never achieving anything close to that (being a pro footballer) in their lifes.