Chelsea and City aren't big clubs, and their recent successes however great will never be respected. I agree with peterstorey, in that United Arsenal and of course Liverpool are the big clubs in this country. There's a long, long list of clubs that are bigger than Chelsea.
I would personally stop supporting United if they were owned by someone like Abramovich. The magic would die.
The argument about us restricting opportunities for lower-placed teams by EssexRob is ridiculous, and if it wasn't such an upsetting situation (as clubs like Everton, Spurs and Liverpool genuinely deserve to do well) I would find the idea of a Chelsea supporter accusing us of that hilarious... One only needs to look at the players Abramovich poached in his first season:
Parker,J Cole, Bridge, Duff, Wirght-Phillips... they've gone on to pinch Ba, Mereiles, Moses, Cahill, Sidwell, A Cole etc...
So their solution to us signing the other teams' best players.... is to sign other teams' best players?