OP updated btw.
Truly believe with competent officiating this season, we'd most likely be sitting top of the league.
Unsurprisingly this is an incredibly one eyed thread. I've only seen 4 or 5 of your games this season but I can cherry pick a few decisions that went your way to offer some balance:
- Bailly vs City in the Prem. On a yellow Bailly slid through the back of Otamendi in the box. Should have been a penalty at least and likely a second yellow (not 100% sure if that new double jeopardy rule would cover this?). Ref gives a goal kick.
- Bailly vs Chelsea. On a yellow Bailly clearly fouls Hazard off the ball in the box injuring himself in the process. Should have been a penalty and.... see above. Ref missed it completely.
- Herrera vs City in the EFL cup. Makes no attempt to play the ball and blocks Fernando (I think it was?) in the box in the run up to your goal. Ball rolled to Mata for the only goal of the game.
- Darmian vs Arsenal. Should have had a second yellow for his studs up challenge on Jenkinson. Yes the first yellow was soft however he'd already escaped a yellow early on when he hauled Theo down on the half-way line as Arsenal were breaking. That should have been his first yellow (tactical foul) but the ref let it go, seemingly realised his mistake (lino / 4th official in his ear?) and gave him a soft yellow for his next challenge.
Four incidents from four games that went in your favour.
The truth is you've dropped points for the same reasons every other team does - poor decision making, poor finishing, off days, tactically neutralised and sometimes because you're simply out-played (Chelsea alone this season from what I've seen).
Yes you dominated the majority of the game yesterday and yes, on the balance of play you deserved 3 points. However the Mata chance in the first half aside you didn't create any clear cut chances (obvs excluding your goal) and you allowed Arsenal a great chance with 2 minutes to go. That's why you dropped 2 points.
Redarding the penalty claim, as Giggs and company said at half time anywhere else on the pitch it's a foul (a phrase I'm sure you've all heard numerous times before, these types of decisions happen a lot in football). You won't be surprised to learn I think Valencia went down far too easily, especially for a man who's capable of running through brick walls unscathed.
Yes there was contact but then it's a contact sport (or at least used to be, most pundits don't seem to think this nowadays, looking at you Danny Murphy you pessimistic toad). Having said that, if the same occurred at the other end of the pitch I'd definitely be screaming my head off.
It's almost like our opinions of incidents are massively influenced by the teams we support.