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I quite honestly can't comprehend how a man can pretend to live with a woman while knowing his preference is towards men and not loose his mind in the process. I mean, I can't think of a straight bloke who'd go about his life with a same sex partner for even a week.
 

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You'd think so wouldn't you. I mean you'd have to surely as the wife. I imagine they'd remain friends though. It doesn't make him a bad person afterall even though the way its being reported in some quarters you'd think he was admitting something terrible.
That's what I don't get, he doesn't say in the announcement that they are splitting just that he is gay.

Gay, rather than Bi, suggests he's never been sexually attracted to women and therefore his love for his wife has always been platonic and their relationship is no longer or has never been romantic. It also suggests that he would rather be in a relationship with a man.

If he still loves her and intends to stay with her, it's an absolutely horrible position to drop her into publicly.

Obviously it's his personal choice and no business of mine but this just feels like a classic This Morning sensational moment that could have been handled better. Could he not have protected her dignity a bit more after 27 years of marriage framed it in a slightly more flattering way for her?
 

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Honestly that man got to sit beside Holly Willobooby for god knows how long and now that I know he was gay I just think .. what a waste.
 

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Call me naive here, but if he has always been attracted to men then how was he getting aroused for sex with his wife? Surely they can't of just had intercourse when it came time to conceive, and would that not of set off alarm bells for the wife if that was the case.

Feel awful for his wife, she has basically spent all of her prime years with him and now will have to start again.
 

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Yeah honestly the news to me today was that people up to know thought he was straight!

Werid one though. Though no unheard of. I personally know someone who's father went through this, and another person who's mother did. One was a lot less messy and supported than the other. The messy one involved more country type people so I don't think they could really understand it.

Fair play to him. Big thing to put all of this out there, and not just for himself but his wife especially.
Yeah, it happens. My aunt has a daughter in her mid 30s and came out about 10 years ago when her daughter was about the same age that Schofield's daughters are. It wasn't a surprise to the family when she came out, though as we kinda knew.
 

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Yeah, it happens. My aunt has a daughter in her mid 30s and came out about 10 years ago when her daughter was about the same age that Schofield's daughters are. It wasn't a surprise to the family when she came out, though as we kinda knew.
That's good. It's nice that it happened naturally too. In one of the cases I know of, the son found texts on his father's phone that made it quite obvious. Not sure why he was looking but he took it to his siblings (between 20-30) and decided whether to tell their mother. In the end I think they sat on it for a whole before making the father come clean himself. Sounded horrendously messy.
 

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Quite, i was shocked to hear that he had a wife and two daughters.
Chap I know managed FIVE children before coming out! His explanation when questioned is that anyone with a pulse can father a child.
 

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Always wondered how he could sit next to Holly without a tent at full mast. All makes sense now.
 

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Let’s hope his disclosure is voluntary, and hasn’t been precipitated by the imminent publication of sordid allegations in The Sun.
 

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Call me naive here, but if he has always been attracted to men then how was he getting aroused for sex with his wife? Surely they can't of just had intercourse when it came time to conceive, and would that not of set off alarm bells for the wife if that was the case.

Feel awful for his wife, she has basically spent all of her prime years with him and now will have to start again.
Because getting the old man to stand to attention is simply a physiological response of the body. You dont necessarily have to be attracted to the person.
 

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His career would have been panned if he had come out 23 years ago. No way BBC would have hired him to be on a kids show, so probably why he kept shush back then.
 

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Always wondered how he could sit next to Holly without a tent at full mast. All makes sense now.
I've never understood "jokes" like this. All you're basically saying is it's impossible for you to control yourself around an attractive woman.
 

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Because getting the old man to stand to attention is simply a physiological response of the body. You dont necessarily have to be attracted to the person.
It's not that. Many gay men has sexual relationships with women and are physically attracted to them. Its an emotional thing that they can only get from same sex partners, known as being homoromantic. Source on this was Graham Norton and Julian Clarey who both slept with women.
 

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Gotta feel for him and his family. It's a bit shit to think that in 2020 there are still people living a lie because of fear.
 

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Let’s hope his disclosure is voluntary, and hasn’t been precipitated by the imminent publication of sordid allegations in The Sun.
This was my first thought.......however it seems like that's not the case thank goodness. Seems like he just couldn't hide the truth any longer.
 

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Let’s hope his disclosure is voluntary, and hasn’t been precipitated by the imminent publication of sordid allegations in The Sun.
Very good point.
 

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So bisexual then rather than gay.
Strictly speaking but it seems 'gay' is used for men that want to be in deep emotional relationships with other men. Freddie Mercury was the same in that he slept with lots of women but wanted to be with a man so was known as being 'gay'.
 

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Let’s hope his disclosure is voluntary, and hasn’t been precipitated by the imminent publication of sordid allegations in The Sun.
I think it was. He’ll sell his story to a sordid publication soon enough
 

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Always thought he was. He said he’s never lied to his wife so I assume she’s known all along?
 

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Always thought he was. He said he’s never lied to his wife so I assume she’s known all along?
That is the impression I got too. Also when he said that his family, including his wife, have been supportive of him and have helped him to come out. Even if he only came out to them within the last few years or whenever I don’t think it’s a thing where they only found out today like we did, as people are making it out to be the case
 

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Always thought he was. He said he’s never lied to his wife so I assume she’s known all along?
When he’s earning the mega bucks
he does, you’d probably be advising him to keep it a secret for a while. Until it looks like someone may break the story of course
 

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That is the impression I got too. Also when he said that his family, including his wife, have been supportive of him and have helped him to come out. Even if he only came out to them within the last few years or whenever I don’t think it’s a thing where they only found out today like we did, as people are making it out to be the case
Being a gay children's tv presenter was a no-no back in the 80s and 90s. Wouldn't be beyond the realms of possibility that he made a conscious effort to try settle down for the good of his career. Sad if that is the case.
 

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Being a gay children's tv presenter was a no-no back in the 80s and 90s. Wouldn't be beyond the realms of possibility that he made a conscious effort to try settle down for the good of his career. Sad if that is the case.
Yeah this is true. I was only born in 1997 but I can imagine the how bad the stigma would’ve been back then
 

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Timing is suspect as he was under fire for his comments about Meghan Markle.
PR gonna PR.
 

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Timing is suspect as he was under fire for his comments about Meghan Markle.
PR gonna PR.
I think his days were numbered given his stance on Meghan while calling out Corbyn on anti Semitism
 

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Complete non-story. Schofield has recently been getting slated by all his peers for being an arsehole to work with...If i'm being cynical it's a bit convenient timing to gain sympathy from the media.

Bet Jameela Jamil is fuming.
 

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Complete non-story. Schofield has recently been getting slated by all his peers for being an arsehole to work with...If i'm being cynical it's a bit convenient timing to gain sympathy from the media.

Bet Jameela Jamil is fuming.
The Barrymore Timing
 

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I've no idea how I didn't get given out to for my joke which was basically the same joke @lewwoo made, before he did, but I'll take it!