Israel is a democracy, the voters need to take some of the blame.
This line of thinking is exactly the kind of slippery slope that leads to make [insert whichever group one dislikes, disapproves, and/or is afraid of] a legitimate target for collective punishment and even genocide, so I'd be careful with that.
People aren't inherently bad or evil, bar a few exceptions. Since its inception, there's been an enormous amount of propaganda and indoctrination in Israel, starting with schools, to instil and cultivate the idea that there is no Palestine to speak of and there can be no peace with the Palestinians. For example, it is forbidden to teach or talk about the Nakba in schools. The Arabs in general and Palestinians in particular can never be trusted and will throttle you if given the slightest chance. So better keep your boot on their throat, no matter what.
Hence the pathological need to demonstrate might in order to deter any real or perceived hostile intent from the neighbours, especially the one that you currently occupy and intend to absorb in the long-term. If you add to that the millenia long traumatic past of the Jews and the countless persecutions they've been victim of, it's easy to understand where they coming from and how they felt after 10/7. To be clear, understanding is not justifying. However you can't solve a problem without coming to grips with what caused it in the first place.
One also has to take into account that Israel is a very young country, much like the Arab ones. What's happening in Israel/Palestine really isn't new if we roll back the centuries. The birth of a nation is a struggle, seldom bloodless or without extreme prejudice towards a group or even an entire population, accompanied by a thorough rewriting of History by the victor. It literally is a do or die, for both Palestine and Israel.
That's why I personally think that without a third party jumping in, one of the two sides is condemned to disappear, one way or or another. Given the current balance of power, the answer is pretty much obvious. The only question is are we going to sit and watch or eventually do something about it?