My mistake for asking for cases, I hope you got my point. False accusations are extremely rare and nowhere near 50%Ryan Giggs , Reuben Foster, Marshawn Lynch....
My mistake for asking for cases, I hope you got my point. False accusations are extremely rare and nowhere near 50%Ryan Giggs , Reuben Foster, Marshawn Lynch....
Like I've said in other posts. I think the media needs to be reminded that they aren't judge, jury and executioner, and if they wish to be so then to stop cherry-picking, which they're clearly doing if they're putting pressure on the club to suspend a player for allegations while not putting pressure on other clubs who are freely playing charged players on bail.Sadly yep
A bad media imagine would cost United a lot more than the 90m they paid for the player, I’m talking extremes here obviously but if sponsors start to drop and a massive or campaign against the club happens theres a point where it’s best to just put the player on gardening leave/suspension or whatever you want to call it
I dont see any downside to not be violent against women.Mason stayed silent and that didnt help him at all.
No matter what these players do there will be downsides.
I agree but the British media are fecking scumbags and will do anything for clicks/buys and a Manchester United player facing these accusations is a massive storyLike I've said in other posts. I think the media needs to be reminded that they aren't judge, jury and executioner, and if they wish to be so then to stop cherry-picking, which they're clearly doing if they're putting pressure on the club to suspend a player for allegations while not putting pressure on other clubs who are freely playing charged players on bail.
Legally he's not guilty, that's why he's playing football in madrid and not in prison.You are using Greenwood's case where it did ended like you say. But we also know that some innocent people were locked for months and years too. So what do we have left then? Mob rule?
In this case, with this limited facts that we have, it does look that he is guilty. So that is it? Whatever happens next in court, he is guilty? Because "it seems that he is"?
To be fair, British football whored itself to the media decades agoYeah, but its the British media. Hypocritical is one of the lesser criticisms you can level at them.
Yep. They are lower than 10%. According to some studies.My mistake for asking for cases, I hope you got my point. False accusations are extremely rare and nowhere near 50%
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Striker Antony detailed his relationship with his ex-girlfriend, DJ Gabriela Cavallin, and stated, in an exclusive interview with SBT's "Fofocalizando", this Friday (8), that he "never attacked any woman". He says that Cavallin manipulated the conversations that were made public last week by a report by "UOL". Gabriela accuses the player of threats and aggression.
Antony says that his ex-girlfriend did not go to live with him in Holland, when he was playing for Ajax, because he was married. He admitted to having cheated on his ex-wife and having the desire to keep Gabriela only as a lover. "(Gabriela) didn't go to live with me in the Netherlands. She went, but stayed in a hotel. Especially because, when I was getting involved with her, she knew that I was already married. But the moment she went to Amsterdam, she stayed in hotels," he said.
To "UOL", Gabriela stated that Antony was controlling and inconsistent in the relationship. The attacker alternated moments of affection with aggressive situations, with attacks of jealousy. In one of these cases, the athlete was reportedly irritated by the fact that she liked old photos of Gil Cebola with Neymar. "What I don't understand is that everything Gil Cebola posted about Neymar you liked. Even though it's an old photo. There's even a commented photo", shows the UOL report. In an interview with "Fofocalizando", Antony denies being controlling.
"No. Of course not (I didn't think I was controlling). As I said, it was something between both parties. There were clothes that I commented on. But she went out several times wearing short clothes. I already (asked her to change her clothes). There were places that I think she could go more behaved. I said: "for me, it's very vulgar", "said the attacker.
According to Gabriela, in June 2022, Antony had a jealous attack after seeing photos of the DJ in a nightclub. He allegedly put her in the car on the way out, attacked her and threatened to throw her out of the car at high speed. "He said that if I didn't stay with him, I wouldn't stay with anyone. That I was pregnant with his child. Either I would stay with him or he, he and our son would die. I told him that I was pregnant, that he was scaring me, making my heart race. I was shaking with fear", said Cavallin. He denies it.
"I never said that. The security guard took me to the car and at that moment she started to get upset inside the car. She questions why I went to the club and didn't call her. She started cursing me, said it was going to end my career. She pushed me, but not hard. At that moment, I didn't even hold her or anything. Never (I pulled her hair). Never (I threatened to throw her out of the vehicle). There are many things that she's saying it's not true," he said.
Antony declared that Gabriela changed the conversations exposed in the UOL report. "There are things that were altered on her part in the prints. She sends a message and deletes one that I sent, for example one that I ask for "forgiveness". She manipulated it and I have proof of all of this. I will contact my lawyers ".
Asked about the print in which the athlete says he wants Gabriela Cavallin to die, Antony clarifies. "Yes (I came to wish her dead). But you need to see the context of the story. It didn't have the meaning of" die ", it was more of a curse word, just like she already did", he said.
Gabriela claims to have been injured with a headbutt, which ended up causing a cut on her head. The image of the injury was attached to the inquiry and revealed by UOL (see below). Antony denies having even touched the DJ. "At no point did I touch her. I left training in the morning and after training I went to the hotel. We had lunch together, everything was normal, and one thing that bothered her was when I said I needed to go. Me sitting on the bed , she put her hand on my face. I stayed in the bathroom for five minutes. She didn't let me leave. She threw a plate at me, I held her back. At no point did I touch her. When she sent this photo (of the cut on her head) , I was already at home. She was not hurt. I held her and calmed her down, after a while she calmed down", he said.
The DJ stated that the player would have displaced the silicone prosthesis on his chest with a punch. "I don't remember exactly who the fight was over, but it was someone I had hooked up with years ago. He punched me in the chest and my silicone turned. And then I came to Brazil to operate. I had to change the prosthesis He said 'I didn't mean to hurt you, I didn't mean to, it wasn't a punch, I just pushed you, I just held you against the wall'", says Cavallin. Again, Antony denies having physically attacked her.
"Never. Me punching a woman in the chest? It was diagnosed that she had a business to trade in silicone since 2020", he said. "She told me that her silicone (had a problem) because she fell in the bathroom".
Gabriela reported that, in May 2023, Antony tried to hit her in the face with a glass bowl. She defended herself with her hand, which ended up cut, exposing bones in her finger. "Antony locked the door of the house and wouldn't let me leave, and I had my finger open, all hurt. He broke my things, took my passport. His mother and stepfather even arrested him inside the football court, he had a football court inside the living room, surrounded by a fence, like a fence. He was upset, trying to get out of the court in any way, throwing a football at me, throwing a cell phone at me. He was talking that he was going to kill me, that he was going to kill himself", said DJ.
The player version is completely different. He says that nothing reported by Gabriela happened. "Of course not (none of that happened). She was very upset, she had been drinking a lot. We were at a barbecue, she had been drinking a lot. She was sitting on the sofa, and I had drunk a glass of gin. She was holding her glass and asked her to stop drinking. I asked for the glass and she held it. I didn't even pull it, she pushed it down. I wanted her to stop drinking. My mother helps her, washes her finger, asks a friend of mine buy bandages. My physiotherapist came home. They don't even have a key to the house court. There's no padlock, there's nothing", he said.
After the conversations became public, Antony was cut from the Brazilian team . The striker also responded to what he felt when he discovered that he would not be defending Brazil in this World Cup qualifying debut. "It was difficult (being cut from the national team). I was very sorry, because it is something that I am 100% sure is not true. It is not easy, we work and fight to make dreams come true, even more so when we wear the Brazilian team shirt", he said.
The striker was in Brazil after the call-up and, after finishing the exclusive interview with "Fofocalizando", he returned to England and joined his Manchester United teammates. The club is aware of the investigation and is following the case closely. Antony says he does not fear a termination with the team.
"It's something that doesn't cross my mind (losing the contract with Manchester). The truth will come out", he declared.
Gabriela made complaints against Antony in Brazil and England. Processes are underway in both countries. In addition to the DJ, two other women also accuse the athlete of assault.
I agree with you that legal system is flawed (and corrupt in same cases). Absolutely. And it sucks to be that person who is fecked by legal system. But between mob rule (which we have today often) and legal system, i choose legal system.Legally he's not guilty, that's why he's playing football in madrid and not in prison.
But we've all seen the pictures and heard the audio, which indicate he's guilty of abusing his partner, that much seems obvious. That's why we're talking about a second chance, he was extremely lucky and got away with it because he convinced his partner to withdraw from the case. Happens all the time.
So why put all your chips on a system that so regularly fail? Both at letting criminals walk free and imprisons innocent people? Makes no sense.
But that's hyperbole isn't it? There is no mob and no one is trying to do justice with their own hands, many people are just against him playing for their football club. They accept what the justice system has done but based on what they saw and heard, they don't like him and don't want to be associated with him. Going from this to mob rule is really pushing it.I agree with you that legal system is flawed (and corrupt in same cases). Absolutely. And it sucks to be that person who is fecked by legal system. But between mob rule (which we have today often) and legal system, i choose legal system.
It was translated so gotta keep that in mind for these little bits
Maybe they could just stop (allegedly) abusing their partners. I reckon that would help.Mason stayed silent and that didnt help him at all.
No matter what these players do there will be downsides.
Even if he does ultimately end up being innocent, which one should hope he is, he comes across as quite a douchebag. Also the him being controlling thing definitely seems on point, even in the way he describes incidents.From Reddit, Antony's interview:
Well said.I dont see any downside to not be violent against women.
You can argue he came across that way regardless of the incidents.Even if he does ultimately end up being innocent, which one should hope he is, he comes across as quite a douchebag. Also the him being controlling thing definitely seems on point, even in the way he describes incidents.
Yeah I was wondering if something may come across differently in translation.It was translated so gotta keep that in mind for these little bits
But it is a mob rule. Look how many people (in general, not only Caf) are convinced (not just that they think) that he is guilty. And they demand from the club to at least suspend him. Look at all this pressure on club also.But that's hyperbole isn't it? There is no mob and no one is trying to do justice with their own hands, many people are just against him playing for their football club. They accept what the justice system has done but based on what they saw and heard, they don't like him and don't want to be associated with him. Going from this to mob rule is really pushing it.
This is a position that puts a heck of a lot of trust in the legal system in both directions.I am strong believer in "innocent until proven guilty". And until he is found guilty, he should be free to live his life. If he is guilty then burn the violent prick.
You do know that when he says he didn't touch her he means harm her right? Or are you just being difficult on purpose
The Arsenal guy hasn't been charged. Also I couldn't care less what other clubs are doing and would be more worried about supporting a team with someone potentially abusing women playing.Calls for the club to ban him with an ongoing legal process are stupid, and if the media are calling for the club to take action the club should just respond with the Arsenal guy's name, who is actually charged and on bail, and ask them why they are letting him have a free ride.
Antony has also done what looks like a tv interview.There’s a tv interview with one of the alleged victims airing over the weekend it’s more thank likely going to be damning isn’t it. If/when he’s arrested will be the turning point
I mean Greenwood’s partner was never going to press charges but it seems these will do it could be worse
100% agree with you.I agree with you that legal system is flawed (and corrupt in same cases). Absolutely. And it sucks to be that person who is fecked by legal system. But between mob rule (which we have today often) and legal system, i choose legal system.
Yes well that is the obvious answer. But thats not what i was replying to.Maybe they could just stop (allegedly) abusing their partners. I reckon that would help.
He’s probably seen what’s happened with the Greenwood situation and thought, ‘feck that, I’m not gonna let the media control the narrative’.The move by Antony to get his side of the story out there, and get ahead of the impending mob verdict, is smart. If he had waited in silence while the courts do their job, he'd probably have been heavily penalised at United since the club doesn't have the brains or backbone to defend truth. They just care about image, which is in turn linked to social media mob opinion.
The legal standard for a doctor reporting something to the police, without a patient's permission, is very high due to confidentiality/privacy considerstions. A cut finger isn't neccesarily even suspicious so there may have been nothing to report.Legally, doubtedly so.
There no key witness other than private doctor whom could've reported it long ago but both side can't give legit reason why he didn't. So benefit of the doubt etc
Yes, but there is a flip side to this.He’s probably seen what’s happened with the Greenwood situation and thought, ‘feck that, I’m not gonna let the media control the narrative’.
Who knows if that’s the right or wrong thing to do, but IF someone were innocent of such accusations it would be very hard to sit there and watch the media and rabid social media Karens take over the situation.
But again, I don’t think him speaking out or staying silent should have any sway on people’s opinions.
I don’t think people should even have an opinion until the legal process has been completed or abandoned. It’s ludicrous.
These kind of cases turn the issues into a repulsive soap opera / Jeremy Kyle type scenario where the audience bleats and boos and jeers and cheers and the serious issues are bastardised and warped into entertainment.
It’s pathetic.
In this thread and the Greenwood case the amount of times I’ve read people say, ‘I need to hear an explanation’, ‘until I have it explained to me why this was said’ etc - and it’s like, you have nothing to do with this, nor do I. You are not owed any explanation or information other than the legal outcome. You can then either accept that, or essentially sink into gossip and conspiracy.
I find it completely insane that people can’t grasp this.
What didn't help him was violating his bail twice to go directly to the victim, soon after which charges were dropped.Mason stayed silent and that didnt help him at all.
No matter what these players do there will be downsides.
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Could be another Neymar situation if this is indeed true