They are no better than you. Is that what you wanted to hear? Do you and your mates also laugh when certain crowds throw bananas onto the pitch, and justify it in a similar way?
As for the facetious comment at the end, personally I couldn't care less whether you make the effort to act like a decent human being that takes into account the feelings of others, or if instead you think it's acceptable to make loaded comments that are likely to deeply offend someone as long as you get a laugh out of it.
However, I'll reserve the right to find that a very ignorant and unrealistic stance to take, and hope that for your sake you are never affected by such an issue so you can continue in your pursuit of hilarious banter
That is your right, but going further than that, and trying to police language, is a lazy cnuts move, to put it lightly..
Look, rape is horrible, despicable, awful. I read an article in the NY Times about a botched rape investigation on a college campus in the States. Link below...
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/13/us/how-one-college-handled-a-sexual-assault-complaint.html?_r=0
Reading that had me boiling. There was documented evidence that a forced sexual act had occurred, with traces of semen found on the victim. There was enough probable cause to charge several students with rape. However it never made it past the school administration. If such incidents are the norm, then I'm not pointing at joking about rape as the cause, seeing as millions of jokes and comments are made about murder, and murder doesn't seem to be an endemic problem. I'm pointing at parents, teachers, authorities, advocacy groups, not doing enough to inform and teach young men (and women too, feck this gender witch-hunt) about responsible sex. The dangers of binge drinking. Just plain common fecking sense, such as the buddy system. So on and so forth.
Take me for example. I grew up in a house where premarital sex is taboo, so yeah, no one taught me not to rape at home. I went to a huge party school for college. I honestly don't recall a huge campus wide initiative to educate students on responsible sexual conduct. I don't think I learned anything about rape in college. I graduated in 2010, just to give some perspective.
2010! Actually, now that I think about it, until I started to educate myself, the only reason why rape didn't sound appealing to me, is because, what is the appeal in having sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you, or someone who is so inebriated? Jesus, I used to get turned off anytime I started to get comfortable with my ex and she wasn't in the mood. "Fine, just hand me the tissue". Imagine tens of thousands of young men in my situation, who just happen to fall on the other side of the spectrum. T
So back to this thread. The policing of language just sounds... insufficient, lazy, etc. For one, a lot of people who used rape as a metaphor on the forums actually don't think rape is cool. I would like to think so. I've only seen one or two batshit crazy comments in this thread. So getting this group of people to stop using this language, only has the effect of not offending people. More on this later. For the crazy ones out there who don't think much about rape, do you really think banning them from saying "rape" has any effect on them? They may stop saying it, but does it educate? Does it teach and inform? I don't think so. And for some reason this internet activism and faux outrage is given a pat on the back. It does absolutely nothing, apart from not offend people. And on that...
Why should this matter? A few years Mockney uploaded a vid/gif, saying "God is a cnut", and I remember that upsetting sammsky. I do not recall any fecks being given on the Caf. Who knows how important God is to sammsky, only for him to come onto the Caf and see green smilies about. He was offended. Life moves on. Whatever happened to just blocking someone who offended you, or unfollowing them on twitter, or leaving their circle? Or turning the TV off, or etc... If I had a daughter, and god forbid she got raped, I'd invest all my energy in healing her physically and mentally, and I'd throw even more energy into letting young men and women know rape is bad. I don't think I would bother about some eejits like my self using rape as a metaphor to describe a football match. But that's just me, we're all different. Accept it, filter unwanted stuff out of your life, and keep it moving. And actually do something to help, instead of pontificating behind a screen. Or do both, but accept that everyone has the right to say what they want. And exercise your right to be offended. And coexist in that spasm of discomfort. And move on.
Of course this is a private forum, and the mods have every right to regulate language here in accordance with what they want.
Rant over