Television Leaving Neverland....Harrowing Michael Jackson Documentary

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Just because something is graphic, doesn’t mean it’s true. Why did these two men defend him back in 2005, when the man was alive? He was obviously strange and we can all have our suspicions based on his behavior but there’s still not a shred of evidence that he abused anyone.
 
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Just because something is graphic, doesn’t mean it’s true. Why did these two men defend him back in 2005, when the man was alive?
Watch the doc to find out.
 

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Watch the doc to find out.
Do we take everything said in a documentary as 100% proof? What about the countless people that said he wasn’t an abuser, do we just ignore all of them. I’m not defending him here, the guy has definitely behaved in a way that understandably drives huge suspicions but I doubt I’m going to be completely convinced by a documentary including two men that previously defended their abuser.

There’s plenty of shocking documentaries out there that are complete bullshit.
 
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Had some art books, some featuring some nude images of boys. And girls. And men. And women.




I say, burn art books.
Ah, the one from the 2005 trial that were so innocent that the only thing actually pornographic was normal porn
 

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Do we take everything said in a documentary as 100% proof? What about the countless people that said he wasn’t an abuser, do we just ignore all of them. I’m not defending him here, the guy has definitely behaved in a way that understandably drives huge suspicions but I doubt I’m going to be completely convinced by a documentary including two men that previously defended their abuser.
Nothing will ever be 100% in this case. I'm just saying the doc does try to address your question. Up to you whether you want to make your mind up without watching it.
 

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Any Norwegians know when it will come to hbonordic?
Doesn't look to be on there now.
 

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If you can reference more people who liked sleeping in beds with other specifically boys and has nudes pictures of boys along with pornographic material and didn’t end up being an abuser I would agree with you.

Liking children mainly as an adult and doing the above are two different things
Are you serious? AFAIK MJ didnt have any child related nude content but even if he did do you know how many people end up molesting children vs those that just watch the content online?

Whether MJ did or didnt do this, I dont know but Iwl wish people would stop with stupid reasoning to "prove" he did
 

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Nothing will ever be 100% in this case. I'm just saying the doc does try to address your question. Up to you whether you want to make your mind up before watching it.
Plenty of people seem to be already arriving at definitive conclusions based on this documentary, including the OP. No matter how shocking this documentary is, it also shouldn’t shock people enough to confuse it with actual evidence. Glad it addresses that question anyway, I’ll certainly go in without making my mind up.
 

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Are you serious? AFAIK MJ didnt have any child related nude content but even if he did do you know how many people end up molesting children vs those that just watch the content online?

Whether MJ did or didnt do this, I dont know but Iwl wish people would stop with stupid reasoning to "prove" he did
Remember I didn't say he did, I was saying that I didn't find the childlike theory to be one that more absolves than incriminates.

There was no trying to prove he did anything his behaviour is disturbing at the least.
 

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What gets to me is how these kids remember their years as toddlers. It could be just me but my early childhood is a blur. Find it slightly suspicious.
 

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What gets to me is how these kids remember their years as toddlers. It could be just me but my early childhood is a blur. Find it slightly suspicious.
Me too. I remember nothing until I was about 5 and even then it’s hazy!
 

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Remember I didn't say he did, I was saying that I didn't find the childlike theory to be one that more absolves than incriminates.

There was no trying to prove he did anything his behaviour is disturbing at the least.
Doesn't absolve him but leaves enough room to take a stance that he didn't do it. Doesn't mean he definitely didn't.
 

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Me too. I remember nothing until I was about 5 and even then it’s hazy!
Yeah I'm not saying it's impossible to remember some stuff but Wade Robson describes what MJ was doing when he went to meet him in Jacksons hotel room and subsequently how long he was there for. How on earth can someone remember that?
 

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How these parents thought it was totally okay for a grown man to get on like 9 year old boy, and not only that, but to let their children hang out with such an individual and unsupervised - it's beyond mental.
 

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Yeah I'm not saying it's impossible to remember some stuff but Wade Robson describes what MJ was doing when he went to meet him in Jacksons hotel room and subsequently how long he was there for. How on earth can someone remember that?
Looking online and Robson was 5 when he first meet Jackson and Safechuck was 10 so neither were toddlers. Hanging around with a God like figure you idolise is a memory that’s more likely to stick in your mind too.
 

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Looking online and Robson was 5 when he first meet Jackson and Safechuck was 10 so neither were toddlers. Hanging around with a God like figure you idolise is a memory that’s more likely to stick in your mind too.

It's just that I genuinly can't remember what happened when I was 5. My brother was born when I was 5 and I'd say that it is one of the most significant days of my life. Yet, I remember it like a slide show.

Maybe the parents filling in the gaps for the guy? To what purpose?
 

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Do we take everything said in a documentary as 100% proof? What about the countless people that said he wasn’t an abuser, do we just ignore all of them. I’m not defending him here, the guy has definitely behaved in a way that understandably drives huge suspicions but I doubt I’m going to be completely convinced by a documentary including two men that previously defended their abuser.

There’s plenty of shocking documentaries out there that are complete bullshit.
Isn't it a safe assumption to say that the "countless people" who say he wasn't an abuser just weren't abused by Jackson or slept in his bed when they were 7 years old.
We heard the same arguments for Bill Cosby, the dozens of women are just looking for money and why didn't they come forward sooner. All shitty excuses for a sick cnut by stupid cnuts who don't know the toll of sexual abuse on a person or family.
Maybe we should have listened to the boys who say they were sexually abused by him and not the sycophants who irrationally worship a grown man who can sing a tune and who found it very acceptable to sleep in the same bed with young boys.
Also, when I was growing up everyone thought Jimmy Saville was a fecking saint, obviously that was bullshit. Regarding his court case, this is a country where money, fame and notoriety can help you escape the legal consequences of you're actions, OJ and Casey Anthony being the main examples.
I believe the victims in this case and to be groomed that way by someone as iconic and powerful as Jackson must be really fecked up and surreal to them and their families. The assumption of innocence for Jackson is understandable but what about the assumption of innocence for his victims?
Regarding the defense of their abuser, its obvious you haven't dealt with the disgusting complexities of grooming young impressionable kids for sexual abuse. It's only when they become mature adults and work through their trauma that they find the courage to tell their stories.
Do you think they went on global television and told everyone the disgusting things inflicted on them just to then go in to litigation against their abusers estate in the hope of some cash? Or is it more plausible that they are ready to confront what happened to them due to their abuser being dead and the people around them who believe their abuse happened giving them courage.
 

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Wonder why hbo doesn't show it, if I've read correctly that they hold the rights to it?
I don’t know, but I guess there’s a distinction between HBO and HBO Nordic. Perhaps NRK has bought the rights for Norway?
 

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I don’t know, but I guess there’s a distinction between HBO and HBO Nordic. Perhaps NRK has bought the rights for Norway?
You are probably right.
At least they are making it easily accessable for every Norwegian/person living in Norway. :)
 

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As always I'm seeing bad arguments from all sides: They defended him in court, the jury acquitted him, he had pornography, they were kids, he was clearly a wrongun etc.

The only people who know the truth are dead MJ and those who were there at the time of the accusations.

I watched the documentary, I found the voices credible, the evidence compelling and the pattern of behaviour consistent and disturbing. It could be an elaborate stitch up, great acting and a grab for money I just don't know, but I believe them to be genuine and accurate accounts of child sexual abuse by Michael Jackson spanning years.
 

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Isn't it a safe assumption to say that the "countless people" who say he wasn't an abuser just weren't abused by Jackson or slept in his bed when they were 7 years old.
We heard the same arguments for Bill Cosby, the dozens of women are just looking for money and why didn't they come forward sooner. All shitty excuses for a sick cnut by stupid cnuts who don't know the toll of sexual abuse on a person or family.
Maybe we should have listened to the boys who say they were sexually abused by him and not the sycophants who irrationally worship a grown man who can sing a tune and who found it very acceptable to sleep in the same bed with young boys.
Also, when I was growing up everyone thought Jimmy Saville was a fecking saint, obviously that was bullshit. Regarding his court case, this is a country where money, fame and notoriety can help you escape the legal consequences of you're actions, OJ and Casey Anthony being the main examples.
I believe the victims in this case and to be groomed that way by someone as iconic and powerful as Jackson must be really fecked up and surreal to them and their families. The assumption of innocence for Jackson is understandable but what about the assumption of innocence for his victims?
Regarding the defense of their abuser, its obvious you haven't dealt with the disgusting complexities of grooming young impressionable kids for sexual abuse. It's only when they become mature adults and work through their trauma that they find the courage to tell their stories.
Do you think they went on global television and told everyone the disgusting things inflicted on them just to then go in to litigation against their abusers estate in the hope of some cash? Or is it more plausible that they are ready to confront what happened to them due to their abuser being dead and the people around them who believe their abuse happened giving them courage.
I'll pre-empt this by saying I'm yet to actually see the documentary but in this case I am already aware that Robson was turned down by Jackson's estate for directing the Immortal world tour a year before first making the allegations. His career, finances and general life then went to pot over the next year and he ultimately unsuccessfully tried so sue the Jackson estate based on the allegations, then unsuccessfully tried to sell the story in a book and eventually landed the documentary. I'm also aware Safechuck has apparently said in the past that he realised he was also abused after becoming aware of Robson's 1.5 billion dollar lawsuit. That seems to be quite a different situation to a large number of women going to the authorities about what Cosby did to them. As I say, I'm yet to see the documentary but I'm suspicious that the accusations are purely for financial gain going in.
 

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Me too. I remember nothing until I was about 5 and even then it’s hazy!
Yeah I'm not saying it's impossible to remember some stuff but Wade Robson describes what MJ was doing when he went to meet him in Jacksons hotel room and subsequently how long he was there for. How on earth can someone remember that?
Robson was abused from ages 7 to 14. Safechuck from 10 to 16. So neither were even remotely close to being toddlers.

I was abused from 4 - 7, and let me tell you, I can clearly remember it. Believe me, I wish I couldn't.
 

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Robson was abused from ages 7 to 14. Safechuck from 10 to 16. So neither were even remotely close to being toddlers.

I was abused from 4 - 7, and let me tell you, I can clearly remember it. Believe me, I wish I couldn't.
Sorry to hear that mate. I mean I just find it peculiar because of my childhood memories, or lack thereof.

Safechuck's story sounds very compelling so far. I'm on the first episode.

I'm wondering how this will play out in terms of HBO vs Jackson estate. It could get very interesting.
 

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Just because something is graphic, doesn’t mean it’s true. Why did these two men defend him back in 2005, when the man was alive? He was obviously strange and we can all have our suspicions based on his behavior but there’s still not a shred of evidence that he abused anyone.
Do we take everything said in a documentary as 100% proof? What about the countless people that said he wasn’t an abuser, do we just ignore all of them. I’m not defending him here, the guy has definitely behaved in a way that understandably drives huge suspicions but I doubt I’m going to be completely convinced by a documentary including two men that previously defended their abuser.

There’s plenty of shocking documentaries out there that are complete bullshit.
Plenty of people seem to be already arriving at definitive conclusions based on this documentary, including the OP. No matter how shocking this documentary is, it also shouldn’t shock people enough to confuse it with actual evidence. Glad it addresses that question anyway, I’ll certainly go in without making my mind up.
You should definitely watch it. You should also be very careful to speak too confidently on such a sensitive issue, when you don't have any real experience or knowledge of it. I am not trying to be critical here; but I am saying that having watched the documentary, and also adding it to what we already know about Jackson, I would find him guilty beyond any reasonable doubt. The issue about the two boys defending him earlier is very clearly addressed in the documentary, and from the perspective of someone who has been subjected to similar things they have been; 100% believable. In fact I would have found it more surprising if they had come forward at the time, given the circumstances of their relationship with him.

It is also worth noting that we are now at the point where four people have publically accused him of sexual abuse, with an incredibly clear pattern emerging. I do not doubt that we will see more.
 

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Sorry to hear that mate. I mean I just find it peculiar because of my childhood memories, or lack thereof.

Safechuck's story sounds very compelling so far. I'm on the first episode.

I'm wondering how this will play out in terms of HBO vs Jackson estate. It could get very interesting.
Thanks. I do appreciate that. As someone who is about to turn 40, I can say that i buried this deep down until I hit my late 30's; and for the longest time felt a huge amount of shame and stigma attached to coming forwards about it. Now I am very open about it, because (a) I understand and finally believe that it was in no way my fault, and (b) there are other people who can benefit from a strong voice and example to show you can go through this sort of hell, and still come out the other side and be a (reasonably) well adjusted, and successful adult.
 

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The original accusers got multi million pound payouts as well, 25m dollars one of them.
That really doesnt mean he didnt do it. Only that the parents didnt have enough money and MJ really did.

I find it quite crazy that still some people are sticking up for him or maybe why now and all that.. After watching this there is no doubt what so ever in my mind.

And to those who are wondering why now, why the change in their story. Thats how it normally is. Why they defended him before? Its normally a mixture of guilt and part Stockholm syndrome, he was after all their friend, mentor ect ect. They simply werent old enough to process these events.

My sister got a nervous breakdown at the age of 30 having had 3 kids and being married for 10 years (that in it self could be a good reason for that). But only then she could start the process of working her way through the abuse her gymnastic trainer had done to her 15-20 years earlier. No one in the family had a clue. And after couple of years details would emerge of smells, places, surroundings, dates and other things.

How these guys tell their story of handling these feelings is just a really basic and normal handling of these emotions. Its was a time of fun a good times most of the time with someone they looked up to and adored.

These guys a master manipulators, build trust and normally have a position of power over their victims. This trainer was known by all the parents as the nicest guy you would meet and was extremely well liked by all. Hence all the parents trusting him with their kids on trips and trainings. They really master that part and the part with the victims of it being us and them.
In the end when this came out he had done this to more than 80 girls from age 5-15 over many many years, no justice for these kids as the guy was dead. And society has a strange treatment for dead people as somehow no matter what they did they should just be allowed to rest.

No doubt in my mind they are telling the truth.

He truly was Wacko Jacko
 

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That really doesnt mean he didnt do it. Only that the parents didnt have enough money and MJ really did.

I find it quite crazy that still some people are sticking up for him or maybe why now and all that.. After watching this there is no doubt what so ever in my mind.

And to those who are wondering why now, why the change in their story. Thats how it normally is. Why they defended him before? Its normally a mixture of guilt and part Stockholm syndrome, he was after all their friend, mentor ect ect. They simply werent old enough to process these events.

My sister got a nervous breakdown at the age of 30 having had 3 kids and being married for 10 years (that in it self could be a good reason for that). But only then she could start the process of working her way through the abuse her gymnastic trainer had done to her 15-20 years earlier. No one in the family had a clue. And after couple of years details would emerge of smells, places, surroundings, dates and other things.

How these guys tell their story of handling these feelings is just a really basic and normal handling of these emotions. Its was a time of fun a good times most of the time with someone they looked up to and adored.

These guys a master manipulators, build trust and normally have a position of power over their victims. This trainer was known by all the parents as the nicest guy you would meet and was extremely well liked by all. Hence all the parents trusting him with their kids on trips and trainings. They really master that part and the part with the victims of it being us and them.
In the end when this came out he had done this to more than 80 girls from age 5-15 over many many years, no justice for these kids as the guy was dead. And society has a strange treatment for dead people as somehow no matter what they did they should just be allowed to rest.

No doubt in my mind they are telling the truth.

He truly was Wacko Jacko
Thank you. Good post.
 

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Didn't know that!
Part 1 has him singing Rock & Roll over and over in a tedious way; Part 2 (the B-side, but the one the radio picked up on which became the big hit) has his vocals removed and is just an instrumental, with the Glitter Band shouting Hey! at appropriate intervals.
 

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Part 1 has him singing Rock & Roll over and over in a tedious way; Part 2 (the B-side, but the one the radio picked up on which became the big hit) has his vocals removed and is just an instrumental, with the Glitter Band shouting Hey! at appropriate intervals.
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