Jericholyte2
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So I had an eye-opening talk with my wife this evening. I’ve just started running and, today, I also encountered my first case of obvious male privilege.
We were talking about how I felt during the running and she asked me how comfortable I felt running around our town in the dark. I was taken aback and replied how I felt fine and, when I asked why, she floored me when she said that she wouldn’t feel comfortable doing that, even if it was taking our dog for a walk.
Now, we’ve lived here for 8yrs and we have a great little community, but that is a world I never even imagine existed. She effectively has a curfew, feeling uncomfortable and unsafe alone in the area we’ve called home for nearly a decade!
There is no other term for this other than ‘male privilege’.
Now I’m aware of the obvious white privilege and other forms of that term, I was wondering was experienced users have had that has brought this idea of ‘privilege’ to the forefront of people’s minds?
We were talking about how I felt during the running and she asked me how comfortable I felt running around our town in the dark. I was taken aback and replied how I felt fine and, when I asked why, she floored me when she said that she wouldn’t feel comfortable doing that, even if it was taking our dog for a walk.
Now, we’ve lived here for 8yrs and we have a great little community, but that is a world I never even imagine existed. She effectively has a curfew, feeling uncomfortable and unsafe alone in the area we’ve called home for nearly a decade!
There is no other term for this other than ‘male privilege’.
Now I’m aware of the obvious white privilege and other forms of that term, I was wondering was experienced users have had that has brought this idea of ‘privilege’ to the forefront of people’s minds?