MyOnlySolskjaer
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Just come across this now. Horrific and hasn't got enough coverage.
This is always an instigator. I remember once someone said that, to which I responded "not much". Had my mates not come round the corner at that exact moment, I'd have been in a fight.Absolutely vile.
I grew up in London and always feared something like this would happen to me through no fault of my own. The amount of times someone would try and start for no reason with a “what are you looking at?”. There’s no response that gets you out of that situation and it’s only used because someone wants to fight.
I stopped sitting on the top deck of buses and then taking them altogether. I walked home with my phone in my sock or got lifts everywhere from my parents. It’s something that has always stuck with me. I can’t imagine what Tashan was feeling but it makes me feel sick. His poor family as well.
Yeah there's no way of answering that as the person asking is obviously seeking trouble. I've had one where I was asked why I was 'screw facing' his friend, when I wasn't even looking at either of them. I replied with a stern 'I wasn't' and despite there being 2 of them, I got my food and left before it escalated.This is always an instigator. I remember once someone said that, to which I responded "not much". Had my mates not come round the corner at that exact moment, I'd have been in a fight.
Once I had a child, there was all that acid throwing crap going round. Me and my wife decided to relocate to Hemel Hempstead. It's quieter but still commutable to London.
Wow fridge that came out of nowhere! Are you ok talking about or not?Heartbreaking. I was viciously assaulted and almost died on a metro system when I was minding my own business. But I survived and so can't really complain. There are scumbags everywhere and hopefully those cretins who did that to Tashan will never be released into society again.
Incredible that you felt you had to make these alterations to your life just so you didn’t face into a horrible situation through no fault of your own.Absolutely vile.
I grew up in London and always feared something like this would happen to me through no fault of my own. The amount of times someone would try and start for no reason with a “what are you looking at?”. There’s no response that gets you out of that situation and it’s only used because someone wants to fight.
I stopped sitting on the top deck of buses and then taking them altogether. I walked home with my phone in my sock or got lifts everywhere from my parents. It’s something that has always stuck with me. I can’t imagine what Tashan was feeling but it makes me feel sick. His poor family as well.
Heartbreaking watch that. Such a tragic end to a life.Just come across this now. Horrific and hasn't got enough coverage.
There have been many instances of people ‘standing up’ and ending up getting beaten to death or stabbed, so really can’t blame people for not doing it.Incredible that you felt you had to make these alterations to your life just so you didn’t face into a horrible situation through no fault of your own.
I’m sure this goes on in most societies but thankfully I’ve never really witnessed anything like this where I live. I’d like to think that if people did witness this kind of aggression/bigotry/racism someone would stand up but easier said than done.
Yeah I was mugged three times growing up. Once at knifepoint. Left there when I was 23 and have had no desire to ever go back. Been encouraging my parents to move to a different city for so long now.Incredible that you felt you had to make these alterations to your life just so you didn’t face into a horrible situation through no fault of your own.
I’m sure this goes on in most societies but thankfully I’ve never really witnessed anything like this where I live. I’d like to think that if people did witness this kind of aggression/bigotry/racism someone would stand up but easier said than done.
Sorry to hear that man, must have been very traumatic. Something that stays with your forever I'd imagine.Yeah I was mugged three times growing up. Once at knifepoint. Left there when I was 23 and have had no desire to ever go back. Been encouraging my parents to move to a different city for so long now.
Yeah it shapes the way I am today. My gf used to find it odd that I would tell her not to keep looking at people acting odd or brazen on public transport but she gets it now. I’m pretty much always hyper sensitive to my surroundings.Sorry to hear that man, must have been very traumatic. Something that stays with your forever I'd imagine.
Some guy walked up to me and told me he wanted to slit my throat. That was my third week thereThe worst that ever happened to me in Toronto was that I was walking home up Yonge Street one night in a United top and some guy said to me "Manchester United sucks", to which I laughed, said 'you must be a gooner' and kept walking, as I went past and he saw the back of my shirt he continued with 'Ryan Giggs sucks, too". I laughed harder and kept walking. London sounds mental in parts. Is most of this after dark or does it go down during the day, as well?
That was near CAMH, right? Not unusual and probably just posturing. Now that I think about it I had a couple of interesting encounters on the TTC and with an aggressive homeless person but never felt threatened.Some guy walked up to me and told me he wanted to slit my throat. That was my third week there
Yeah pretty much, although I liked Canterbury.London is a shit hole. You can say the same about Kent and Essex too, they're just extensions of it now.
Yeah, it was unpleasant, but I'm back to normal after a few surgeries. The guys were lowlives looking for a victim, I think. They had weapons so I guess I'm lucky it wasn't worse. Poor Tashan wasn't so lucky.Wow fridge that came out of nowhere! Are you ok talking about or not?
Good to hear that you're back to normal. I wouldn't blame you if its still affecting you as I have many friends in my social circles who have lasting psychological problems after ultra violent incidents.Yeah, it was unpleasant, but I'm back to normal after a few surgeries. The guys were lowlives looking for a victim, I think. They had weapons so I guess I'm lucky it wasn't worse. Poor Tashan wasn't so lucky.
People can be terrible.
Glad you’re better mate. London housing prices will get a reality check in the upcoming decade imo with so many people beginning to work from home on permanent basis. It’s not really a great place to live in most cases.Yeah, it was unpleasant, but I'm back to normal after a few surgeries. The guys were lowlives looking for a victim, I think. They had weapons so I guess I'm lucky it wasn't worse. Poor Tashan wasn't so lucky.
People can be terrible.
Making me think the same about myself now. Was often on the tube alone at night all over London a few years ago.Tragic story. Looking back to my time spent in London I stayed in some dodgy places like Stratford/City Airport and sometimes would be walking back home while drunk through these areas at night on my own. Pretty stupid in the hindsight as I could have easily have been mugged or worse.
Toronto ain’t all hunky dory either. My brother has been stabbed outside a bar and jumped by about 10 people. I didn’t actually know about it until a year later when we’re at a bar and it happened to have the same bartender who recognized him as the “badass who fought 10 guys by himself.”The worst that ever happened to me in Toronto was that I was walking home up Yonge Street one night in a United top and some guy said to me "Manchester United sucks", to which I laughed, said 'you must be a gooner' and kept walking, as I went past and he saw the back of my shirt he continued with 'Ryan Giggs sucks, too". I laughed harder and kept walking. London sounds mental in parts. Is most of this after dark or does it go down during the day, as well?
That’s true. Unfortunately Tashan wasn’t in any position to just walk away. Alex obviously set out that day to stab someone and to look for a tiny reason to do itAbsolutely vile.
I grew up in London and always feared something like this would happen to me through no fault of my own. The amount of times someone would try and start for no reason with a “what are you looking at?”. There’s no response that gets you out of that situation and it’s only used because someone wants to fight.
I stopped sitting on the top deck of buses and then taking them altogether. I walked home with my phone in my sock or got lifts everywhere from my parents. It’s something that has always stuck with me. I can’t imagine what Tashan was feeling but it makes me feel sick. His poor family as well.
Thats par the course for Stratford at 3am.Walking through Stratford at 3am to head to the airport I used to be shitting bricks.
Thanks, I appreciate it. Thankfully it hasn't had a lasting effect, I'm all good now. But reading stuff like this article hits close to home. Can't imagine the trauma that Tashan's family is going through.Good to hear that you're back to normal. I wouldn't blame you if its still affecting you as I have many friends in my social circles who have lasting psychological problems after ultra violent incidents.
Keep safe brother.
Thanks mate. You might be right about housing prices London. That said, my experience was in North America (Toronto).Glad you’re better mate. London housing prices will get a reality check in the upcoming decade imo with so many people beginning to work from home on permanent basis. It’s not really a great place to live in most cases.
I've lived in Toronto and London. I never felt particularly threatened in either city to be honest. Though Toronto definitely felt more chilled out.The worst that ever happened to me in Toronto was that I was walking home up Yonge Street one night in a United top and some guy said to me "Manchester United sucks", to which I laughed, said 'you must be a gooner' and kept walking, as I went past and he saw the back of my shirt he continued with 'Ryan Giggs sucks, too". I laughed harder and kept walking. London sounds mental in parts. Is most of this after dark or does it go down during the day, as well?