'If this continues I'm done with United for the season!' Really?

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I don’t want us to lose like some on here. I’ll never be ‘done’ with the team as I’ll still watch the games but I’m a little numb to it at this point. At this point though, I’m no longer surprised when we lose so I’m not letting the dross ruin my weekends or evenings.
 

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Or… stop buying tickets, club gets the message in no uncertain terms, manager sacked. On to a new chapter.

Support what’s best for the club. Otherwise, get the fecking hankies out.
You tell em mate. Stop buying tickets, Redcafe. Burn your blazers, hankies, and rip out your air vents.

Some strange shit going on here.
 

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Anyone feeling this way, do us all a favour and go support city or Chelsea. You’ll fit in better there
See for me, it’s not about supporting another team, at this point my problem is with the owners and the board, things like, them not hiring a real director of football, instead they hired a banker to take care of everything and it seems like the successor will be another clueless puppet, them not showing any ambitions and satisfied with top 4 finish, allowing things to get this bad this season that supporters are turning on a club legend, and dividing the fanbase, hiring PR guys to push certain narratives, trying to push the “United way” instead of actually looking for solutions, not trying to hire managers like Conte for example because the would want certain amount of control (if reports to be believed, which I can see a truth in that). There are many more reasons to dislike the owners.
If I stop watching United, I would stop watching football (except for international football and CL finals).
 
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I don’t want us to lose like some on here. I’ll never be ‘done’ with the team as I’ll still watch the games but I’m a little numb to it at this point. At this point though, I’m no longer surprised when we lose so I’m not letting the dross ruin my weekends or evenings.
I could never bring myself to wanting us to lose, so it creates a horrendous paradox of knowing losing is probably best for the club and players, yet you watch and obviously desperately want them to win.

That’s why I booked in work for the derby and Liverpool, so I could check the result afterwards and at least think “feck me, well at least they’ll sack his arse now and it’ll be best for everyone”.
 

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When I was a kid my parents and I were driving down the freeway and we passed a car that was on fire. As we got closer to it we could see the driver was trapped and was literally being burned to death. There was way too much traffic to stop. I couldn’t help but turn to take a long look as we drove away.

Similar situation now.
I was just thinking this the other day and you're right a football team not doing well is exactly the same as someone being burned alive in a horrific accident.
 
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You tell em mate. Stop buying tickets, Redcafe. Burn your blazers, hankies, and rip out your air vents.

Some strange shit going on here.
You call it strange, but no, burning shit won’t help. The lack of interest in tickets during the final weeks of Moyes, LVG and Mou certainly did though. Early season ticket renewals were at their lowest in years pre the LVG sacking, and feck me you could barely find a ticket once Mourinho was confirmed. That's sadly a big part of how this club is run now.

Once the board see interest in the club is waning, they act fecking sharpish. New signings, change of manager etc are a sure fire way of rejuvenating that interest.
 

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Mate, you should just go with the annual subscription, it's much less expensive.
It's more the problem of watching the team play and wanting to stop watching, but realizing I am addicted ... maybe this game will be the turnaround. I think like any addict I need this cycle of self-harm :D

You are right though, I could save a lot.
 

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I could never bring myself to wanting us to lose, so it creates a horrendous paradox of knowing losing is probably best for the club and players, yet you watch and obviously desperately want them to win.

That’s why I booked in work for the derby and Liverpool, so I could check the result afterwards and at least think “feck me, well at least they’ll sack his arse now and it’ll be best for everyone”.
Yea, I don’t think anyone genuinely wants the team to lose but I think the majority have finally come round to the fact the only way he goes is if it’s bad enough.

I don’t think a half decent run is enough anymore. His most blind faithed followers have began to turn so it’s a strange inevitability about this whole situation.
 

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No chance. Even in the dark days of LVG and wondering where our next shot on target would come from I still watched every game. For now I've got more hope in this lot turning it around compared to then. They aren't going to win anything this season though either way.
 

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What's the issue?

Some folk are very emotionally invested in the club and it's affecting their mental health.

Seems quite healthy to me.
 
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Yea, I don’t think anyone genuinely wants the team to lose but I think the majority have finally come round to the fact the only way he goes is if it’s bad enough.

I don’t think a half decent run is enough anymore. His most blind faithed followers have began to turn so it’s a strange inevitability about this whole situation.
I like the rest of us went bananas at Ronaldo’s last minute equaliser, screaming my head off whilst simultaneously thinking, “well there’s two more months of an underachieving manager”.
It’s an odd situation to say the least.

The CL group is a little different because whatever might happen between now and Jan, it’s best all round if the players are in the knockouts, so whoever is manager in Feb can lead them on.
 

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Exactly. I’m Ole out and I’m furious at the incompetence of the board. Im still watching every game possible and refreshing every Utd-related page daily.
Thats why the
Exactly. I’m Ole out and I’m furious at the incompetence of the board. Im still watching every game possible and refreshing every Utd-related page daily.
thats why the owners/board will never change. They know the fans will always be there.
 

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I stopped watching the City match after about half an hour. You saw the walk out during the Liverpool game.

Not even bothering with the next match is a logical step forward. It’s not fun and I’m not a masochist. The loyal Old Trafford support isn’t doing anything for the players. They preferred playing behind closed doors.
This./

We’ve a squad of front runners. The second the crowd are in & the pressure is on we’ve seen what happens.
 

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No chance. Even in the dark days of LVG and wondering where our next shot on target would come from I still watched every game. For now I've got more hope in this lot turning it around compared to then. They aren't going to win anything this season though either way.
Yeah they could under a NEW manager
 

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I like the rest of us went bananas at Ronaldo’s last minute equaliser, screaming my head off whilst simultaneously thinking, “well there’s two more months of an underachieving manager”.
It’s an odd situation to say the least.
Sad but true. It feels like we’re being subjected to OgS at this point.
 

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If I knew for sure Ole is in for the season I likely wouldn't bother watching every game.

For now, I'm watching to see when this twat gets sacked.
 

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I like the rest of us went bananas at Ronaldo’s last minute equaliser, screaming my head off whilst simultaneously thinking, “well there’s two more months of an underachieving manager”.
It’s an odd situation to say the least.

The CL group is a little different because whatever might happen between now and Jan, it’s best all round if the players are in the knockouts, so whoever is manager in Feb can lead them on.
I would have IF someone else had been in charge for that game, same with the goals against Spurs too
 

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Or… stop buying tickets, club gets the message in no uncertain terms, manager sacked. On to a new chapter.

Support what’s best for the club. Otherwise, get the fecking hankies out.
It’s not worth getting worked up by every ignorant post like this. Whatever makes people feel better about themselves. Why your Villas, Palaces, and Norwich are sacking their manages? They won’t be winning anything anyway, why is it worth the hustle just for being a little bit less shit? Or is it just that clubs want to improve even if by a tiny margin in terms of playing style or results for their supporters? Listen it may not always work out as evident by many failed appointments but you then at least know that the intention is there for the club to get better despite poor results. It’s when there’s clear lack of respect to matchgoing fans you start to get disillusioned with everything, where you are just seen as a pound sign and on the pitch matters are secondary (at best).
 
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It’s not worth getting worked up by every ignorant post like this. Whatever makes people feel better about themselves. Why your Villas, Palaces, and Norwich are sacking their manages? They won’t be winning anything anyway, why is it worth the hustle just for being a little bit less shit? Or is it just that clubs want to improve even if by a tiny margin in terms of playing style or results for their supporters? Listen it may not always work out as evident by many failed appointments but you then at least know that the intention is there for the club to get better despite poor results. It’s when there’s clear lack of respect to matchgoing fans you start to get disillusioned with everything, where you are just seen as a pound sign and on the pitch matters are secondary (at best).
Precisely this pal.
 

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People also have short memories. I remember similar under LVG, Moyes and Mourinho. They're just being emotional.
Never felt this same level of defeat under them even because knew the board would pull the trigger if it got bad enough
 

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Here here. Support for the club is unconditional. Every match I’m watching hoping for a win. Every season I’m hoping for silverware. When we lose I’m pissed, when we win I’m happy. Doesn’t mean I have to like the owners or the regime. The two things are not the same. Manchester United is not the Glazers and the Glazers are not Manchester United.
This is me. Regardless of what my last post in this thread said. I've just learned to manage my emotions and dissociate after matches. I tend to only let it affect me for like an hour each side of whatever result.
 

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I've been watching us with a morbid fascination at how low we can sink lately. Right now we're definitely playing the worst football we've played post-Fergie or at least it feels that way. Maybe it's being made to seem worse because of how irritatingly good City, Liverpool and Chelsea are right now.
It's both. We've definitely gone through worse intentional football before this current patch under previous managers. But at least then it looked like it was to a plan. Currently management and players can't sort themselves out while our rivals are in the ascendancy. It would have been much better if this was 2018/19 when we knew 3rd/4th was the best we could get and that's what we did.

This season had high expectations and so the current malaise feels worse than under LVG and Mourinho. I would count it similar to the Moyes season where he took the champions to midtable.
 

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As shit as we’ve been, especially this season, I still record and watch every Utd match, I just can’t not watch it. Every game gets recorded and once I come home after work I watch the whole game, even after knowing the result I still have to watch the game. I think I have a sado masochistic disorder!
 

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Last few fixtures have clashed with my own games but usually I go back and watch the full 90 ASAP. I only got through 60 minutes of the Derby and am still struggling for the motivation to get through the last 30.
The entire second half was basically the same thing. No need to watch it. Neither team attacked.
 

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Never felt this same level of defeat under them even because knew the board would pull the trigger if it got bad enough
Not sure why you're assuming Solskjaer would never get sacked. If they look like not getting top 4 or go on a long run without a win he would get sacked.
 

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Not sure why you're assuming Solskjaer would never get sacked. If they look like not getting top 4 or go on a long run without a win he would get sacked.
Because unlike them his status as a player is blinding their decision making, also that toy story puppet is clearly intent on his last action in the role not being a sacking of a manager
 

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I say this knowing full well I won't be able to go through with it. Its just a futile coping mechanism.
 

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For the most part, football in top teams is cyclical. Teams succeed, reach a pinnacle, decline, fade away, rise again.
It is probably the same with the majority of the fanbase. So many passionate fans dither away into wilderness only to be overshadowed by vocal, incoming ones.

It is a cycle and United are now in a clear downward trajectory.
 

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For the most part, football in top teams is cyclical. Teams succeed, reach a pinnacle, decline, fade away, rise again.
It is probably the same with the majority of the fanbase. So many passionate fans dither away into wilderness only to be overshadowed by vocal, incoming ones.

It is a cycle and United are now in a clear downward trajectory.
Well yeah we will be on a downward spiral when you have a board who don't give a shit and a manager utterly deluded
 

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For the most part, football in top teams is cyclical. Teams succeed, reach a pinnacle, decline, fade away, rise again.
It is probably the same with the majority of the fanbase. So many passionate fans dither away into wilderness only to be overshadowed by vocal, incoming ones.

It is a cycle and United are now in a clear downward trajectory.
I don't think many of us would lose interest watching United during a 'transitional' phase, so long as we felt there was a vision in place and the football itself was watchable.

What makes what we're witnessing so excruciatingly frustrating is its completely unnecessary and self-inflicted. The club is choosing to back an inept manager with a king's ransom, with better options available, all the while the football is absolutely dreadful.
 

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I don't think many of us would lose interest watching United during a 'transitional' phase, so long as we felt there was a vision in place and the football itself was watchable.

What makes what we're witnessing so excruciatingly frustrating is its completely unnecessary and self-inflicted. The club is choosing to back an inept manager with a king's ransom, with better options available, all the while the football is absolutely dreadful.
Yep you have absolutely nailed how I feel about the club perfectly, be a different story if we had a Klopp/Pep/Tuchel type in charge where you could see what their vision was almost straight away but sadly we have krusty instead so no hope at all
 

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See for me, it’s not about supporting another team, at this point my problem is with the owners and the board, things like, them not hiring a real director of football, instead they hired a banker to take care of everything and it seems like the successor will be another clueless puppet, them not showing any ambitions and satisfied with top 4 finish, allowing things to get this bad this season that supporters are turning on a club legend, and dividing the fanbase, hiring PR guys to push certain narratives, trying to push the “United way” instead of actually looking for solutions, not trying to hire managers like Conte for example because the would want certain amount of control (if reports to be believed, which I can see a truth in that). There are many more reasons to dislike the owners.
If I stop watching United, I would stop watching football (except for international football and CL finals).
Feel exactly the same way. Could never stop watching United. But I despise what we’ve become and the people that made us that way.
 

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It got to a point whereby feel so sick just by looking at their clueless faces at the dugout. Looking at the fecking ipad.

whereas all other managers and coaches out there are directing at the touchline.

Until ole is out, dropping points further doesn’t bother me anymore. In fact, I would rather have competent teams to take over the 4th, 5th and 6th. United can slide down the table for all I care.

Oh yes, please do drop out of the CL group as well. Let other competent team have a chance.

I’m done with this season until ole is out.
Sorry for not being a “Top Red”.
 

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For the most part, football in top teams is cyclical. Teams succeed, reach a pinnacle, decline, fade away, rise again.
It is probably the same with the majority of the fanbase. So many passionate fans dither away into wilderness only to be overshadowed by vocal, incoming ones.

It is a cycle and United are now in a clear downward trajectory.
Yeah what’s normally different is those teams don’t have amazing players. Liverpool had a crap team and ok managers whole going through their slump. And they competed with much better ones. We have the team to compete but not the manager. So our decline is entirely self inflicted. Not just a cycle.
 

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It means I will no longer plan my weekends around our games. It means I will no longer have any Man Utd related news on my social feed or news feed. It means I will no longer have any expectations for our games - whether we win or draw or lose no longer affects me emotionally (I barely felt anything watching us conduct a rondo training session with City). It means I am completely indifferent to whatever happens to the club in the short term, because when you look at things from a long term perspective, it's completely fecked anyway. Any short term progress we made will be completely wiped out by Glazer's incompetence, and that is why I am no longer emotionally invested in this club.

When relegation fodders have much higher standards than our club, when our owners only care about sucking the club dry, when the manager is as deluded as a rambling drug addict, when the players are complaining about the manager yet the club doesn't give a feck, you know it's time to check out.