Do I think unplanned pregnacies are from many who lacks understanding? Yes. If couples keep getting pregnant but dont want any more children, why? Why are they keep getting pregnant?
Yes there are many reasons for unwanted pregnacies, rape and other bad things are unwanted and abortion for such cases should be free, and such cases arent about education and lack of responsibility. But couples who gets pregnant and dont want kids/more kids are lack of responsibility, people who have unprotected sex randomly is a lack of responsibility. These cases can be lowered and should be.
Men needs to be much more willing to use protection or men could take a vasectomy (easy and affordable) all these things need to be thought alot more to the public. It aint easy for a woman to go through an abortion and we should try as a sociecty to reduce the numbers. I stand by what I said, people need to step and take alot more responsibility for their sex life. Does anything of this means abortion should be illegal? Hell no.
If your position is that we can do more in terms of sex education in select cases, whilst ensuring free contraception and free access to abortion services, then that's all well and good.
I think your position starts has two assumptions I would want to challenge. First, that contraception is 100% effective. It isn't. People will get pregnant whilst using contraception and practicing safe sex. That's just going to happen. I got a vasectomy and it reversed itself. So I had to have another one. Having your vas deferens pulled through a hole and cauterised is not enjoyable. Then they had to do it again.
Second, your assumption here is that individuals are having sex as equals, which isn't the case sadly, Many, many people are trapped in coercive and controlling relationships. some people are in unhappy relationships. Many do not have the money to leave, especially given housing costs. Many are already looking after kids and so cannot get a full-time job. Sadly that's the reality.
Check out the findings from this survey:
https://www.endviolenceagainstwomen...to-sexual-consent-Research-findings-FINAL.pdf
- A third (33%) of people in Britain think it isn’t usually rape if a woman is pressured into having sex but there is no physical violence
- A third of men think if a woman has flirted on a date it generally wouldn’t be rape, even if she hasn’t consented to sex (21% of women believe this). Almost a quarter (24%) don’t think that, in most cases, sex without consent in long-term relationships is rape (despite laws against rape in marriage being in place since 1991)
- Over 65s have most troubling attitudes to rape, while younger people have opinions that are more closely aligned to the law
- Some people (11%) believe the more sexual partners a woman has, the less harm they experience from rape.
- ‘Stealthing’: 40% think it is never or usually not rape to remove a condom without a partner’s consent
You mentioned sexual offences - worth adding to your point that they are extremely prevalent, primarily within relationships.
The year ending March 2020 Crime Survey for England and Wales (CSEW) estimated that 1.6 million adults aged 16 to 74 years had experienced sexual assault by rape or penetration (including attempts) since the age of 16 years. Analysis of the nature of these assaults uses CSEW data from the years ending March 2017 and March 2020 combined and is limited to adults aged 16 to 59 years.
https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopula...enetrationenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2020
Of victims who experienced sexual assault by rape or penetration (including attempts) since the age of 16 years:
- almost half (49%) had been a victim more than once
- fewer than one in six (16%) reported the assault to the police and of those that told someone but not the police, 40% stated embarrassment as a reason, 38% did not think the police could help, and 34% thought it would be humiliating
- more than four in ten (44%) were victimised by their partner or ex-partner
- nearly one in ten (9%) were victimised on the street, in a car park, park, or another open public space compared with over one-third (37%) in their own home
- over half (54%) said the perpetrator used physical force, such as holding them down, to make them have sex with them, and 6% said the perpetrator had threatened to kill them
People are not always able to have sex with contraception. Easy access to abortion services (including the Morning After Pill) is necessary, as well as allowing women control over their sexual and reproductive lives, which men have taken for granted for, what, millennia?