I too have witnessed many that have gone on to lead normal lives, whatever normality is. A pessimistic outlook on rehabilitation possibility derives from the high number of ex-inmates that re-offend. It often makes one sceptical.
Personally, I believe people can be rehabilitated but also there are those that cannot, regardless of the great work from the services around them.
Working with convicted child murders, paedophiles and rapists but also petty criminals convicted of minor shoplifting, trespassing and theft I found that regardless of the crime, the individual is seldomly what you would expect and as such, I always approach with the dim light of hope for a positive outcome.
I can understand and respect the scepticism, especially with those who have worked in these services for a long time. I know it’s easy for me to cast judgement on those who have been there a long time at ground level, and their experiences shape their outlook.
I think in part my experience with fostering has shaped my outlook. It’s soul crushing to see these kids who have been basically fecked, experiencing things no one should at a tender age, and often carrying trauma for life. I know not everyone has some X factor style backstory, yet even when I worked with those living rough, the amount of trauma and mental health issues, a lot that had gone untreated for various reasons, is heartbreaking.
I just know in another world I would have done time, nothing violent, but I have my sins. I’m lucky that having a trade I have some stability, and am a lot less vulnerable than I was 10 years ago. It’s hard sometimes when I’d meet someone with more moral integrity than I, yet they were banned from the street and brushed away by the council.
I guess approaching these situations with the hope of a positive outcome, even if guarded, is all that can be asked.
I wish sometimes I had more agency. I guess in part you were right, while those I had direct contact had an earnest intention to help, we’d often be hamstrung by the council or law enforcement. It was certainly a black and white case them.