It may surprise those who abused Nemanja Matic and James McClean both in person and on social media on Saturday, but Premier League clubs have not always worn poppies on their shirts. In 2010, Manchester City and Manchester United played out a 0-0 draw on November 10, the day before remembrance day. Neither team had poppies embroidered on their shirts. It had not occurred to anyone to do so.
In the eight years since, English football has become a champion of poppy-wearing. Teams having poppies on their shirts is an entirely appropriate thing to do. It is a mark of respect to the fallen of the Great War, a conflict that decimated a generation which included many footballers.
Whether the official Fantasy Premier League game putting poppies on their kits for one week is necessary is far more open to debate. The suspicion is that remembrance – particularly in football – has become a competition to prove who has the most class and respect, which ironically only serves to erode the true meaning of the poppy appeal.
But wearing a symbol of remembrance must also be a choice. By attacking those who have their own personal reasons for not wearing one, critics are refusing those individuals their freedom of choice and expression. Those are precisely the ideals that our forefathers fought to protect.
Do not make the mistake, as many do, that those who choose not to wear a poppy cannot care about the victims of war; that is a nonsense. Instead, they do not agree with decorating their kit with a symbol (sold to raise money solely for the British Legion) which they believe represents a political matter, namely Britain’s actions in war. Unless you are remarkably one-eyed or overly patriotic, you can see their point.
By making the poppy an obligation, you make it meaningless. It becomes not a matter of remembrance but being seen to remember, and they are two very different things. Ultimately, it turns a symbol into an affectation.
So next year, can we please remember that forced remembrance is not remembrance at all? Can we give footballers – as we do doctors, lawyers, bricklayers and teachers – the freedom of expression to do as they see fit, not what is decreed by an angry mob?
Those who gave up their lives in conflict did so to fight for a world in which freedom of choice was a human right, not a luxury that was determined on a case-by-case basis. That tenet has been too easily forgotten in the race to shame those who to exercise that right.