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Helluva choice of image
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No one's clamouring for anything. Regardless of how the child was conceived, we shouldn't be forcing women to do anything, it's still their body and thus their choice.She raped a minor. If the shoe was on the other foot and it was a female who was raped we wouldn’t be clamouring for the child to be born would we
Right. Abortion as punishment is not a path any society can afford to go down.No one's clamouring for anything. Regardless of how the child was conceived, we shouldn't be forcing women to do anything, it's still their body and thus their choice.
well it isn’t true and there is no way around thatIf this was a male teacher and a female student he would be labeled as a paedo, the reverse should be and is true.
15 year old's, male or female, are below the age of consent, if they have sex with an adult then that is rape, doesn't matter if it is "consensual" because at 15 they don't have the capability in the eyes of the law to consent.
The same the girls that fantasize with their male teacher. Of course they like their teacher. No one is saying that the teachers are forcing them. Nor the male teachers not the female teachers. But is grooming. And for whatever reason, the boys are allowed to fantasize and go for it on good for them but the girls are not allowed to fantasize and not go for it and is disgustingThere is not a bloke alive who hasn’t fantasised about shagging a teacher at some point during their time at school.
As with most things teenage boys think would be brilliant actually isn’t actually that great an idea.
The teacher should get a significant custodial sentence, something is wrong with people who think that is ok.
I think we are arguing the same thing, guess we will see when the sentence is handed down.The same the girls that fantasize with their male teacher. Of course they like their teacher. No one is saying that the teachers are forcing them. Nor the male teachers not the female teachers. But is grooming. And for whatever reason, the boys are allowed to fantasize and go for it on good for them but the girls are not allowed to fantasize and not go for it and is disgusting
Is exactly the same but is publicly judged differently and for what I read is officially judged different also
If reversed, the teacher would be fearing for his life and try to hide his face as much as possible.
I personally think it’s ridiculous that, if a woman wants a baby and isn’t too fussed about there being a father in the child’s life, she can rape a 12 year old boy and still keep the baby, because er….her rights? What about the rights of the 12 year old boy here. In some countries they chemically castrate male pedos (as far as I know), so I don’t see why this is so far fetched hereNo one's clamouring for anything. Regardless of how the child was conceived, we shouldn't be forcing women to do anything, it's still their body and thus their choice.
She hasn't kept the baby, though, it's been placed in the custody of the boy's father, and she's also a convicted pedophile now. So that seems like a real shit way for a woman who wants a baby to go about getting it. She's left without the child, convicted of sexual activity with children, very likely looking at a custodial sentence, and will probably have any future children she might have taken away as well, on account of her being a convicted pedophile and all.I personally think it’s ridiculous that, if a woman wants a baby and isn’t too fussed about there being a father in the child’s life, she can rape a 12 year old boy and still keep the baby, because er….her rights? What about the rights of the 12 year old boy here. In some countries they chemically castrate male pedos (as far as I know), so I don’t see why this is so far fetched here
It looks like she’s trying to get her head around middle out compression.Helluva choice of image
What isn't true?well it isn’t true and there is no way around that
Think they mean that pedophilia is specifically an attraction to prepubescent children. 15 year olds aren't prepubescent, so technically speaking being attracted to them (or worse) doesn't count as pedophilia.What isn't true?
NicheIt looks like she’s trying to get her head around middle out compression.
I think we can all agree that she's a nonce.Think they mean that pedophilia is specifically an attraction to prepubescent children. 15 year olds aren't prepubescent, so technically speaking being attracted to them (or worse) doesn't count as pedophilia.
However, in common parlance it generally does, so it's mostly semantics.
I know and I did say labeled as a paedo which as you say is common parlanceThink they mean that pedophilia is specifically an attraction to prepubescent children. 15 year olds aren't prepubescent, so technically speaking being attracted to them (or worse) doesn't count as pedophilia.
However, in common parlance it generally does, so it's mostly semantics.
she isn’t a paedophile, which as I understand it is a sexual attraction to prepubescent children but correct me if I’m wrongWhat isn't true?
I don't see anyone clamouring for this baby to be born in these messy circumstances, the question is whether we want state enforced abortions as punishments.She raped a minor. If the shoe was on the other foot and it was a female who was raped we wouldn’t be clamouring for the child to be born would we
It appears she had this baby through consensual sex with a 16 year old. Obviously her being in a position of trust meant it was totally inappropriate, hence she faces a significant jail sentence. The other kid she slept with was 15.I personally think it’s ridiculous that, if a woman wants a baby and isn’t too fussed about there being a father in the child’s life, she can rape a 12 year old boy and still keep the baby, because er….her rights? What about the rights of the 12 year old boy here. In some countries they chemically castrate male pedos (as far as I know), so I don’t see why this is so far fetched here
Yep - heavy metal, computer games, horror films....Nor is the "expert" assertion that some form of media is responsible for society's ills.
Which is why I said labeled, like it or not, accurate or not, that's what men are called and if a woman does the same thing they can and should expect to be called the same, and jail, there's no probably about it!she isn’t a paedophile, which as I understand it is a sexual attraction to prepubescent children but correct me if I’m wrong
she’s a convicted rapist and a sex offender and should probably go to jail
but just because the Sun or whatever is quick to label men that term incorrectly doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do to women as well
Anyone who thinks sexually abusing minors is morally corrupting and a crime? Especially when the abuser is in a position of such responsibility and power.Who in their right mind would snitch?
I’ve probably mentioned this on here before but when my partner’s sister started Uni just over a decade ago there was a lad in her halls that managed to get two girls pregnant in freshers week and they both decided to keep the baby. I think he ended up in a relationship with one and they found out together, then shortly after the other girl came forward. I’d love to know how all that worked out.Imagine being the father of the baby. Life and future affected from a young age. I remember a friend of mine getting his gf pregnant at 16 and it took him years to recover, he never realised his full potential either. Lives down the drain.
I think I must have had very different teachers. *shudder*There is not a bloke alive who hasn’t fantasised about shagging a teacher at some point during their time at school.
As with most things teenage boys think would be brilliant actually isn’t actually that great an idea.
The teacher should get a significant custodial sentence, something is wrong with people who think that is ok.
I’m happy to leave the remainder of the issue as a difference of opinion, but the bolded - really?I don't see anyone clamouring for this baby to be born in these messy circumstances, the question is whether we want state enforced abortions as punishments.
It appears she had this baby through consensual sex with a 16 year old. Obviously her being in a position of trust meant it was totally inappropriate, hence she faces a significant jail sentence. The other kid she slept with was 15.
I don't get the angle about needing a father in it's life. Should every woman who gets pregnant off a one night stand get an abortion?
The kid is with social services and she sees it three times a week by all accounts. Obviously not ideal, but not sure killing it is the preferred option every time.
Just feels a bit Nazi/Stasi like enforcing abortions to me, but yep that's a difference of opinion. I'm sure a lot of women would've chosen to abort in her situation.I’m happy to leave the remainder of the issue as a difference of opinion, but the bolded - really?
Of course a child should have a father in its life. Growing up without a parent has a profound effect on a child’s life. Now, in the case of the one night stand we can say at least they both consented and are both old enough to know better - but in this case the boy wasn’t.
As @whitbyviking said in a post somewhere, it’s actually the psychological effect on the boy that it most concerning for me in all of this
An unlikely timeline but I would absolutely have to cede the point if it happenedJust feels a bit Nazi/Stasi like enforcing abortions to me, but yep that's a difference of opinion. I'm sure a lot of women would've chosen to abort in her situation.
Not making excuses for her at all, but not sure she's the most mentally or emotionally stable person.
Clearly a child would ideally have the father in it's life, but aborting it if not seems extreme. Maybe he could grow up to be John Conor.
It looks like she’s trying to get her head around middle out compression.
she is being called the same, in the press and yourself and I’m sure many others so no need to worry about thatWhich is why I said labeled, like it or not, accurate or not, that's what men are called and if a woman does the same thing they can and should expect to be called the same, and jail, there's no probably about it!
An unlikely timeline but I would absolutely have to cede the point if it happened
An unlikely timeline but I would absolutely have to cede the point if it happened
Yeah your right. I was only joking.Anyone who thinks sexually abusing minors is morally corrupting and a crime? Especially when the abuser is in a position of such responsibility and power.
What about if she raped a minor, forcing him to conceive but against his wishes, she aborted the baby?No one's clamouring for anything. Regardless of how the child was conceived, we shouldn't be forcing women to do anything, it's still their body and thus their choice.
I’ve seen it first hand… A good friend of mine growing up knocked up his English teacher our senior year of high school. They only gave her 1 year + 1 year probation. The only thing I can figure other than a disparity between male & female is that they took the age gap into account, with him being 18 and her being 22.As others have said, there seems to be a massive inequality on how these cases are treated based on the sex or the perp.
It would still be her body and her choice. You're not going to get any other answers as long as the scenario is "woman deciding to have/not have an abortion".What about if she raped a minor, forcing him to conceive but against his wishes, she aborted the baby?
That's a slightly weird example. I'm not sure there should be a blanket ban when we're talking about two consenting adults.I’ve seen it first hand… A good friend of mine growing up knocked up his English teacher our senior year of high school. They only gave her 1 year + 1 year probation. The only thing I can figure other than a disparity between male & female is that they took the age gap into account, with him being 18 and her being 22.
They ended up getting married… are still married actually, and have a 2nd kid together.
jail-time for that seems wild to meI’ve seen it first hand… A good friend of mine growing up knocked up his English teacher our senior year of high school. They only gave her 1 year + 1 year probation. The only thing I can figure other than a disparity between male & female is that they took the age gap into account, with him being 18 and her being 22.
They ended up getting married… are still married actually, and have a 2nd kid together.
And presumably a 19/20 yr old high school student could be in a relationship with a 16 yr old and that would be perfectly legal.jail-time for that seems wild to me