Because we don't have a mind reading device, we won't know for sure what her intent was. I don't think it's an overreaction to say that it is possible that she was trying to get him murdered.
Sure, people who are certain of this are overreacting. While hypocritical, their overreaction is much less likely to result in someone's death, than her overreaction was likely to result in the black guy's death.
No flak from here for pointing it out, but I think it's understandable that for a lot of people it will be secondary.
Yeah I’ve sat back and read responses. I don’t have to agree to respect others right to an opinion.
My own personal anecdote... When my girl and I were driving all over the West Coast on holiday we left a motel at 5am as we had a long drive ahead of us. We knew we needed cash and spotted an ATM in the other side of the highway. No cars anywhere. Pulled a 6 lane U-Turn.
Cops lights flash. I pull into the bank parking lot and park.
Officer gets out, walks alongside the car. I put my hands on the wheel, he asks me to wind my window down.
He asks for my license and rental papers after a brief exchange of what I’m doing.
Its a low slung seat so I thrust my hips up, push my hand into my pocket and pull out my wallet in one fluid sexy motion.
It’s not until I’ve pushed my hand towards him that I notice his hand has moved to his holster.
I can almost guarantee that goes a lot differently if I’m black. I can also guarantee that my tiny white mind doesn’t process all of that in the moment.
Which is why when it comes to this, I’m not going to extrapolate a minute exchange into something more sinister. It’s terrible as it is and that’s how I’ll assess it. For me, there’s not the time to think in those terms.
I believe she was on the ‘How dare someone tell me what to do’ train at first. Then it became ‘An African American man’ and it got very nasty and silly very quickly.
I’m not more right than anyone. But I’ll always try to give an aspect of benefit of the doubt. It just seems a lot healthier and gives more operating space for everything else.