You're ignoring the added on result of the media - and rival managers - 'whining' whenever a big decision has gone, or perceived to have 'wrongly' gone, our way. Which is, we then get openly and deliberately shafted by decisions for the following few games - none of which gets any coverage / acknowledgement from that same media.
Our rivals are also big clubs, so by your reasoning also 'more likely to get favourable decisions' their way. But the lack of media outrage whenever those decisions do go their way means they aren't openly and deliberate screwed in subsequent matches and therefore puts us at a significant disadvantage to our direct rivals, not necessarily the 'smaller clubs' you compare us to.
But when you are asking the managers of those smaller clubs what they'd chose, don't forget to add on that whenever they are perceived to have 'benefitted' from one major decision, they'll then be deliberately screwed over for the next few games. Not sure how many would take you up on that deal.