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Would help finding topics of interest. I was hoping to see some thoughts on a documentary making it's rounds in the US , by a pretty obnoxious conservative media group , but which also has quite a few positive remarks from all sides of the coin
Is that the ‘what is a woman’ doc?
 

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I agree with what you just said. And yet...

It also sounds as if you're describing the right of women not to conform to social stereotypes as if it's a battle won in the modern world, and that's where I think a lot of the misgivings expressed come from. It's not a battle won in big chunks of the world and even where it is, it's a conditional win - and sometimes even a transient one.

Sometimes it only applies to the young, single, childless (and not pregnant) professional. It's also very recent as well. Some of those who get angriest in the Twitter rows are women who didn't conform to gender driven dress codes, or behaviours, or interests, or who are attracted to other women. The older ones spent most of their youth defending themselves from, "so why are you pretending to be a bloke?" or "let's see what you've got down your pants" They're suspicious of things that suggest non-conformance is the same as pulling away from their womanhood.

It feels like it should be the case that the previously marginalised and discriminated against should feel safe and empathetic enough to welcome a minority group that's got a tough fight to get even a modicum of fairness - but I can see why it can be the opposite.

For me, I'm less invested - I did live more or less the life I wanted, and I want that freedom for other people. I see space in art and drama for exploration and challenge, but I also see why others would take that challenge as an attack on their own hard fought right to be who they are.
Yeah I don't disagree with you. I did half-write a bit in my post addressing the point you make in your first big paragraph, but cut it as it felt I was going on too much. I think that's a valid point which I'd have a lot of sympathy for if someone from one of those parts of the world was making it to show that we tend to universalise the experiences of certain types of people and assume battles are won which demonstrably aren't for many others.

But as far as I can see, the people who are riling this up into a controversy are the same bunch of rich, white UK-based journalists who leap on any excuse to engineer false conflicts between non-binary people and women. Their intent clearly isn't to contribute in good faith to the discussion this play raises, it's to torpedo the play by labelling it anti-woman and thereby shut down that discussion.

I sort of understand the POV you're describing in your second paragraph, but where it falls down for me is that polling shows that the majority of women, and the vast majority of lesbian and bi women, don't think that way. The view that trans and non-binary identities are instrinsically harmful to women is a minority one, but one we hear a lot because it's adherents are massively overrepresented in the media.
 

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Do you have a link to the documentary?
Is that the ‘what is a woman’ doc?
Yup that's the one. I watched it coming in without much knowledge on any of the dialogue, except for what I've seen in Dave Chappelles last few specials which isn't exactly ideal. Definitely has a bit of condescending tones which isn't a surprise given the producer. But what did surprise me was the specific interviewees. I wish that I could discuss this openly somewhere without being shamed, with some thoughtful discourse to help me better understand whatever the fck is going on.
 

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Yup that's the one. I watched it coming in without much knowledge on any of the dialogue, except for what I've seen in Dave Chappelles last few specials which isn't exactly ideal. Definitely has a bit of condescending tones which isn't a surprise given the producer. But what did surprise me was the specific interviewees. I wish that I could discuss this openly somewhere without being shamed, with some thoughtful discourse to help me better understand whatever the fck is going on.
No I know what you mean. I saw quite a lot of it. There’s not a lot in there that I disagreed with if I’m being honest.
 

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Is someone playing a character of the opposite sex the same as rewriting a character?
It obviously is not but the whole left vs right is about stupid point scoring on social media.

Nuanced discussion has taken a hit and it is all about who is “winning”.
 

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so apparently her latest book centres around a character who gets criticised online for being transphobic and racist

and it’s over 1000 pages long :lol:
 

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These abusive billionaires seem to live such fecking miserable lives. Haven't you got a bouncy castle made from chinchilla fur you can go have fun on, or some realistic humanoid robot you can kick around your palace? Why are you slumming it down here with us destitutes taking Ls at every opportunity.
 

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so apparently her latest book centres around a character who gets criticised online for being transphobic and racist

and it’s over 1000 pages long :lol:
That's not accurate*. Just like the previous novel in the series was vilified inaccurately, too. It's easy to jump on Rowling looking for problems in everything she says and does since her Tweets, but I still think she's being treated very harshly for largely innocuous comments by the perpetually offended by everything crowd. For those knocking the books for apparently containing similar such transgressions, maybe they should try reading them in their entirety instead of cherry picking a few sentences and spitting their dummies out.

*I'm a little over half way through and maybe the murdered-very-early character you refer to comes back to life in the second half and gets such criticism but I think it's unlikely. Maybe the detectives dig up some more salacious tweets and chatroom logs, but again i can't see it. Is the central character criticised for being a bitch? Yep. For being self-centred and egotistical? Absolutely. Money-orientated and misanthropic? Sure. The assertions being made though, not so much.

What I would say generally is that the Strike series is suffering the same issues as Potter in the later novels, in that (to quote King), she's developing 'diarrhoea of the typewriter': the tweets and chatroom sections of this book are fecking hard work, and her insistence on writing accents word for word instead of, (again King), making it a one-time-and-done to get the point across kind of thing grows very old very quickly - and it's even worse in the Audible version.

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Never read any of her books but from those exerts she's not a good writer, is she? I don't think I could more than a couple of pages of that bland style.
 

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That's not accurate*. Just like the previous novel in the series was vilified inaccurately, too. It's easy to jump on Rowling looking for problems in everything she says and does since her Tweets, but I still think she's been treated very harshly for largely innocuous comments by the perpetually offended by everything crowd. For those knocking the books for apparently containing similar such transgressions, maybe they should try reading them in their entirety instead of cherry picking a few sentences and spitting their dummies out.
We have pretty different views on what's innocuous, but with people like Rowling it's always a pattern more than any one statement. For instance she'll post a link to a pin with a simple feminist message on it, completely innocent, but she'll be so unlucky that this shop also coincidentally sells some of the most vile anti-trans shit you'll ever see. Unlucky.

She's now praising anti-woman Christian conservatives like Matt Walsh because of their shared opinions on trans people (though she'll not go so far as calling him an ally, in contrast to some of her friends). She's saying that the whole bathroom thing is providing "cover for predators", yet it has never happened. When three people post a picture of themselves outside of her home with protest signs she has no qualms about connecting that to a wider point about how not only the "trans movement" but trans people supposedly behaves (even though none of them were trans), yet she has no problem with gender critical people who has done way more explicit doxxing of people who aren't famous with not very hard to find houses. When her overtly anti-trans real life friends are asked to leave a Pride parade she'll frame it as "lesbians no longer welcome at pride" when it's just an obvious lie that it had anything to do with them being lesbians, but because their open and basically only active goal as a group is to oppose so-called "transgenderism". She'll say that the medical threatment trans people get is a form of conversion theraphy (something that coincidentally matches perfectly with the common gender critical views that trans women are men and that trans men are lesbians under attack, and is probably ironic given her pen name), and she'll booze around with groups like LGB Alliance, people like Maya Forstater and so many more. She'll say that the "gender identity movement" is nakedly misogynistic and a threat to women. And in Linehan style, so so so much more.

Trans women are men, trans women are a physical threat to women and a threat to women's rights, women are under attack and the LGB Alliance is great. That's what Rowling believes, innocuously or not.
 

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We have pretty different views on what's innocuous, but with people like Rowling it's always a pattern more than any one statement. For instance she'll post a link to a pin with a simple feminist message on it, completely innocent, but she'll be so unlucky that this shop also coincidentally sells some of the most vile anti-trans shit you'll ever see. Unlucky.

She's now praising anti-woman Christian conservatives like Matt Walsh because of their shared opinions on trans people (though she'll not go so far as calling him an ally, in contrast to some of her friends). She's saying that the whole bathroom thing is providing "cover for predators", yet it has never happened. When three people post a picture of themselves outside of her home with protest signs she has no qualms about connecting that to a wider point about how not only the "trans movement" but trans people supposedly behaves (even though none of them were trans), yet she has no problem with gender critical people who has done way more explicit doxxing of people who aren't famous with not very hard to find houses. When her overtly anti-trans real life friends are asked to leave a Pride parade she'll frame it as "lesbians no longer welcome at pride" when it's just an obvious lie that it had anything to do with them being lesbians, but because their open and basically only active goal as a group is to oppose so-called "transgenderism". She'll say that the medical threatment trans people get is a form of conversion theraphy (something that coincidentally matches perfectly with the common gender critical views that trans women are men and that trans men are lesbians under attack, and is probably ironic given her pen name), and she'll booze around with groups like LGB Alliance, people like Maya Forstater and so many more. She'll say that the "gender identity movement" is nakedly misogynistic and a threat to women. And in Linehan style, so so so much more.

Trans women are men, trans women are a physical threat to women and a threat to women's rights, women are under attack and the LGB Alliance is great. That's what Rowling believes, innocuously or not.
If it wasn't clear, I was referring to the books. That said for, reasons of internet and time, I don't want to get into the rest of the discussion but based only on what you've written in your reply to me my views appear to align more with Rowling's than with yours, the conversion therapy comment she made according to your reply aside: my sister, (nee brother for clarity) is transgender and it's coloured my point of view pretty heavily in favour of more rights for tg people, and I believe she did the right thing - including the physical treatments.

Quickly on the 'hidden' messages in the innocent Tweet: while having not seen it, it still makes me think my point is somewhat valid... I mean, maybe there really was a hidden subtext that she fully intended to be there, but then again people will find anything in anything. Thanks for the considered reply.
 

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If it wasn't clear, I was referring to the books. That said for, reasons of internet and time, I don't want to get into the rest of the discussion but based only on what you've written in your reply to me my views appear to align more with Rowling's than with yours, the conversion therapy comment she made according to your reply aside: my sister, (nee brother for clarity) is transgender and it's coloured my point of view pretty heavily in favour of more rights for tg people, and I believe she did the right thing - including the physical treatments.

Quickly on the 'hidden' messages in the innocent Tweet: while having not seen it, it still makes me think my point is somewhat valid... I mean, maybe there really was a hidden subtext that she fully intended to be there, but then again people will find anything in anything. Thanks for the considered reply.
I know you were mostly talking about the books, but when you referred to her tweets you were connecting how you see her work interpreted to how you see her real world beliefs published on twitter being interpreted, no? Not trying to start a discussion, you don't want that and that's completely fine, just clarifying whether or not I misunderstood.

I'm very happy that you're supporting your sister. That's great and I hope she's doing well. Negative reactions from family and the wider social circle is a big factor in some very sad statistics, so she's "lucky" in the sense that she seemingly has what should be the norm. Some unsolicited advice, and you're perfectly entitled to tell me to feck off because it's none of my business: unless you're very sure about her views on the matter, please consider not bringing up groups like LGB Alliance or people who share their views.
 

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I know you were mostly talking about the books, but when you referred to her tweets you were connecting how you see her work interpreted to how you see her real world beliefs published on twitter being interpreted, no? Not trying to start a discussion, you don't want that and that's completely fine, just clarifying whether or not I misunderstood.

I'm very happy that you're supporting your sister. That's great and I hope she's doing well. Negative reactions from family and the wider social circle is a big factor in some very sad statistics, so she's "lucky" in the sense that she seemingly has what should be the norm. Some unsolicited advice, and you're perfectly entitled to tell me to feck off because it's none of my business: unless you're very sure about her views on the matter, please consider not bringing up groups like LGB Alliance or people who share their views.
I do think people look for stuff that isn't necessarily there in her tweets and her work, but probably don't know enough about it to have a firmer view than that. I will say this, without really wanting to drag other posters into it, but the post I initially replied to quoted a tweet that literally has nothing to do with racism or transphobia from Rowling, or includes any in any of the images tweeted, which kinda proves my point. All the 'tweets' shown in those images from the book are from the first few chapters, so as I said initially there may be stuff later on that I haven't read yet.

A lot of the family initially disowned her, but most have come round as far as I know (my mum's sister is OK with it now, and she was the worst by all accounts, the younger generations just got on with it). We don't discuss her 'status' really these days as she underwent the procedures probably 8 or so years ago now.
 

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Never read any of her books but from those exerts she's not a good writer, is she? I don't think I could more than a couple of pages of that bland style.
She wrote a series called Harry Potter, they did alright I think.
 

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She wrote a series called Harry Potter, they did alright I think.
Is Stephenie Meyer a good writer? According to a 2019 article I found, Twilight is the 6th best selling fantasy series of all time, above A Song of Ice and Fire, the Wheel of Time, Artemis Fowl, Discworld, etc. Since the article is 3 years old she's probably passed the Chronicles of Narnia as well, and she might be creeping up on The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings (probably not that one considering the TV series). She is by all accounts a wildly successful author. So is she a good writer?
 

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No clue where to properly put this, but it deserves a couple minutes of your time…

 

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No clue where to properly put this, but it deserves a couple minutes of your time…

I've heard of that site before, it's pretty much populated by scum who merrily drive (and have driven) people to suicide. KiwiFarms is basically the #1 argument against a decentralized, completely unregulated internet.
 

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Is Stephenie Meyer a good writer? According to a 2019 article I found, Twilight is the 6th best selling fantasy series of all time, above A Song of Ice and Fire, the Wheel of Time, Artemis Fowl, Discworld, etc. Since the article is 3 years old she's probably passed the Chronicles of Narnia as well, and she might be creeping up on The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings (probably not that one considering the TV series). She is by all accounts a wildly successful author. So is she a good writer?
I've read and watched the Harry Potter series, and will soon go to Harry Potter world...and I've seen the Twilight films.

None of the rest though.
 

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No clue where to properly put this, but it deserves a couple minutes of your time…

If only they could use their weaponized autism to make the world a better place instead of harassing people.
She went to a hotel, and took a picture with her cat, telling fans she was safe.
KiwiFarms users identified her hotel by the bedsheets and the threats increased.
I thought all internet users are trackable. Why are cops not stopping this?
 

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Is Stephenie Meyer a good writer? According to a 2019 article I found, Twilight is the 6th best selling fantasy series of all time, above A Song of Ice and Fire, the Wheel of Time, Artemis Fowl, Discworld, etc. Since the article is 3 years old she's probably passed the Chronicles of Narnia as well, and she might be creeping up on The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings (probably not that one considering the TV series). She is by all accounts a wildly successful author. So is she a good writer?
No, her writing is nowhere near the level of J.K. Rowling. I could not get through the first 50 pages of the first Twilight Book. I agree with this assessment:
"The real difference is that Jo Rowling is a terrific writer and Stephenie Meyer can't write worth a darn" - Stephen King
 

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Is there any writer in that genre who is obviously better than Rowling? I read a couple of the HP books and never felt they were particularly badly written.
I think with Harry Potter you have to parse out the various aspects of Rowling's writing. Her ability to build and describe a engaging fantasy world kids (and often teenagers and weird adults) wanted to live in is possibly unique. On the other hand, she's truly dreadful at writing characters who do, think and say realistic things, and the world she built, whilst engaging, wasn't internally consistent enough to hang complicated, logical plots on. Those things don't really matter in kids books, but they increasingly do in YA fiction, which the HP series started shifting into by the 3rd book, and in the adult crime fiction set in the 'real world' which she's focussed on since.
 

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Is there any writer in that genre who is obviously better than Rowling? I read a couple of the HP books and never felt they were particularly badly written.
Of course. They probably couldn't have written Harry Potter, but if we make the assumption that writing ability and success aren't linked 1:1, then there are many fantasy authors I'd say are clearly better writers.
 

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I think with Harry Potter you have to parse out the various aspects of Rowling's writing. Her ability to build and describe a engaging fantasy world kids (and often teenagers and weird adults) wanted to live in is possibly unique. On the other hand, she's truly dreadful at writing characters who do, think and say realistic things, and the world she built, whilst engaging, wasn't internally consistent enough to hang complicated, logical plots on. Those things don't really matter in kids books, but they increasingly do in YA fiction, which the HP series started shifting into by the 3rd book, and in the adult crime fiction set in the 'real world' which she's focussed on since.
I started rereading the books some years ago, and I was very surprised. Some of the best magicians in the world say it's impossible to steal the philosopher's stone because the defense system they set up is so extremely good, and what do they mean? You have to pay some attention to the first year school curriculum, be a somewhat competent broom rider, a mediocre chess player and being able to solve a pretty basic riddle. I know it's a children's book, but until I reread them I didn't know how much of a children's book it actually is.
 

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Is there any writer in that genre who is obviously better than Rowling? I read a couple of the HP books and never felt they were particularly badly written.
I outgrew HP right around the moment the last book came out, about a year later, read 3 of these and loved them. No idea if they hold up now, but everything was better: world-building, plot, characters.
 

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Is there any writer in that genre who is obviously better than Rowling? I read a couple of the HP books and never felt they were particularly badly written.
By genre if you just mean fantasy in general then yeah there’s a shit ton of writers who exceed her

If you’re referring solely to children/YA books in this vein then no idea. When I was growing up I can definitely think of series or writers who I thought were better but can’t really gauge it as an adult
 

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I started rereading the books some years ago, and I was very surprised. Some of the best magicians in the world say it's impossible to steal the philosopher's stone because the defense system they set up is so extremely good, and what do they mean? You have to pay some attention to the first year school curriculum, be a somewhat competent broom rider, a mediocre chess player and being able to solve a pretty basic riddle. I know it's a children's book, but until I reread them I didn't know how much of a children's book it actually is.
If you want an adeventure story about 10 year olds to hold up to the question "does it really make sense that those random kids are solving this?", then it's going to be a pretty boring book. And that's without the whole fantasy issue.
 

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If you want an adeventure story about 10 year olds to hold up to the question "does it really make sense that those random kids are solving this?", then it's going to be a pretty boring book. And that's without the whole fantasy issue.
Sure, but there are varying degrees to this. While the Hardy Boys, Bobbsey Twins and Nancy Drew might not be the pinnacle of detective fiction I find them all less jarring. And while it plays on familiar tropes like the hubris of grownups and how kids are brushed up, "Voldemort couldn't possibly know how the horsey moves" is just several steps too far for me.
 

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Sure, but there are varying degrees to this. While the Hardy Boys, Bobbsey Twins and Nancy Drew might not be the pinnacle of detective fiction I find them all less jarring. And while it plays on familiar tropes like the hubris of grownups and how kids are brushed up, "Voldemort couldn't possibly know how the horsey moves" is just several steps too far for me.
I abhor and I really mean the word here , abhor the Harry Potter series but wasn't it literally written for 7 year olds or something?
 

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Sure, but there are varying degrees to this. While the Hardy Boys, Bobbsey Twins and Nancy Drew might not be the pinnacle of detective fiction I find them all less jarring. And while it plays on familiar tropes like the hubris of grownups and how kids are brushed up, "Voldemort couldn't possibly know how the horsey moves" is just several steps too far for me.
There’s definitely levels to it, it’s what I found so annoying about Star Wars. Any criticism I’d make about the plot would just be met with “pff, you want some realism in a movie with lightsabers and flying aliens?”

Well, yes. A little bit at least. Otherwise what’s the point? You have to have some rules if you’re going to have any tension.