@Penna
You've given me the courage to tell my own story.
My wife (ex wife now) and I were expecting our 3rd child after having 2 beautiful boys (now 13 and 15 years old). My wife is and was very liberal and I've always considered myself independent [political labels bother me], just to give a little bit of a background. We even had a name chosen for the expectant baby.
We went in for my wife's 20 week ultrasound, hoping to find out the sex of the baby (I was hoping for a daughter), when the RN began the procedure. After 3 minutes, the nurse physically looked at us and excused herself, saying that she needed the doctor. When the doctor and nurse returned, we were informed that our "baby" was in fact not developed and no longer living. The doctor, matter-of-factly stated that we'd have to schedule an appointment for the evacuation of the remains (apologises to the doctor if I didn't get that word-for-word). My wife and I broke down.
To give you my unedited position on this matter, I feel for anyone that has to go through with the decision to abort or keep, but I know how I would choose going forward, and I hope that everyone in the situation of contemplating whether to continue with a pregnancy or not, I hope they take a period of time to think about the ramifications either choice will produce.
To put closure at the end of my post, my hope is that the decision for expectant women doesn't become flippant, like, "uggh, I'm pregnant again! Time to go to the clinic" (sorry if that sounds crass)