Amber Heard vs Johnny Depp | Depp wins on all 3 counts

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No. Are you winding up for a gotcha or something? It’s not going to land because I have maintained I believe both are abusers.
He walked us through the process of how the article was written to be as obviously damaging to Depp as possible, while trying to stay as within an NDA and defamation laws as possible. That includes redrafts to be more obviously about Depp.

One of the ACLU lawyers even remarked that the final draft was more obvious than their redraft.
 

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I'm not biased......biased rant ensues about one party...it's okay because I've cleverly added a one line caveat both are bad.
 

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I'm not biased......biased rant ensues about one party...it's okay because I've cleverly added a one line caveat both are bad.
I'm not biased! I just think there are people in here looking to invalidate Heard's account primarily because she is a woman.
 

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how do you discern the difference between that and people just not liking her behaviour?
Not sure if you've read through the entire thread but if you do you'll see it said (among other things) that she's dressed like a tramp, she's riding the #metoo train to fame, that she dated Depp for his lifestyle, that she dated Depp for career advancement, that Depp had no reason to be overly attached to her as she's nothing special in terms of looks (along with a helpful list of Depp's apparently better looking exes to compare her to) and (conversely) that people are only defending her because of her looks.

If you can't see the difference between that and criticism untainted by misogyny then I'd be concerned.

Which isn't a defence of Heard, who I believe abused Depp. It's a criticism of some of the posters here and the unpleasant, one-sided, parasocial lense they've been viewing the ongoing case through. It's a creepy thread.
 
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Not sure if you've read through the entire thread but if you do you'll see it said (among other things) that she's dressed like a tramp, she's riding the #metoo train to fame, that she dated Depp for his lifestyle, that she dated Depp for career advancement, that Depp had no reason to be overly attached to her as she's nothing special in terms of looks (along with a helpful list of Depp's apparently better looking exes to compare her to) and (conversely) that people are only defending her because of her looks.

If you can't see the difference between that and criticism untainted by misogyny then I'd be concerned.
yeah I haven’t read any of that, so I (sincerely this time) stand corrected

apologies @That’sHernandez I was a bit off-base with that one
 

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yeah I haven’t read any of that, so I (sincerely this time) stand corrected

apologies @That’sHernandez I was a bit off-base with that one
No need to apologise. If I were able to articulate myself as well as @sullydnl it would not have dragged on as long as it did. :)
 

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I'm not biased! I just think there are people in here looking to invalidate Heard's account primarily because she is a woman.
I was referring to about 60% of posts to be fair.

You sure you're not defending Heard primarily because she's a woman?

I've said before people are uncomfortable challenging a woman claiming abuse, that much is obvious. It might come from a good place but it's wrong to be so absolute.

Sure women deserve the benefit of the doubt,which she did get, but only to a point and the evidence takes us far past that. It's a bizarre and open view the court has got.
 

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I know what has happened; people are portraying Depp as a victim because an article alleging his behaviour was published, and people believed it. I am saying perhaps if Depp hadn't acted like that, the article wouldn't exist.

The bloke is best friends with Marilyn Manson, who is not without his own serious allegations, for crying out loud.
Which is the tip of the iceberg really. Even as recently as 2018 he beat up a guy on set in another one of his drug fueled rages.
 

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I was referring to about 60% of posts to be fair.

You sure you're not defending Heard primarily because she's a woman?

I've said before people are uncomfortable challenging a woman claiming abuse, that much is obvious. It might come from a good place but it's wrong to be so absolute.

Sure women deserve the benefit of the doubt,which she did get, but only to a point and the evidence takes us far past that. It's a bizarre and open view the court has got.
That part is true but the moment has shifted now. As far as evidence goes, if you follow the case it is not going the way media is reporting it. The evidence at the very least is not at all taking us "far past that". There is substantial evidence Depp was violent and my issue is not even disagreeing with the evidence, but disagreeing with it due to the misogynistic stuff like her reactions, how her facial expressions should be when abused and so on.
 

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I was referring to about 60% of posts to be fair.

You sure you're not defending Heard primarily because she's a woman?

I've said before people are uncomfortable challenging a woman claiming abuse, that much is obvious. It might come from a good place but it's wrong to be so absolute.

Sure women deserve the benefit of the doubt,which she did get, but only to a point and the evidence takes us far past that. It's a bizarre and open view the court has got.
I’m not. If you look at my earlier posts in this thread I was defending Depp when people were saying the libel/slander trial in the UK proves he’s a domestic abuse perp and proves Heard is a victim too.

I just think if people are looking to highlight the disparity in acknowledgment of male victims of domestic abuse compared to female victims, and how people react to male victims of domestic abuse, this is not the case to be doing it because they are both clearly perpetrators in their toxic relationship
 

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That part is true but the moment has shifted now. As far as evidence goes, if you follow the case it is not going the way media is reporting it. The evidence at the very least is not at all taking us "far past that". There is substantial evidence Depp was violent and my issue is not even disagreeing with the evidence, but disagreeing with it due to the misogynistic stuff like her reactions, how her facial expressions should be when abused and so on.
So if people were only judging Depp on his performance you'd consider that man hate? Of course not.

We're judging these peoples acts and character, not their sexes.

It's nothing to do with the media people have heard the evidence, the audio etc. She's a cnut and a manipulative one, there's no caveat needed to that statement.
 

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So if people were only judging Depp on his performance you'd consider that man hate? Of course not.

We're judging these peoples acts and character, not their sexes.

It's nothing to do with the media people have heard the evidence, the audio etc. She's a cnut and a manipulative one, there's no caveat needed to that statement.
People didn’t really judge Depp based upon his performance, certainly not in the way they are with Heard, which is sort of the point @shamans is making
 

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You have repeatedly claimed that Depp "beat up" a guy on a movie set.
But even if we believe that 2018 insider/source, according to this report, Depp only "tried to punch him in the ribs. But the weak blow didn't make an impact".

https://pagesix.com/2018/05/07/john...t-after-drinking-all-day/?utm_campaign=iosapp
I admit I could be wrong I am giving my opinion of what I read and there's a lot of misinformation out there. That said it still sounds bad. There are also witness accounts (that will be heard soon in this case I believe) of him beating up photographers.
 

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So if people were only judging Depp on his performance you'd consider that man hate? Of course not.

We're judging these peoples acts and character, not their sexes.

It's nothing to do with the media people have heard the evidence, the audio etc. She's a cnut and a manipulative one, there's no caveat needed to that statement.
You're judging the character of one person and not the other. Amber Heard is blowing her nose in court which gets scrutinized as snorting coke. Depp is making jokes about his big wine glass while he was wrecking pots and pans but its "good ol' jonny!'

Also, the full evidence is not even out yet. Amber Heard was found guilty in trial by media before what she could even say.
 

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You're judging the character of one person and not the other. Amber Heard is blowing her nose in court which gets scrutinized as snorting coke. Depp is making jokes about his big wine glass while he was wrecking pots and pans but its "good ol' jonny!'

Also, the full evidence is not even out yet. Amber Heard was found guilty in trial by media before what she could even say.
Amber Heard was found guilty in trial by media after she was exposed on tape admitting to committing domestic abuse. If I see a grown man punch a kid in the face or if I hear him on tape saying 'come on I only hit you in the face a few times' then I don't need to sit and listen for the 'full evidence' to know whether he did it 10 times or 1 before I call him a child beater and it's kind of weird that that would be the expectation. Depp was found guilty in a trial by media years ago based on 0 evidence, so the fact that Amber is currently going through what Depp has already gone through on the back of some kind of evidence, is not really a hill to die on.

Also you said at one point in this thread that you offered a balanced view, but you're anything but. You've picked Heard's side and are taking issue with those who have picked Depp's side but you're doing the same thing in reverse ignoring things that go against your narrative and pushing hard the things that don't.
 
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As I said earlier, Heard has been testifying incredible accounts of abuse in the context of Depp's case having been heard and only one witness, who was a paid expert there to assure us that's she's not crazy.

Depp built his credibility through a number of personal witnesses to humanise him and others to provide a basis in evidence to give credibility to his story.

Heard's only light to me at least is that the accusations are so horrific that I don't want to believe someone could make them up. She has written some fecking big cheques and needs to be able to pay up when it gets tied together with her evidence.
 

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Amber Heard was found guilty in trial by media after she was exposed on tape admitting to committing domestic abuse. If I see a grown man punch a kid in the face or if I hear him on tape saying 'come on I only hit you in the face a few times' then I don't need to sit and listen for the 'full evidence' to know whether he did it 10 times or 1 before I call him a child beater and it's kind of weird that that would be the expectation. Depp was found guilty in a trial by media years ago based on 0 evidence, so the fact that Amber is currently going through what Depp has already gone through on the back of some kind of evidence, is not really a hill to die on.

Also you said at one point in this thread that you offered a balanced view, but you're anything but. You've picked Heard's side and are taking issue with those who have picked Depp's side but you're doing the same thing in reverse ignoring things that go against your narrative and pushing hard the things that don't.
Name something that has gone against my view and I have pushed hard against? I am only "defending" heard because the overwhelming majority is towards Depp like no other. I'm not going to bring out the obvious flaws and holes in her story when it's been done to death?

The tape does not prove anything though without context, however my personal opinion is the same as the majority in its case the she did in fact beat him and she was abusive towards him. That still does not justify the trial by media.

If for instance he did indeed rape her, would it not change the context of the tape?
 

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Name something that has gone against my view and I have pushed hard against?
Your misunderstanding of Depps UK libel case for one and what the judges ruling actually means, you keep pushing it despite having been shown that the words you are selecting do not mean the thing you keep saying they mean.

I'm not going to bring out the obvious flaws and holes in her story when it's been done to death?
Then you are by definition, not providing a balanced view. You are picking a side in what you bring out.

The tape does not prove anything though without context, however my personal opinion is the same as the majority in its case the she did in fact beat him and she was abusive towards him. That still does not justify the trial by media.
It is a direct admission of domestic abuse, and so it proves more than what has been used by Heard to ruin Depp's career and reputation over the last decade which was nothing more than speculation. You're also doing the same thing here yourself, you're referring to 'reports' that Depp did XYZ like violence on set etc as some kind of indictment in this case and almost inferring that if you once got in a fight with someone then you're not capable of being the victim of domestic abuse as if the two are in any way related. I too have been in fights in my life, it does not make me more likely to have ever abused a woman.

If for instance he did indeed rape her, would it not change the context of the tape?
If that comes out, then yes it may but usually you don't do mental gymnastics and jump to horrific eventualities that may or may not ever come up to influence your mindset - you react to what has actually come up so far as the evidence is introduced; such as Heard admitting herself to committing domestic abuse, the witness testimonies, the lies she has been caught in etc.
 

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I admit I could be wrong I am giving my opinion of what I read and there's a lot of misinformation out there. That said it still sounds bad. There are also witness accounts (that will be heard soon in this case I believe) of him beating up photographers.
I agree it sounds bad and i believe that he could be a pretty unpleasant person to work with.
I just took issue with the wording that he "beat" somebody "up". Most people at least agree that neither Depp, nor Heard are saints, but a drug-fuelled habit of beating people up for no apparent reasons would definitely point to much deeper problems (and would possibly support Heard's version of events) than once or twice throwing punches that didn't even connect (which in my personal, non-relevant opinion wouldn't necessarily be relevant to the case).
 

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Your misunderstanding of Depps UK libel case for one and what the judges ruling actually means, you keep pushing it despite having been shown that the words you are selecting do not mean the thing you keep saying they mean.


Then you are by definition, not providing a balanced view. You are picking a side in what you bring out.



It is a direct admission of domestic abuse, and so it proves more than what has been used by Heard to ruin Depp's career and reputation over the last decade which was nothing more than speculation. You're also doing the same thing here yourself, you're referring to 'reports' that Depp did XYZ like violence on set etc as some kind of indictment in this case and almost inferring that if you once got in a fight with someone then you're not capable of being the victim of domestic abuse as if the two are in any way related. I too have been in fights in my life, it does not make me more likely to have ever abused a woman.



If that comes out, then yes it may but usually you don't do mental gymnastics and jump to horrific eventualities that may or may not ever come up to influence your mindset - you react to what has actually come up so far as the evidence is introduced; such as Heard admitting herself to committing domestic abuse, the witness testimonies, the lies she has been caught in etc.
I don't think I misunderstand the UK case. You think I do. If you think that's bias it's on you but I have looked at it in a fair view. I don't think the UK court case makes this an open shut case.

However, it also nullifies any claims of "no evidence". The case involved texts, medical records, witness accounts to make a decision. Two judges verified that decision. An appeal was thrown out of the window because it was deemed a waste of time.

When the overwhelming majority opinion out there is: "the judge was biased towards the sun", "the judge had no evidence", "judge only believed Heard because she's a woman". Then my take on it is quite balanced.

You could be in a fight but being drugged out beating on folks in a lower position of power is very different.

The bias here is from Depps control of media where you'd think the only evidence in this case is the one recording that goes against Heard and nothing else
 

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You're judging the character of one person and not the other. Amber Heard is blowing her nose in court which gets scrutinized as snorting coke. Depp is making jokes about his big wine glass while he was wrecking pots and pans but its "good ol' jonny!'

Also, the full evidence is not even out yet. Amber Heard was found guilty in trial by media before what she could even say.
What's the relevance of the bolded exactly? Whether he deserved it or not?.
 

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I don't think I misunderstand the UK case. You think I do. If you think that's bias it's on you but I have looked at it in a fair view. I don't think the UK court case makes this an open shut case.

However, it also nullifies any claims of "no evidence". The case involved texts, medical records, witness accounts to make a decision. Two judges verified that decision. An appeal was thrown out of the window because it was deemed a waste of time.

When the overwhelming majority opinion out there is: "the judge was biased towards the sun", "the judge had no evidence", "judge only believed Heard because she's a woman". Then my take on it is quite balanced.

You could be in a fight but being drugged out beating on folks in a lower position of power is very different.

The bias here is from Depps control of media where you'd think the only evidence in this case is the one recording that goes against Heard and nothing else
Zarlak is right, you aren't "balanced" at all. Your last line there speaks to that.

In fact, none of you who are defending Heard in here seem to grasp why people are leaning more to Depp's side in this particular case.
 

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Zarlak is right, you aren't "balanced" at all. Your last line there speaks to that.

In fact, none of you who are defending Heard in here seem to grasp why people are leaning more to Depp's side in this particular case.
Maybe you can explain then because I don't really understand why people are more sympathetic to Depp. I've been paying some attention to this and to me it seems like they both did shitty, abusive things to each other
 

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Maybe you can explain then because I don't really understand why people are more sympathetic to Depp. I've been paying some attention to this and to me it seems like they both did shitty, abusive things to each other
People are more sympathetic because of a smear campaign against Heard. There has been a lot of misinformation. The general belief is there is no real proof Depp hit or has never lied in this case.


It's when you know someone's gone off the deep end.

"Johnny Depp controls the media". Read that a few times maybe that will help.
I don't see what's going "off the deep end" for that? Right now there are viral videos of a woman who is not supposedly reacting to abuse the "correct" way being ridiculed on all platforms so I'm comfortable making that claim.
 

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Maybe you can explain then because I don't really understand why people are more sympathetic to Depp. I've been paying some attention to this and to me it seems like they both did shitty, abusive things to each other
It's because everybody was so quick to jump to her defence and his career was ruined. Then it came out that they are both scumbags and in fact, she is a lying sack of shite, people still rallied behind her and her career remained intact.

This case will finally take her down too and hopefully both can feck off.


People are more sympathetic because of a smear campaign against Heard. There has been a lot of misinformation. The general belief is there is no real proof Depp hit or has never lied in this case.
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Maybe shamans could be self-appointed as the consultant/advisor to Amber's lawyers team? Couldn't do any worst than what they have been doing, I reckon.

But perhaps not with PR team? Sounds unconvincing here at the very least, but still probably not any worst.
 

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Maybe you can explain then because I don't really understand why people are more sympathetic to Depp. I've been paying some attention to this and to me it seems like they both did shitty, abusive things to each other
for me its the tapes of them fighting

they're both being cnuts to each other but she comes across as generally more aggressive

there's one where she admits to hitting him

and one where she tells him no-one will believe him if he tells the world she abused him

and a bit where they're talking about Amber starting a physical fight and Depp says "yes you did so I had to get out of there"..
 

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It's because everybody was so quick to jump to her defence and his career was ruined. Then it came out that they are both scumbags and in fact, she is a lying sack of shite, people still rallied behind her and her career remained intact.

This case will finally take her down too and hopefully both can feck off.




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Was his career really ruined? I'm sure if he kept his head down for a couple of years he'd have been back in Hollywood's good books.

for me its the tapes of them fighting

they're both being cnuts to each other but she comes across as generally more aggressive

there's one where she admits to hitting him

and one where she tells him no-one will believe him if he tells the world she abused him

and a bit where they're talking about Amber starting a physical fight and Depp says "yes you did so I had to get out of there"..
Oh don't get me wrong, the stuff she's done to him is awful but, again, is it any worse than what Depp did to her?

Also, suing your ex for defamation because she's accusing you of abuse is hardly a good look. I'm sure it's just a coincidence his good friend Marilyn Manson is also suing his ex for defamation, because she accused him of abuse.

Is this where we're heading? If a woman accuses a rich, powerful man of abuse, he sues her for defamation?
 

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It's meant to reiterate what I'm saying -- Depp acts weird in courtroom or outside of it and it's all cool but when she does it there is body language analysis.
Still don't see the relevance. They're independent judgements of seperate people

What you're saying really only makes sense in some weird team depp team heard narrative.

For instance you mentioned Depp's friends behaviour, you didn't mention Heard's. Is that also strange to you or is it just seperate to the point you were making and therefore logical not to cover?

If anything it shows how Depps story has already run and now the focus is on if Heard has lied. Which seems obvious given this is the second court case.
 

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Was his career really ruined? I'm sure if he kept his head down for a couple of years he'd have been back in Hollywood's good books.


Oh don't get me wrong, the stuff she's done to him is awful but, again, is it any worse than what Depp did to her?

Also, suing your ex for defamation because she's accusing you of abuse is hardly a good look. I'm sure it's just a coincidence his good friend Marilyn Manson is also suing his ex for defamation, because she accused him of abuse.

Is this where we're heading? If a woman accuses a rich, powerful man of abuse, he sues her for defamation?
it appears that way, yes
 

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People are more sympathetic because of a smear campaign against Heard. There has been a lot of misinformation. The general belief is there is no real proof Depp hit or has never lied in this case.
What misinformation, man? Have you even bothered to listen to the recordings? They're even more damning for Heard than those shown in the trial. Furthermore, Amber Heard actually has history of domestic abuse while Johnny Depp doesn't. Pretty fecking weird that a guy in his 50's would suddenly turn violent despite women in his other relationships suggesting the exact opposite.

It's also pretty weird how much you support Amber despite the only thing you have going on for in her case is her word and her word alone. There is nothing and nobody that can collaborate that Johnny did those things to her and a plethora of evidence to the contrary.