MThomas
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Haven't claimed anything else.And he was an adult in the situation. The one breaking the law. That's why he is getting the sentence and not her.
Haven't claimed anything else.And he was an adult in the situation. The one breaking the law. That's why he is getting the sentence and not her.
well there was definitely coercion. he was the one angling for this to become sexual in the first instance.It is only relevant in the context of describing it as "abuse" and some other bits, as I was discussing with another poster earlier. For me, "abuse" implies some element of violence, coercion, blackmail/extortion, or (in cases such as this) the victim being completely unaware and innocent (in the "childhood innocence" sense) of what is taking place, none of which are the case here.
Her knowing what she is doing is irrelevant in the situation.Haven't claimed anything else.
It's not relevant to the question of Johnson's admitted guilt.Her knowing what she is doing is irrelevant in the situation.
Is it? Because the situation is, Adam Johnson is getting convicted for breaking the law by having sex with a girl who is under age. Doesn't matter if the girl knew what she was doing, he knew she was under age and still did it. That's breaking the law regardless of her intentions.It's not relevant to the question of Johnson's admitted guilt.
But is it relevant to the situation, yes.
I think you'll find if you look into those ages of consent, it's not as cut and dry. in Germany it's 14 but if you're a 28 year old male and the girl is 14 it will be treated differently.In our country, it is illegal what he did, which is why he's being rightfully tried. However were he playing in Germany / Portugal / Italy (14), France, Sweden (15) - not illegal and our countries are very similar in many ways.
Girls aged nearly 16 are not so innocent as some are making out to be. If you took a pole, i'd argue that the majority of girls aged 15, nearing 16, have had some sexual involvement to which they happily consented to at the time but later regretted. Be it base 1, 2, 3 or the home run - and in a number of cases the guy might have been over 18 so he'd be classed as an adult even though there could literally be just over 2 years or so between.
Legally what he did was wrong in England, which is why he's in jail. Morally, totally wrong. Get on a ferry to France / Germany etc and it's different (but yes, i know it happened in England so go by English laws)
except when you make statements like yours, it sounds like you're equating them both.Haven't claimed anything else.
Why/how so? Just asking.I think you'll find if you look into those ages of consent, it's not as cut and dry. in Germany it's 14 but if you're a 28 year old male and the girl is 14 it will be treated differently.
It's more than an underlying implication, some have come straight out and said it.there's an underlying implication that she is in some way responsible for what she got. which is a little sickening.
Found this online - basically there is far more ambiguity between 14-16. It's more than simply, 'hop on a plane to Germany and it'd be fine'. it's clearly not.Why/how so? Just asking.
Aye, it's really, really weird, and kind of borders on victim blaming. The whole reason for such a law is that we adjudge that people under the age of 16 are not of a mature enough age to be fully aware of what they're doing, or what they're entering into...especially when it's with someone who's nearly double their age.there's an underlying implication that she is in some way responsible for what she got. which is a little sickening.
Just good ol' fashioned female sexual objectification, it's nothing new.there's an underlying implication that she is in some way responsible for what she got. which is a little sickening.
If it's coming from a murderer, the worst kind of crime, and one from which there isn't coming back, that sounds more like a (high) standard of hypocrisy. Not sure the children of their victims are better off than the victims of sexual abuse.I don't know, it's almost comforting to know that even some of society's worst offenders have standards of decency.
have you read any of the thread up until now?Is it just me that thinks the punishment is a lot of the harsh side. If aged 15 and 364 days it's 5 years in prison, but switch to 16 and game on! Surely there has to be a sliding scale. Some 15 year olds look 18.
Not excusing it as he shouldn't be playing with fire and knew there was a risk he was taking and is arguably abusing a position of power which all makes this worse, but still sounds a lot.
Just for context Spain had the age of consent at 14 until a couple of years ago. What we are talking about here is not an under developed child. It's a young adult that has been protected under law under the presumption that mentally they are not old enough to make this decision.
This all being said if no means no it's a strong message to send out to the public, hence the making an example. But look at this case in isolation and it feels harsh.
How many of the public would have expected fooling around with a 15 year old as having a 5 year sentence? I'm sure many know there's a risk, maybe a slap on the wrist and criminal record. I doubt many would expect this much. Although as they say ignorance of the law is no defence.
And actually flipping the whole law on its head, there are 18 year olds who look 15 and 18 year olds who are not ready for sex mentally, physically and general readiness. But on the flipside there are stories out there of 13 years old having sex and arguably based on their experiences there is a case for saying they are more ready than the 18 year olds.
I just wonder if 16 is the wrong place to draw the line. Maybe it should be 18 or 15/16 only where it's with another person within 1-2 years of the other. This might help to protect younger people for longer and as part of this it could be a good way to reiterate the law and punishments involved for breaching those laws.
Blatantly not.have you read any of the thread up until now?
It's only really Germany where that's the case, other countries have different laws for prostitution where you have to be 18 but the general age of consent in a lot of Western European countries is 14 or 15, the age of the person involved doesn't matter.I think you'll find if you look into those ages of consent, it's not as cut and dry. in Germany it's 14 but if you're a 28 year old male and the girl is 14 it will be treated differently.
To be fair I read the first few comments and got the feeling everyone just wanted to stain the boot in. I've read more since and the views are slightly more balanced.have you read any of the thread up until now?
Yeah I would say people who are having sex at 14/15 aren't very mature despite what they tell themselves. I think a greater sign of maturity is knowing when you are ready to have sex and who is a suitable person to have sex with. Unfortunately, teenagers think having sex is a thing which makes initiates you as an adult. Some people do develop much earlier than others, but I would argue that even if you were truly ready to have sex at 14/15 you would be wise enough to know that you should do it with someone in your age range.From my experience as an 18/19 year old, there aren't many if any 18 year olds that I know of who are not ready to be sexually active. On the flip side, 14/15 year olds levels if maturity are at the opposite end if the scale. Even if they are sexually active within their age group, their mental maturity is very low compared to 16/18 year olds.
I find it crazy that countries allow adults to have sex with 14 year olds. I wonder how prevalent/frowned upon something like that is in these countries, despite it being legal. in any case, I think the UK has it right and we shouldn't be using other countries as a barometer, given the variances in culture/history/whatever, and the fact that, well, maybe they just have it wrong.It's only really Germany where that's the case, other countries have different laws for prostitution where you have to be 18 but the general age of consent in a lot of Western European countries is 14 or 15, the age of the person involved doesn't matter.
Best Freudian slip of the day.To be fair I read the first few comments and got the feeling everyone just wanted to stain the boot in.
Disgusting "newspaper".WTF The Sun??
Do people still buy their papers?Disgusting "newspaper".
Best selling paper in the UKDo people still buy their papers?
Have you not heard of Gavin Henson ?I was going to say "welsh metrosexuals needed to be a thing", then I remembered Gareth Bale.
Not even slightly.Have you not heard of Gavin Henson ?
He'll have served his sentence and should be allowed to continue with his life.If Johnson serves, say, 3 years how would people feel about him seeking re-employment on his release at 31?
The level of club who would take him is irrelevant - I'd just be interested in knowing people's views on Johnson being able to sign and play for clubs in the future.