The problem is not the word but using a person's skin color to identify and address them. In my native tongue "kara" has a positive connotation (because of Turkish history) but that doesn't mean it's alright to call a stranger by their skin color without the absolute need to do so. That's the issue with keeping using such terms. The fact that some countries and societies are ok with it, doesn't make it ok in general. Arab countries are ok with women having little to no rights. Is that ok too then?I'm a newbie so have limited posts so may not be able to reply to you a lot.
I get what you are saying but my point is that not all societies are trying to get away from similar pasts (I think you've highlighted my point by saying this)
Even the Suarez case highlighted that certain words have a good meaning but it's about context.
As I understand stand it in this case the word used is the equivalent to say sweetheart.
I appreciate that certain words shouldn't be used in certain places around the world. Think it was Arsenal who had to remove their sponsors name from their shirts in europe as the word meant a swear word. However they were free to use that sponsor in the Prem.
Similarly in some countries, Turkey for example, the word kala/kara (meaning black) was and is used to signify brave and heroic.
What do you mean by 'society'? Are you referring to Latin American society?Do you think Cavani was using "black" as something other than to acknowledge the color of the skin of the guy to whom he was responding? It has nothing to do with meaning behind the color. It's not about black = good/bad/night/deep/beautiful/whatever. It's about skin color. Society is trying to move on from color being the first and biggest marker of someone's identity. When you are addressing a stranger with their skin color as the leading property, that's offensive in my book.
And I know there are circumstances when that is not only ok but encouraged. But the exchange Cavani had with a fan on Instagram does not fall under those circumstances.
It's not about offending me or my culture. I didn't feel offended by Cavani's post. But it is about societies changing to the better. A few decades ago European societies were ok calling Jewish people all kinds of names. The fact that it was normalised did not make it ok. A few decades before that Americans fought a whole war over the small matter of owning other humans. It was normalised and it took a lot of time to change that.What do you mean by 'society'? Are you referring to Latin American society?
Latin Americans have nicknames that are associated with a personal characteristics. It's part of their culture. It's also fair to say that there are boundaries when using these nicknames and that people have a right to reject them if they are not comfortable with them.
You can't sanitize an entire culture just because it might offend yours.
The only matter of importance here is whether Edinson was being racist when he used that word. They need to look at the discrete context of the interaction and determine whether or not it was racist.
If it wasn't, then Cavani's name should not be tarnished with an association with racist language.
Let's be honest, at not time during human history have the offended had more of a voice than now.What if the offended have no voice?
I do get your point and I do agree that there is a tendency to pick on aspects in a person's physical appearance in Latin American culture. While sometimes it can be funny and affectionate, in others instances it feels crude and even reductive. Surprisingly, the term I found to be used with the most distaste in Latin America was the phrase ('flaca'/'skinny girl').It's not about offending me or my culture. I didn't feel offended by Cavani's post. But it is about societies changing to the better. A few decades ago European societies were ok calling Jewish people all kinds of names. The fact that it was normalised did not make it ok. A few decades before that Americans fought a whole war over the small matter of owning other humans. It was normalised and it took a lot of time to change that.
Calling someone "fatty" is mean but not the same as calling people by their skin color. I don't see the point of debating how and why body shape is different from race and skin color. Hope you get my point.
They has to wait until Cavani was fit for selection to make the charge so it was deemed effective a punishment. No point banning an injured player.I don't understand what took them so long to respond and now why it is so long for us to reply to their charge? The incident happened on Nov 29/30 and by the time the punishment is put in place, it will be well over a month (Jan 4). So we will play 8 games between the time of the incident and a possible suspension? WTF?
Literally a month ago Greg Clarke, their chairman, resigned for being actually racist.The FA are racist?
How can anyone accuse the FA of being racist on this issue?
The FA have been daft yes, but considering how a lot of people throw the word 'racist' around like it is nothing, I guess they are just fitting in.
So not out of touch then.
Good job noone is likely to do that, isn't it?Has anyone said 'pc gone mad' yet?
Whether you like it or not, in the UK many people find this offensive?
You go around and start calling people Negrito in the UK and see how long it is before some slaps you.
I disagree that it is solely up to them to sort it out. Similarly, I do not think it is up to Middle East countries to sort out their treatment of women.I do get your point and I do agree that there is a tendency to pick on aspects in a person's physical appearance in Latin American culture. While sometimes it can be funny and affectionate, in others instances it feels crude and even reductive. Surprisingly, the term I found to be used with the most distaste in Latin America was the phrase ('flaca'/'skinny girl').
Whether or not they should move on from that is beside the point and really a matter for them to sort out. The point is whether or not Cavani should be charged with using racially sensitive language.
In my humble opinion, he has done absolutely nothing wrong, and the idea of charging him because in 'some contexts' the term is racist is flawed. Surely the context of import is the one in which Cavani was writing.
Do you think Cavani was using "black" as something other than to acknowledge the color of the skin of the guy to whom he was responding? It has nothing to do with meaning behind the color. It's not about black = good/bad/night/deep/beautiful/whatever. It's about skin color. Society is trying to move on from color being the first and biggest marker of someone's identity. When you are addressing a stranger with their skin color as the leading property, that's offensive in my book.
And I know there are circumstances when that is not only ok but encouraged. But the exchange Cavani had with a fan on Instagram does not fall under those circumstances.
That's not true though, is it. For centuries for example white christians were the only voice in Europe. And they were offended by everything and everyone that went against their dogma/hegemony/way of life. History is full of the powerful being offended by everything that is different from them and a potential threat to their power.Let's be honest, at not time during human history have the offended had more of a voice than now.
Not true at all. Whether or not a player is injured should play no part of it. Either way, even if that was true, why wait until the 4th? If they charge him today then United should have 2-3 days to respond, not 2-3 weeks...They has to wait until Cavani was fit for selection to make the charge so it was deemed effective a punishment. No point banning an injured player.
Two points:We've said it 100 times in this and the other thread though. The guy Cavani was replying to is not black. Guys in Uruguay and Argentina use the words 'negro' and 'negrito' as a sort of 'bro' or 'dude', 'my dude', 'mate'. Sometimes white to black, black to black, but most often (because of their population make up) white to white. It isn't even a reference to skin color.
I promise you the first time I heard it I was confused as hell (I'm brazilian, my dad is argentine). We were visiting family friends in Argentina, and my dad's friend called his sons 'negro'. All white. I didn't properly make sense to me, but you see that and you come to understand that yeah, they speak like that there.
Did you cut out the rest of my post to make what you are saying correct?That's not true though, is it. For centuries for example white christians were the only voice in Europe. And they were offended by everything and everyone that went against their dogma/hegemony/way of life. History is full of the powerful being offended by everything that is different from them and a potential threat to their power.
I can't comment on that, haven't seen that person at all. Assuming he isn't, what did Cavani mean then?Cavani wasn't referring to his skin colour because by all accounts the guy he was speaking to isn't black.
Have you not being paying attention at all?I can't comment on that, haven't seen that person at all. Assuming he isn't, what did Cavani mean then?
"Buddy", "Brother" or "Bro".I can't comment on that, haven't seen that person at all. Assuming he isn't, what did Cavani mean then?
Well he doesn't say "thank you my white friend" in that scenario, I assume?
This was what I was trying to insinuate, in a clumsy matter.Ah fair enough, I didnt know the context of the quote but was just trying to understand where it would stem from.
Jesus if the guy isn't even black I don't get the controversy as much
The minimum ban is now 3 days so...Bernardo Silva made his controversial tweet on Sept 22. The FA came up with their charge on Oct 2 and he had until Oct 9 to respond. So everything was done and taken care of in 17 days. He punishment was a 50k fine and one game suspension. I remember when it happened thinking "they sure did take their time with this". Well the FA heard my thoughts and said "You think that was bad, wait until you see what we do with Cavani". So Cavani made his post on Nov 29. The FA responded on Dec 17 and he has until Jan 4 to respond. That's 35 days between the incident and suspension. Ridiculous. And his suspension better not be more than 1 game. And considering the crime, even one game would be too much. This whole incident is ridiculous...
Would you call that type of "buddy", "brother" or "bro" to a white person? And why are then locals speaking out that it's high time such terms are being dropped?"Buddy", "Brother" or "Bro".
The problem is not the word but using a person's skin color to identify and address them. In my native tongue "kara" has a positive connotation (because of Turkish history) but that doesn't mean it's alright to call a stranger by their skin color without the absolute need to do so. That's the issue with keeping using such terms. The fact that some countries and societies are ok with it, doesn't make it ok in general. Arab countries are ok with women having little to no rights. Is that ok too then?
And the fact that football clubs adapt to their markets is neither new nor commendable. Most recent example of commercial hipocrisy was the Rainbow Laces initiative which clubs only support where it is ok to openly speak about sexuality. They did not dare to open that discussion in Muslim countries where such reforms are most needed. Hi-po-cri-sy!
P.S. Since you don't have many posts to spend, just update your previous posts and annotate "EDIT 1", "EDIT 2", etc. I'll try to come back to see if you've written something new.
It was part sarcasm to be honest, although I'd argue there's some merit to it.Not true at all. Whether or not a player is injured should play no part of it. Either way, even if that was true, why wait until the 4th? If they charge him today then United should have 2-3 days to respond, not 2-3 weeks...
I had not paid enough attention, it appears. And would still question why are then locals asking for such address to be dropped.Have you not being paying attention at all?
The word itself has come to be used as a general term of endearment. It's all over this thread and the other locked one.
From Wiki:
negrito can also be used, as a term of endearment meaning 'pal'/'buddy'/'friend'. Negrito has thus also come to be used to refer to a person of any ethnicity or color, and also can have a sentimental or romantic connotation similar to 'sweetheart' or 'dear' in English.
It can relate to color of skin but also your eyes, hair etc. it’s simply means darkish.Two points:
1) Antohan (who unless I'm mistaken is Uruguayan and was vociferously defending Cavani) said in the other thread that the term relates to skin colour. The fact that it is also used in that "hey bro" context between white guys wouldn't change the fact that the term inherently carries reference to skin colour, if that is the case. And it appears that using social media to address people in terms that reference skin colour is a problem for the FA, in any language.
2) The bold part highlights its own issue, as @R.N7 rightly points out above. The 87% of people in Uruguay who are white aren't who I'd be turning to to determine how problematic the term is, as they can't dictate how comfortable/uneasy afro-Uruguayans are with its use. It would be good to hear more from the 4% of Uruguayans who are black on how they feel about the term and the way the overwhelmingly white population use it, even before we go beyond that to how other cultures (like the one Cavani is currently living and employed in) perceive the term.
Sure, for an actual racist incident I'd completely agree. But this wasn't and there is a precedent set. Does the precedent not mean anything?The minimum ban is now 3 days so...
It still references skin or hair colour in other contexts but apparently not in a derogatory way. My understanding is its also become a general term of endearment.I had not paid enough attention, it appears. And would still question why are then locals asking for such address to be dropped.
The min ban for what he's been charged with is 3 games.Sure, for an actual racist incident I'd completely agree. But this wasn't and there is a precedent set. Does the precedent not mean anything?
They would. And some people have grown to not like it which is fair enough and it shouldn't be used with them.Would you call that type of "buddy", "brother" or "bro" to a white person? And why are then locals speaking out that it's high time such terms are being dropped?
Then accept it now and miss Southampton, Leeds and Everton and be back for LeicesterIt was part sarcasm to be honest, although I'd argue there's some merit to it.
He has been charged today, why we have until the 4th I don't know.... Is that longer than standard? We can accept the charge at any time up to that date & he will be banned from that date we accept for 3 games. So if we accept today/tomorrow any date up to the 4th he would be banned for 3 games from the following day. In essence we can pick the matches he will miss.... If we accept, which I think we will.
Yep, could do.... but this is Utd so....Then accept it now and miss Southampton, Leeds and Everton and be back for Leicester
Sorry, I only meant to cut out the Orville line and probably messed that up.Did you cut out the rest of my post to make what you are saying correct?
Of course specific subsets always had power.
But never before has a 17 year old young girl from a poor village somewhere had the power to shut down a celebrity because she's offended about something.
Heck il probably be shut down for using a woman in the example above, even though I'm deliberately picking the historically mistreated gender
In your over simplistic view of the situation, maybe.Apologies, I see that he has been charged with using a Spanish phrase that is 'offensive in some contexts'.
That is even more ridiculous.
The only context that matters here is the one that Cavani used it in.
I see most are choosing to ignore this important tweet.I've barely seen any coverage about what Afro-Uruguayans feel about the term, that's the crucial part, not what the white population thinks about it.
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