afrocentricity
Part of first caf team to complete Destiny raid
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Ok, so you can see that all things are not equal/equivalent.The rape joke would likely affect the person who is a rape survivor more than someone who has not experienced it.
The offended-ness of the person who you spoke to does not, in my view, change whether saying something was morally justified or not.
I don't think anyone is justified in holding prejudiced views, irrespective of whether it matters to the victim or not. I think it is only logical to try and view others as individuals and not hold any 'class based' biases.
I dislike all forms of racism but I don't see how anyone could say that all racism is the same. I fail to see how being refused entry to a club/bar/etc as a majority (white being the obvious example) person could feel the same as being refused as a minority for the umpteenth time. Or how being smacked and called a racial slur is equivalent to being smacked and called a racial slur when this has happened to you or those you know many times throughout your life. Or being treated unfairly by authority due to your race just the one time versus one of many times knowing that there isn't much you can do about it as opposed to knowing you can go through the correct channels and have it dealt with accordingly. It is what it is...
Due to the history, due to the past experiences of the individual, they are not equal. How you feel about it probably depends on your ability to empathise with the past experiences of an individual and truly relate to the experience of being a minority subject to discrimination in an imbalanced system. It is what it is... nothing for you to feel guilty over but your perception of it doesn't change what it is.