In those countries you aren't allowed to demonize white people and get away with. Just like you can't do it to the natives in Africa, Latin America, Asia or the Middle East and be scot-free. There's quite a big swerve between having a discussion on race and then peddling a sinister agenda against a whole native race.
"it's not tolerable to acknowledge that white people have an issue with racism" This comes off as racist in itself. Every race has an issue with racism. Every race has plenty of racists. It's not a new concept. The world has operated on tribalism for tens of thousand of years and will continue to do so in the future. All of those "terrorists' the West keeps telling you about tend to fight out of tribalism and nationalism more than anything else. You can't fix racism until people exist because people are inherently tribal and will always stick to their own.
As for the free speech. There's no such thing in the West. There's only what's acceptable today. I know Westerners love their buzzwords - free speech, freedom of expression, rights, free market, democracy. Give me a stat on how many westerners have lost their jobs in the last couple of years for having an opinion that doesn't align with the daily agenda? Why is everyone so frightened in the West nowadays? Could it be because they're afraid of the consequences, if they brake from the path of the narrative? Freedom of speech you say? Comical. And to think they like to parade as a cradle of democracy nowadays. The Greeks are having an eternal laugh.
