I'm not saying you or anyone else said that. I'm just pointing out the argument that would be made to point out that there is no danger in having a loaded gun in the open unless you do something to it to make it fire. I've been going into the woods and sitting there with a loaded gun in my lap since I was about 12. It wasn't dangerous unless I did something that I had been taught not to.I didn't say they were doing anything illegal and nobody would begin to argue that the gun is sentient and is going to start shooting if not locked away. Anyone who started trying to argue that would be an idiot carrying out a completely pointless exercise. Using an argument that nobody even tried to say as a way of avoiding the actual discussion which is that it increases the risk massively of accidents occurring either with themselves or with their children. Now if people say 'hey that's fine, I accept that doing this means it's more likely I will have an accident or my child will shoot himself in the face' then fair enough. They're dickheads, whatever like you said it's not illegal to just keep a loaded gun on the table. But what actually happens is that they come back with 'but my guns are locked away and stored safely because I'm a responsible gun owner'. Which renders your point about leaving them on the table moot, because nobody admits to doing that. The discussion is usually centred around a gun being locked away not being able to protect you unless you have it on you. Which carries a huge risk with it. Which most people don't admit to being okay with.
Calling people names because they have a different comfort level around guns doesn't really do anything to further the debate. And again, people have different circumstances that dictate their storage of guns. Man who lives by himself has a loaded gun sitting on the coffee table. Big deal? I think not. Family man with toddlers around the house has a loaded gun sitting on the coffee table. Big deal? I think so. 2 totally different circumstances there.