You cant offend because none of your opinions are based on facts, they are based on stuff you read online written by other people who dont base their writings on facts.
I sleep perfectly well most night when there are no rocket sirens, and I know that I served in the most humane army on the planet that does whatever it can in order to prevent civilan deaths. I know that every misconduct in interogated and every soldier who made a wrong choice is punished. We live and die by the principles that are instilled within as from the day we are drafted until the day we get released, and "purity of weapon" is the first thing we are taught.
If I had any trouble sleeping, I would probably pay a shrink, not try to convince people online.