This was always going to be the case which is why, even if you support the fundamentals of "tuk r cuntry bak", it's still bloody stupid to vote leave.
We won't get the money back, we will pay for as close to tariff free access as poss. Nor will the ECJ stop being the supreme court, because someone needs to mediate in cross jurisdictional disputes, nor will we stop having to meet EU regulation, because if you want to sell on the EU market, it has to meet their standards and, immigration will not be stopped either because regardless of all the frothy shite, it is economically beneficial.
This was clear from day one. By voting out, no one gets what they want, and handful of disaster capitalists are going to make a killing, while the Tories sell your rights and protections down the river.