Cavani gets 3 match ban from FA for his social media post

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Well, Cavani clearly was not addressing the whole world. He was addressing his personal friend. He is a public figure, but it surely doesn't mean every word he utters has public significance, does it? That is not fair.

Should he be allowed to behave like a real Uruguayan? Is there something called cultural understanding? Digging out a racist where there is only affectionate message between friends? Is that a good way to influence young people? Probably not. Offence-taking is not helpful for anyone.

I am sure the fact that he is a Manchester United player is playing a part in the indignation here, but it has little to do with the argument that FA is losing the plot.
Instagram has perhaps 2 billion accounts all over the world - when you post on this, you address the world. Cultural understanding and diversity works two ways - over 60% of the world is not white, including me, but I do understand that the Spanish interpretation is different. What is the solution?
 

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What skin colour are you? It has noting to do with British culture specifically. I understand there is a different dialect, like I said, i do not claim to understand it. One thing for sure is there are many people that will interpret the N word differently. When you have X million followers, you need to have the brains to consider this. It is called sophistication. He can do what he likes in private. It didn't offend me personally, but I know people who are of a different skin colour that did not appreciate that one bit. That my friend, is called cultural difference.
If you lived 3 years in Argentina surely you know that negro and negrito are not the same as the n word, right? It took me all of a week spent there to realize that they call close friends and family by those words, regardless of skin tone.
Instagram has perhaps 2 billion accounts all over the world - when you post on this, you address the world. Cultural understanding and diversity works two ways - over 60% of the world is not white, including me, but I do understand that the Spanish interpretation is different. What is the solution?
The solution is openness and dialogue, not punishment.
 

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If you lived 3 years in Argentina surely you know that negro and negrito are not the same as the n word, right? It took me all of a week spent there to realize that they call close friends and family by those words, regardless of skin tone.

The solution is openness and dialogue, not punishment.
Fair enough, I am not as clever as your sir. What about all the people in the world that have not lived there? I would love for you to strategise that solution.
 

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Let the Uruguayan FA fight it, I want Utd and Cavani to stay well away from this and not get wrapped up in what is the very definition of a storm in a tea-cup.
Absolutely. It was just bullying normalized. I'm almost 40yo now, so things have changed a bit now for the new generations.

There wasn't a big deal with using the words Negro or Negrito because we didn't have many real black people in Chile, Uruguay or Argentina. There wasn't a connection/implication with the pain suffered by black African slaves in Brazil or USA. Ignorance is bliss as they say.

But now (at least in Chile), we have plenty real black skinned people arriving from Haiti, Colombia, Venezuela, etc, so there is some re-education going on. Some people, specially the older generations, are quite racists towards them an treat them like shit. It's not surprising to read racist comments in the online newspapers.

But the newer generations are more open minded and the future looks brighter.
So are you saying its an anachronism and should be phased out? It certainly seems to be a racial identifier even if done mostly with no malice and even affection, but the fact it can be a perjorative also and said with the intent to offend someone with dark skin is obviously a big issue. British society has moved away from such things and it is perhaps understandable why the FA is intolerant of such words despite no ill intent from Cavani.
 
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No idea why people keep insisting its a term of endearment in South America. England is not South America. What happened to "when in rome".

Being homosexual maybe be normal in England but in some countries you get thrown off the buildings. Get it?
So England should become like countries that throw people after buildings, right?
 

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Firstly, thank you for your response - the other responses I have had are truly pathetic but I like yours. I appreciate Argentina a lot, I lived in Boca and then Recoleta for 3 years whilst working there. I also took the ferry over to Uruguay and not once did I experience negative behaviour to the colour of my skin, hence I do not call Cavani a racist.

I do not have evidence to suggest the FA punishes everything, but one thing I know is that we have a huge problem with racism. Like I said, I do not claim to understand the meaning of the statement, but given over 60% of the global population is not white, do you not think that a lot of people may interpret that differently? That is all I am saying - unless someone wants to come out at the other angel and educate others on the interpretation. Diversity is a diverse subject, it swings both ways!
I see the British never fully abandoned anglo-imperialism, at least not linguistically. I somehow can understand it, as most British don't take the time to learn another language, probably because their own language mostly suffices in international relations. Being of Indian decent, you may (or may not) be more linguistically open-minded than most Brits. I have no claim whatsoever to understand Uruguayan spanish, being it culturally or linguistically. Your experiences in Uruguay, as interesting and fulfilling as they may have been, have no relation to this case. Your visit doesn't give you a high ground on judging Cavani's words or action, neither does your experience in being called the P-word. There are a lot of "n-words". In latin languages many forms of the word 'nigro' or 'negro' have a rather non-controversial, matter-of-fact, colour descriptive semantic. You know this - we all should know this by now.

If you use all the people in the world as your point of reference, I think you are on a slippery slope. You will always find someone offended (or claiming to be) by any statement put forward. Please don't suggest we should all be offended if someone made a statement in another language which sounds bad if it was in our own language. People eager to externalise all the world's problems will jump at the opportunity to chastise yet another group of people they can separate from their own demographic group.

Revise your morals, actions and increase your sensitivity to your surroundings? Yes, that's a good thing. Revise the world's dictionaries for words that come across rude or offensive in English? I think you'll have a lifetime wallowing in anger and frustration. I certainly don't want any British cnuts to come and tell me to rename my son. His name is Simen, a form of Simon. And yes, it is pronounced "see-men"...
 
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You're quite mistaken here in your comparison. The Suarez incident and verdict have almost nothing to do with this judgment and the Suarez case does not set precedent that can be used here. If it did, then Cavani would not have been sanctioned as the FAs ruling against Suarez was that his usage was intended to be abusive or insulting even though they acknowledged that 'negro' could at times be used inoffensively.

That being said, your position is supported by the Bernardo Silva ruling, which notes the impact of what was intended to be a friendly exchange being posted on social media where millions of viewers may not know the context and take offense.
I don't think Bernardo nor Cavani get bans unless the Suarez incident and the fallout from it happens first.

They're completely different cases and situations but it was where the FA had to first confront the use of the n-word and variations of it in Latin culture/language and declare that it doesn't matter how friendly they are with each other, it's just banned.

Obviously we know Suarez' defence was a load of bullshit but it brought the context of negrito into question and the FA took the easy option losing any chance of nuance if anyone used any varation that sounds like the n-word in the process. Same for anything that might be considered a friendly joke between two mates but could be misconstrued as racist in Bernardo's case.

They allowed people who don't speak spanish and don't use negrito in a familiar, friendly way to immediately kick off if it was ever used. If Suarez had never done what he did then the individual occurences couldve been mediated and explained a lot clearer without the kick off, at least, in my opinion.

And @Rado_N I'll admit I'm wrong on the rare occasion that I am :D The 'it' I referred to was the incident, not the word negrito and I won't hear otherwise.:rolleyes:
 
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Fair enough, I am not as clever as your sir. What about all the people in the world that have not lived there? I would love for you to strategise that solution.
All the others that have no idea what Cavani meant?

Maybe - just maybe - they should just stop being annoying cancel culture nazis that stick their noses into things they have no idea of.

But nowadays a lot of people get offended by every little fart that actually shouldn't even concern them in the slightest.
 

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What a disgrace. The decision of FA is as bad as racism. Pure ignorance. Orwell-like behavior. It is clear that Cavani was talking to his mate. How is this even a discussion is beyond me. Shame on you FA. We are with you Negrito!
I don’t think you understand what George Orwell is about? Unless you’re referring to some of the fictional characters in his books?
 

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I don't think Bernardo nor Cavani get bans unless the Suarez incident and the fallout from it happens first.

They're completely different cases and situations but it was where the FA had to first confront the use of the n-word and variations of it in Latin culture/language and declare that it doesn't matter how friendly they are with each other, it's just banned.

Obviously we know Suarez' defence was a load of bullshit but it brought the context of negrito into question and the FA took the easy option losing any chance of nuance if anyone used any varation that sounds like the n-word in the process.

They allowed people who don't speak spanish and don't use negrito in a familiar, friendly way to immediately kick off if it was ever used. If Suarez had never done what he did then the individual occurences couldve been mediated and explained a lot clearer without the kick off, at least, in my opinion.

And @Rado_N I'll admit I'm wrong on the rare occasion that I am :D
You'll need to get on that last bit right away then, as the Suarez verdict repeatedly notes that the charge came about because of where it took place (on the field of play) and also that context in the usage of these kinds of words is important. ;)

Like I said, the precedent for the Cavani verdict comes from the Silva case.
 

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All the others that have no idea what Cavani meant?

Maybe - just maybe - they should just stop being annoying cancel culture nazis that stick their noses into things they have no idea of.

But nowadays a lot of people get offended by every little fart that actually shouldn't even concern them in the slightest.
And almost without trying you have shown your true colours.
 

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So are you saying its an anachronism and should be phased out? It certainly seems to be a racial identifier even if done mostly with no malice and even affection, but the fact it can be a perjorative also and said with the intent to offend someone with dark skin is obviously a big issue. British society has moved away from such things and it is perhaps understandable why the FA is intolerant of such words despite no ill intent from Cavani.
Yeah. In a world where certain height, weight, skin tone, hair colour, etc is more desirable than other, I think we should stick to call ourselves by our names and not by nicknames derived from physical traits. Specially for kids, even if eventually getting used to it, it will definitely, at different degrees, affect their self esteem and confidence growing up.
 

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Firstly, thank you for your response - the other responses I have had are truly pathetic but I like yours. I appreciate Argentina a lot, I lived in Boca and then Recoleta for 3 years whilst working there. I also took the ferry over to Uruguay and not once did I experience negative behaviour to the colour of my skin, hence I do not call Cavani a racist.

I do not have evidence to suggest the FA punishes everything, but one thing I know is that we have a huge problem with racism. Like I said, I do not claim to understand the meaning of the statement, but given over 60% of the global population is not white, do you not think that a lot of people may interpret that differently? That is all I am saying - unless someone wants to come out at the other angel and educate others on the interpretation. Diversity is a diverse subject, it swings both ways!
Of course there are going to be people that interpret Cavani’s message differently, but that doesn’t mean that he did something punishable.
And IMO the rule FA e3.1 doesn’t apply to this case.

BTW i live in recoleta, were did you live?
 

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All the others that have no idea what Cavani meant?

Maybe - just maybe - they should just stop being annoying cancel culture nazis that stick their noses into things they have no idea of.

But nowadays a lot of people get offended by every little fart that actually shouldn't even concern them in the slightest.
Well I get the point around culture Nazis from first hand experience. Yes people get offended in different ways so we should find ways to be more inclusive, not compare it to farts.
 

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Instagram has perhaps 2 billion accounts all over the world - when you post on this, you address the world. Cultural understanding and diversity works two ways - over 60% of the world is not white, including me, but I do understand that the Spanish interpretation is different. What is the solution?
There is no solution in this case because there should have been no problem here. Cavani is addressing to his friend affectionately. This case, if anything, is a great moment for people in different cultures to learn about mutual understanding. Instead, some people and FA found racism in it.

FA is clearly punishing a person who did not show any racism intention because FA think he is a racist. How could this be justified?
 

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Of course there are going to be people that interpret Cavani’s message differently, but that doesn’t mean that he did something punishable.
And IMO the rule FA e3.1 doesn’t apply to this case.

BTW i live in recoleta, were did you live?
Yeah I do revise my initial thoughts on his punishment, but something needs to be done. I am now thinking social media needs to do more.

I lived down Pena, very close to Parque Las Heras. Absolutely stunning area, I loved the area around Plaza Intendente Torcuato de Alvear.
 

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There is no solution in this case because there should have been no problem here. Cavani is addressing to his friend affectionately. This case, if anything, is a great moment for people in different cultures to learn about mutual understanding. Instead, some people and FA found racism in it.

FA is clearly punishing a person who did not show any racism intention because FA think he is a racist. How could this be justified?
Well actually the solution is social media now that I have had a moment to consolidate the responses. Twitter now prompts us with miss-information, perhaps we should be prompted with these differences.
 

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There is no solution in this case because there should have been no problem here. Cavani is addressing to his friend affectionately. This case, if anything, is a great moment for people in different cultures to learn about mutual understanding. Instead, some people and FA found racism in it.

FA is clearly punishing a person who did not show any racism intention because FA think he is a racist. How could this be justified?
You talk about an opportune example for people to learn, to create mutual understanding, yet I feel as though your frame of reference here is very one sided. You aren't interested in Uruguayans understanding why that ethnic term, however its used, is part of the problem and needs to be solved, and ceased immediately. Rather you have developed a battering ram approach which will do your cause no favours whatsover
 

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Yeah I do revise my initial thoughts on his punishment, but something needs to be done. I am now thinking social media needs to do more.

I lived down Pena, very close to Parque Las Heras. Absolutely stunning area, I loved the area around Plaza Intendente Torcuato de Alvear.
So you lived close to Coronel Diaz and Avenida del Libertador ave. Great place,
 

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No idea why people keep insisting its a term of endearment in South America. England is not South America. What happened to "when in rome".

Being homosexual maybe be normal in England but in some countries you get thrown off the buildings. Get it?
Its really strange that you think a FA ruling speaks for the country as a whole.
 

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Seems to be a consensus that the FA may have been in their rights to flag it, but their response perhaps overly punitive. But I understand the precedent that they are trying to set. So in hindsight it may have been the right'ish decision but whether they clumsily arrived at it or it was done with nuance and understanding remains to be seen.

I just wish muppets would stop going on about PC culture.
 

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Evening Antohan.

There was another reply to that question... "Those mestizos, who are not African black skinned (just a bit browner than the typical euro Argentine or Uruguayan or Chilean), usually gets the nickname "negro" "negrito", by his whiter friends.

For example, at my school in Chile (a British private school), the majority of students were european white skinned, but a few were mestizos. Those mestizos, would typically get the nickname "negro" or "negrito" pretty early in the school days (just as short people would get some nickname related to his height, same for the fat one, the ginger one, etc). If his name is for example, Carlos Perez, he would be nicknamed, "El Negro" Perez. Usually, the nickname sticks till you are an adult, specially with your childhood friends.

When used outside your friend's circle, talking about or to someone else you don't know, it will usually be as a pejorative."

Is that the case in Uruguay?
I replied to that here.

With regards to that last bit in negritas (yes, I'll make a point of using the Spanish term for bold font from now on) it's absolutely right. I can call my mate "gordo" (fatty), "ñato" (big nose), "mono" (monkey) or "negro" (black). It would make no sense to use such terms to randomly address strangers and yes, it would be offensive in that case.

Even if not a randomer but an "acquaintance", you sort of have to earn the right to use such nicknames, it's a sign of being close to that person. In fact you can test what someone thinks of you in terms of closeness by calling them by their nickname for the first time. Very often the reaction gets you straight back to first name basis :lol:
 

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Well actually the solution is social media now that I have had a moment to consolidate the responses. Twitter now prompts us with miss-information, perhaps we should be prompted with these differences.
offering "solutions" for a "problem" that should not have existed in the first place is just not a good idea. In fact, that is certainly not in my mind.

I just think Cavani should not be punished on the ground of suspicious racism, because he is not a racist. FA should apologize.
 

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offering "solutions" for a "problem" that should not have existed in the first place is just not a good idea. In fact, that is certainly not in my mind.

I just think Cavani should not be punished on the ground of suspicious racism, because he is not a racist. FA should apologize.
When there is a problem, you need a solution so I disagree with that entirely. You can say "things should not have existed in the first place" for a milliom things, but they happened.
 

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Instagram has perhaps 2 billion accounts all over the world - when you post on this, you address the world. Cultural understanding and diversity works two ways - over 60% of the world is not white, including me, but I do understand that the Spanish interpretation is different. What is the solution?
Honestly, the best solution to this is for people not to make such a huge effort to be offended by everything.

It must be exhausting.
 

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When there is a problem, you need a solution so I disagree with that entirely. You can say "things should not have existed in the first place" for a milliom things, but they happened.
You might be right.

FA should look at themselves in the mirrow and ask: what caused the decision to be made?
 

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Just to clarify, "Negrito" is also used as a pejorative word in South America. It depends on the tone and who you talking to.

In Cavani's case, it was clearly in the affectionate sense to a close friend, but it's understandable why some of his instagram followers not from Uruguay/South America, could have misinterpret it.
That's kinda true but at least in Uruguay negrito or any word with the 'ito' suffix is never really used as an insulting word as the 'ito' at the end of the word makes it a friendly term. It can be used in very rare occasions to make a racist comment but it would be very rare as it would sound weird most of the time unless it's just friends taking the piss out of each other. If someone wanted to make a racist comment then they would use the word Negro 99% of the time along with an insulting adjective as that makes it more agressive. You would know in Spanish words such as negro are not expressed or seen in a negative way unless they have a negative connotation/adjective attached.

You made another point with darker skinned people in Chile, Argentina and Uruguay having to do with the indigenous races. In Uruguay we actually have more afro descendants with strong African roots as we took in a few of the slaves that came with the Spanish (and freed them) so it's not just with our indigenous people but we actually have quite a strong African influence (just take a look at Candombe). I don't know about Chile but in Uruguay the word negrito is not really tied to race so much it can be just as simple as having black hair. My mum is white with green eyes but has black hair and everyone in our family calls her negra or negrita.
 
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Didn't Ali get only 1 match ban and 50k$ for actually rascism against Asians?
 

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I didn't say British culture did I? I said Europe. Do you understand the statement? Do you understand that people of colour may interpret that differently? Have you been called words before? As a newbie, you really need to learn some sophistication before you open your mouth.
European culture? Even worse. You obviously don't understand South American culture and in which situations that expression is used nor do you care one bit.
Don't use that patronizing tone with me. Cheers.
 
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Seems to be a consensus that the FA may have been in their rights to flag it, but their response perhaps overly punitive. But I understand the precedent that they are trying to set. So in hindsight it may have been the right'ish decision but whether they clumsily arrived at it or it was done with nuance and understanding remains to be seen.

I just wish muppets would stop going on about PC culture.
Nuance and understanding was out of the window when they gave him a 3 match band, 100k fine and demanded face to face education!
 

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Nuance and understanding was out of the window when they gave him a 3 match band, 100k fine and demanded face to face education!
You are analyzing their punishment not their interpretation of events and the logic behind giving out the punishment.
 

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You are analyzing their punishment not their interpretation of events and the logic behind giving out the punishment.
I think you are splitting hairs. The level of punishment and the logic are linked.

The punishment shows what conclusion they came too and so also gives away some of their thought process.
 

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I don’t think you understand what George Orwell is about? Unless you’re referring to some of the fictional characters in his books?
They are fictional, but that doesn't mean that they behaviour can not be applied on real characters. This ban decision is like from 1984. You can not use some words of your own language if you want to work under FA just because they look similar to N word, even though they are not the same and have completely different meaning. They basically called Cavani racist for nothing.
 

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They are fictional, but that doesn't mean that they behaviour can not be applied on real characters. This ban decision is like from 1984. You can not use some words of your own language if you want to work under FA just because they look similar to N word, even though they are not the same and have completely different meaning. They basically called Cavani racist for nothing.
Yeah I understand where you’re coming from now. Very ‘Big Brother’. 1984 is one of my favourite books by the way.