Believe me, I'm not a blind patriot. On most topics of Indian politics my positions are "anti-national" or "commie traitor." India has a
long history of playing one faction against the other when in a conflict with extremists. The most infamous example being
Bhindranwale in Punjab. There were many factions within the Sikh movement but the government promoted the most radical, thinking that they would weaken the more popular factions and could then be remote controlled. This gamble eventually led to the army storming the holiest site of the Sikhs and then the murder of the PM. We have done similar with multiple insurgencies in the North East, always playing one faction against the other to the point that one of the factions pretty much has the state's blessing.
Our terrible handling of Kashmir has seen a leftist and mostly non-religious movement of the 1950s being repressed for decades and eventually replaced by violent Jihadis by the 90s (a parallel with Hamas replacing Fatah as the legitimate voice).
It makes perfect sense that we would thus be involved with militants within Pakistan, and with the capture of spies in Baluchistan there's not much to deny.
Now, having got my liberal self-hate out of the way...
The problem is false equivalence.
"You have been brainwashed to believe that Pak has pet snakes for years"
I'm afraid this is just publicly declared policy: "death by a thousand cuts". It's public knowledge about the ISI-CIA-Taliban link, an operation of collaboration with terrorists across borders on a scale that India AFAIK hasn't come close to matching. OBL was in Abbottabad, and leaders of terrorist organisations which operate within Kashmir move around openly today in Pakistan.
The thread title is Kashmir. Kashmiris have been caught between a game between 2 powers since 1948 when the Pakistan government decided to back an invasion into Kashmir and the Indian govt decided not to hold the promised referendum. The conflict
must be prolonged, it is the reason for the existence of the Pakistan army and half the reason for the Indian army (the other half is the Chinese border). Almost every single statement made by either side, expressing concern for human rights, demanding dialogue but with certain conditions, promising armed liberation, is cynical propaganda for the audience at home.